圆西瓜
Take the road less traveled....
有了度假屋之后，我们常去那儿度周末。我喜欢在秋天的清晨，无人的海边欣赏日出，看着天边的几抹彩霞褪色，又走近沙滩变望着前浪推着后浪，一层层消失在沙滩上。"人类一思考，上帝就发笑". 在这独处的时间里，我可以默默思考又或者让大脑里一片空白，单纯的呼吸着海边咸咸的海风。
我有亲密的女朋友圈，六人行，我们一起读书，学弹琴。她们对我的评价是聪明，温暖，非常值得信任。awesome and the best..在需要的时候，我非常外向和热情。可是，随着年龄的增长，我越来越享受能够短暂独处的乐趣。
独处确不是孤独。Solitude ...让我有时间探索自己。每段时间我的精神力量成长了多少。骨子里我从小就是个独立特行的人。在这个世界上最不缺的就是人云亦云的吃瓜群众。如果你要和大多数的想法不一样，就要承担很多非议。与其花时间和无聊的人呆在一起，我宁愿一个人读股票评论和market watch.
有趣的是，英国做过一个调查，得出结论。
Why Very Smart People Are Happiest Alone
Quality time = alone time.
In a just-published study about how our ancestral needs impact our modern feelings, researchers uncovered something that will surprise few among the highly intelligent. While most people are happier when they’re surrounded by friends, smart people are happier when they’re not.
The researchers, Norman P. Li and Satoshi Kanazawa, of the Singapore Management University, Singapore and the London School of Economics and Political Science, UK, respectively, were investigating the “savannah theory” of happiness.
The savannah theory — also called the “evolutionary legacy hypothesis” and the “mismatch hypothesis” — posits that we react to circumstances as our ancestors would, having evolved psychologically based on our ancestors’ needs in the days when humankind lived on the savannah.
The study analyzed data from interviews conducted by the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (Add Health) in 2001-2002 with 15,197 individuals aged 18–28. The researchers looked for a correlation between where an interviewee lived — in a rural or urban area — and his or her life satisfaction. They were interested in assessing how population density and friendships affect happiness.
所以说，如果你也像我一样，喜欢Solitude . .我们可能是同路人。
闲闲你也是很温暖聪明和人缘好的，看你的博客就知道你很会生活。。
我是超级可靠的，所以好几个人想做我的好朋友，我要考虑滴。
大过年的让我写黑暗丑，好吧，好吧，今天写。lol.
哈哈，周一到周五要融入生活的。碰到赖人就闪了。