The top 5 things NOT to do on a first date

The top 5 things NOT to do on a first date

Post Time: 9/22/2009 8:11:00 PM

You have emailed each other on the dating site, chatted on the phone and finally decided to meet each other in person! This is a great step forward. But who knows who you are going to meet and what the result of your meeting will be. So, here are some points to bear in mind when you go out for the first date: the top 5 things NOT to do on a first date. 1. Do not meet in the mountains, valleys, remote, wild areas where you can be disappeared without being noticed. Instead, meet in public places with plenty of people near by and a pleasant but not noisy circumstance, such as a café, a restaurant, a shopping mall, a city park, an art gallery, a movie theatre… 2. Do not talk about your previous relationships in a hurry. This may cause confusion, jealousy, resentment, distance, misjudgment and misunderstanding. Wait until you know each other pretty well and then you can discuss this matter with your new partner. 3. Do not try to have sex on the first date. Too much intimacy at the first date will bring down the value of a lady and it should be definitely avoided. This also can cause confusion, misunderstanding, unnecessary physical attachment, lower brain functionality, and misjudgment of a situation and connection. 4. Do not look away at other opposite-sex-passers-by while chatting with your first date. Maybe you two don’t click at all. Ending the meeting as soon as possible is much better than checking on other possibilities while being together. 5. Do not brag about yourself too much on the first date. We all want to impress people who impressed us. But being self-centered is not equal to being interesting and attractive. Overstatements don’t make you a better choice, but a lesser one. www.Date1n1.com (英文) www.Date1n1.net (中文)