吼吼，关于瑞信女事件套到点只言片语，赶快拿出来8一下 ^_^

一个渣打中层insider讲，水灰常的深。瑞信女的是人行副行长的女儿（和网上说的不一样，不过我倾向于友人的说法），男的是做PE,背景也相当深，这个事情的梁子结大了，而且远远不是什么小三不小三的事
而且友人说事情很复杂，三言两语说不清。不过他透露：这个事才刚刚开幕，真正的好戏还未上演。

时间十分的有限，没套出其他来，不过友人promise会及时update。


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以下是dig出来的帖子，帮助大家理解

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先来一张图片，描述的文中人物关系全图



故事大致的来龙去脉：

投行八卦多的原因有这样几点，一是钱多，VP起年收入就上200万了。二是工作太忙，不认识别人，肉欲只能内部消化。三是投行男大多上学时是书呆子，不受喜爱小阿飞的萝莉们欢迎，于是有了成就后疯狂乱搞女性取得心理平衡。各位听说过中金实习生3P事件吗？

先爆点劲爆的引子，瑞信渣打小三事件的番外篇（为何是番外我只能密告安替）新加坡女怒斥中金男，男主角的母亲是人行副行长。不过这男的人很好

先从新加坡女怒斥中金男讲起，话说本人的标准觉得男女谈恋爱只要不长期脚踩多条船，偶然换手的时候有点交错期是可以理解的。能做到这一点的投行男已经很少见了，这位中金同学大体算做到了。但是他引出了另一个教训，千万要小心IT女啊！

话说该中金男和女友若干年前一起去英国读书，在英国认识了一 ABC IBM技术女，两人好了几年，该男去香港渣打PE工作后又交了新女友。木有想到ABC怀恨在心，给该男和其新女友分别下了木马，进了他们的邮箱。增补一点，该男在渣打的老板就是渣打小三的情儿。

话说该IBM ABC看到瑞信渣打小三事件后，深受启发。先冒用中金男的名义把他跟同事议论老板（也就是渣打小三情儿）的邮件转发给了渣打全公司。。。该老板因为被戳穿已经暴怒鸟（完全不是邮件里那个讲理的正人君子样）。然后又用新加坡女的名义发了那封著名的怒斥邮件。

在八卦事件中大家要善于运用文本分析，例如该ABC冒充新加坡女发的邮件大家细读很容易发现有些句型不是第一人称叙述该有的。不过我觉得里面控诉中金男对三个女友用三种不同的避孕套这个桥段很赞，如果是IBM ABC女杜撰的，丫可真是一个优秀的IT理科女啊，木有给我们理科生丢人

如果热爱八卦的同学认真分析瑞信渣打小三事件的邮件抬头，你们会发现更劲爆的八卦，那就是那些邮件其实是小三贴出去的。具体分析方法请大家自学:-)膜拜小三的同学给你们泼个冷水，那就是投行的活没那么难干，所以投行经常出现秘书睡了老板转了Pro让一堆正规出来的Pro气背过气的事情



新加坡女的怒斥邮件（据闻是 ABC IBM IT女冒名发送的）

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Sent: Fri Mar 12 12:17:58 2010
Subject: WL = Lying Asshole

WL,
you are a liar and a cheater! I left my husband and Singapore for you,
thinking I can finally find happiness. Last August when we got
intimate during our Nanjing project, you promised to abandon your
second fiancée for me. But it\'s been seven months and you\'re still
telling me to stay hidden because you don\'t want our coworkers, your
friends and family to know you\'re living with a married woman who is
not your wife. Well, I just found out that the real reason you want
everyone to think you\'re single is because you\'re secretly whoring
around with at least two other 情妇 at the same time! One is a married
client of SC and the other one is a 21-year-old high school dropout
from the 峰尚 project where we worked together! I can’t believe you are
screwing around with so many women on company time. Did being on the
Board of Directors at 峰尚 help you to score? No wonder it always took
you so long to get work done! And I finally understand why you carried
around three separate boxes of condoms in your brown travel bag. I
always wondered why you bought so many since it’s not like we were able
to use a lot anyway.
You explained that you were using the
married woman to curry favors from her husband’s business. How does
that explain the intimate exchanges you continue to have after you\'ve
gone to CICC and why would she offer to buy you expensive gifts? What
“services” do you perform for her? Don’t you feel ashamed that your
ex-fiancée subsidized your housing for the last two years and to keep
you happy, had to buy you expensive things like the USD$300 shoes
you’re wearing on your feet and the USD$500 flashlight you keep in your
car, only to have you turn around and cheat on her?
I’m
telling everyone at SC and CICC you are a 卑鄙小人and not to trust you
without adult supervision on company projects, because you will surely
take advantage of company resources to cheat, lie, and sleep around
with anyone from the office.
Shame on you, WL! Go back to your mommy.

然后是瑞信女的控诉邮件

-----邮件原件-----

--------------------瑞信女的控诉 ------------------------------


发件人: Zhang, Lily [mailto:[e-mail]]
发送时间: 2010年2月23日 10:23
收件人: Tao, Diane; [e-mail]; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens,Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee,Andrew; [e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail];[e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail];[e-mail]; [e-mail]; Shiu, Ruby;[e-mail]; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang,Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum; Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei;[e-mail]; Prince, Jamaliah
抄送: Yale Yang
主题: Dear friends ... Moving on ..

Dear friends,
After 13 years and 2 beautiful children together, Yale and I have parted our ways. Yale moved out last week.

