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陪妈妈

(2010-05-06 23:40:17) 下一个

读了一个朋友的回家看妈妈的文章,不禁想起陪妈妈度过的幸福时光。

妈妈只有三个儿子,很羡慕别人由女儿陪着逛街看戏。不知为什么,我在十岁左右,就开始陪妈妈看戏。妈妈不喜欢看电影,喜欢看各种戏剧。爸爸工作忙,大多次都是我陪妈妈去。像黄梅戏的天仙配,豫剧的七品芝麻官,和样板戏的红灯记。喜欢各种艺术的美,更享受和妈妈一起的幸福。每年元宵灯会,我也是等妈妈忙完了陪她一起去。直到离开家去北京上大学。

来美国留学后,陪妈妈的时间越来越少,虽然每一个母亲节我都会寄礼物给她。直到她要飘洋过海来陪我。几乎每天晚饭后,我就陪妈妈去附近的公园散步。迎面经常碰到很多的邻居,也是来美国探亲的爸爸妈妈们。他们对妈妈说:”你儿子好孝顺,天天陪你散步“。妈妈总说“孩子们都挺孝顺”,很知足地笑。最难忘的是我陪妈妈去大峡谷和赌城拉斯维加斯的四天旅程。长途巴士上的谈笑风生,大峡谷畔驻足留影。捧着一大罐硬币跟在妈妈的身旁,看她玩老虎机露出灿烂的笑容。

此后妈妈就再也没能来美国,因为检查出肺癌末期。在妈妈最后的日子里,我幸运地能在医院陪她。她曾经是如此的健康和坚强,是我一直的支柱和肩膀,竟如此虚弱地躺在床上。我一口一口喂她吃饭,一点一点为她擦脸,每夜每天。最后一次陪她是在绿树葱葱的山上,她在里边,我在外边。

妈妈,总有一天我会找到你,永远陪在你身旁,不论是在人间还是在天堂。。。

2010.05.06

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盈袖2006 回复 悄悄话 虽然妈妈羡慕别人有女儿,但显然你对他的陪伴更令她窝心.尤其在她最后的日子,她一定很安慰.
曾宁 回复 悄悄话 你 母亲还是幸福的,有你在身边照料
seaviewwind 回复 悄悄话 Thanks for sharing her story with me today. I am also impreessed by your mom by her wisdom, courage and caring. You must be proud to have such a loving and caring mom.

Now she is looking at you in another world, be strong, be happy, for yourself, furthermore, for your mom!

She is watching you! Don't dispoint her! I know you won't!
落花飘零 回复 悄悄话 hug hug. every moment you spent with your mom was her best time, and also is your best memory, you should be happy you have so much memory with her, lots people don't even have that luxury.
everyone passes away eventually, your mom had you with her at the time she was leaving this world, that's the best you could do for her.
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