Dear Diane/Tao Dan Yang,
Overthe past couple of years, you knew everything about my family. You knewwhen my kids had their soccer tournaments, you knew when they had theirswimming practices. You even knew their baby nicknames. On December18th, 2009, on a noon flight, I took my children to the U.S. forChristmas vacation. On the very same day, December 18th, 2009, on anafternoon flight, you and Yale took off for the beaches of Phuket andshopping streets of Bangkok for Christmas vacation. Diane, as a fellowwoman, I often wondered if the level of ecstasy this vacation hadbrought you equates to the level of devastation this vacation hadbrought to my children and me. Diane, I often asked myself what was itlike for you to sleep in the arms of another woman\'s husband, otherchildren\'s father? I wondered if you ever thought about us, thechildren and the wife, that we are made of flesh and blood, that wehave feelings, that we could get hurt, very hurt, devastatingly hurt. Ipondered if you knew you were destroying a family, if you knew your joywould bring endless tears to us.

We went to Beijing last weekfor Chinese New Year. Your clothes were in our Beijing home. My sonscreamed: Mommy, don\'t touch those, they are disgusting! Set them onfire, burn them to hell. They are the devil\'s cloth! My children arehurt. My daughter, 9 years old, now says Mommy, I don\'t ever want toget married. My son, 8 years old, says Diane is our Voldemort! Thepsychological damage this affair has done to my children iscatastrophic. They are forever emotionally damaged. With this, Iannounce you the winner.
How do I feel, Diane? This affair is like10 thousand knives stabbing and chopping my heart all at once. Thisaffair has left me in so much pain that I don\'t know how to healmyself. This affair has taught me tear supply can actually be infinite.This affair has crushed me, leaving me a corpse walking around with noheart. I don\'t know how to deal with this kind of pain. I don\'t knowhow to move on. But I have children. I must move on. Diane, I pray toGod that you will never have to experience this kind of betrayal andhurt. I wish you and Yale a happy life together because, after all, weare all women and we all deserve to be happy.

With sincere regards,
Lily



然后是老公的回复（看邮件抬头，1小时就回复了）

------------------------ 老公的回复-------------------------------------

发件人: Yale Yang [mailto:[e-mail]]
发送时间: 2010年2月23日 11:14
收件人: Zhang, Lily
抄送: Tao, Diane; [e-mail]; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens,Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee,Andrew; [e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail];[e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail];[e-mail]; [e-mail]; Shiu, Ruby;[e-mail]; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang,Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum
主题: Re: Dear friends ... Moving on ...

Lily,

Please do not bring the personal issues to the public. The truth of the facts is that our marriage had falling apart 8 years ago, divorce had been in discussion 5 years ago. Our issues are known to all the people in the word! Diane had done nothing wrong for her part! I am firmly standing by and behind Diane. I will certainly hope she will marry me one day soon!


Trying to tell the people how evil I am and Dianeis in this way is not going to succeed! All the people, who knows you,me and our marriage, supported my divorce, including my good friend ZhuWei. I am sorry I have dragged everyone into this. Lily please move on!

Sincerely yours

Yale



然后。。。小三的回复


发件人: Tao, Diane
发送时间: 2010年2月25日 10:25
收件人: Zhang, Lily
抄送: Yang, Yale; [e-mail]; Sun, Yonghong; Winn, Sean; Stevens, Joe; Dawson, Andrew; Morrison, Alastair; Huh, Charles; Chu, Mabel; Yee, Andrew; [e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail]; [e-mail]; Shiu, Ruby; [e-mail]; Lai, Daniel Xiao Ming; Li, Sherry Shao Ling; Yang, Sean; Zhang, Ting; Cheung, Clara Siu Yum; Wang, Cindy Xi; Zhu, Wei; [e-mail]; Prince, Jamaliah
主题: Re: Dear friends ... Moving on ...

Dear Lily,

I understand that you are going through a difficult time in your personal life, and I sincerely hope that you will find a way to deal with it that is the best for you and your children.

I do understand how you feel. I also understand, however, that a marriage can only break apart from the inside. I do not appreciate your attempt to smear my re@#$@*&tion and paint me as the home wrecker. You know as well as Yale does that your marriage fell apart long before Yale and I even met. Whether or not I am in Yale\'s life has nothing to do with the eventual outcome of your marriage. I am sure you understand this as well, but you nonetheless sought to burn me on the cross as the scapegoat for your failed marriage, which I do not believe is a mature thing to do.

Your description of the emotional damage your children have suffered is disturbing indeed. I cannot help but wondering what you have been telling them. I would think that a mother\'s first and foremost priority is to protect her children from any emotional damage, rather than using them as bargaining chips with a spouse or as props to win public sympathy. Yale is the children\'s father and will always be. I am sure he will always love them and be the best father he can be to them. Wouldn\'t it make more sense, for the sake of the children\'s wellbeing, to emphasize to them that both their parents will always love them even though one parent will not be living with them all the time? I do not see what benefit there could possibly be to teach the children to hate their own father.

You asked me how it was like to sleep in Yale\'s arms. I also wanted to ask you, Lily, why would you want to hang on to someone who clearly does not want to be with you at all? Lily, you are intelligent, highly-educated and you have a high-paying and well-respected job. So why did you spend so much time and energy trying to force someone who does not care about you to stay with you? As a fellow woman I want to ask you this, don\'t you think you deserve better? If there\'s anything that is worse than sleeping in the arms of another woman\'s husband, it is sleeping in the arms of someone who resents you, cannot stand you and wants to run away from you whenever he gets a chance. So Lily, why would you want to put yourself in that situation? Once again, don\'t think you deserve better?

I sincerely hope that the pain you are currently feeling will subside soon and you can turn a new leaf in your life. Please remember, you can lose a job, you can lose a spouse, but you should never lose yourself. And please, do not vent your negative feelings on your children. They are innocent. Please always keep in mind their best interests rather than your own. You deserve true happiness, and I hope that you will find it soon.

Best regards,

Diane

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