为什么要穿衣打扮？by 书菲

生命，广义来讲是无始无终的。
但对于个人来说，它只是一种短暂的状态：人活着靠视觉听觉和感觉而存在，靠想象和记忆而延续。我们乐于想象和回忆美好的事物，但却不能时时刻刻生活其中。
其 实欣赏美好事物是一种能力！就和爱是一种能力一样！
爱是授予的能力，被爱是接受的能力，没有这两种基本能力就不懂得爱！
对于普通人来说，为生活疲于奔命，根本无暇去享受欣赏带来的乐趣，因此在忙忙碌碌的人生中，失去了驻足欣赏的机会，当年华老去，却已无力赞叹，只有遗憾！
希望所有人都能在平凡的生活中， 继续自己对美好事物的向往，在淡淡日子里，给自己一个收集温馨，瑰丽，喜悦的空间．收集的对象不仅是奢华的物品，一件首饰，一双精巧的鞋子，一只能拯救一身儿的便宜货的靓包。有回忆，有向往，有岁月，有爱.

有些人把着装提到艺术的高度。这也许不错。但我对的浅见是:，
一个人的装饰打扮，其实是在传递信息，告诉别人你是怎样一个人，至少表示你对自己在乎的程度和你希望别人怎样看你。装饰打扮需要承诺和努力，从每日的装扮，别人可以更好了解您对质量、修养趣味和样式的标准品位。好的装饰打扮是与周围和谐，与自己身材气质相适，

Style is a simple way of saying complicated things.
_Jean Cocteau, artist.

很多时尚达人并没有天生模特身材，但他们有一条共同点-　就是清楚地了解自己的身形，懂得什么样的裁减/形状的衣服是可扬长避短。
就像可可。香奈儿曾说过：
Fashion is architecture: it is a matter of proportions。　

还有就是选对颜色，颜色是情绪的最有力的表现。红要红的正，蓝要纯，　紫要紫的高贵。　

好的装饰打扮也不一定要全名牌全新衣来代表。能翻旧出新才有意思。我们不需花费巨款，我们不一定有天生美人身材，但要把功夫化进去。说到底，至少把自己打扮的干净得体是对其他人的礼貌行动。

There are three things that I won’t mind to spend a little more money on.

First is best basics – undergarments (including beddings), second is few bags and the third category is coat(coats).

Undergarments actually get the most use; we should give them a little more thought.

I truly believe that your accessories are a reflection of your personal aesthetic, so the bag you carry can say a lot about what your are feeling that day or the image you want to project. You tote can set the tone for your look.

You can’t go out without a coat, so choose a major statement maker.

Zest is the secret of all beauty. There is no beauty that is attractive without zest.

Style Guide:

Rule #1: Don’t try to conform to anyone else’s taste. Your wardrobe should be a reflection of your sharp, style, interests, and preferences.

Rule #2: Embrace changes, Don’t be afraid to try something new.

Rule #3: Try it on. Fashion and style are experiential and visual, simple put, you have to try on the beard and the fringe before you know for sure they are wrong for you because your’re truly classic and tailored.

Rule #4: If you put something on and it doesn’t feel good, ake it off. Even if someone says a piece looks good on you..

Rule #5: Seek out and wear what you love. You can’t go wrong if you live life like this.

一个人要看起来高雅除了要化点功夫 选择您的成套衣饰外，您还必须是走势站姿完美。

To look pleasant besides choosing your outfit well, you have to be posture perfect.

I always think of my yoga teacher as taller than she really is because she has a presence.

It’s also because of the way she carries herself. Posture is not only important for the way you look in clothes; it is good for your self health and self-esteem. When you stand up straight and your back is aligned, you begin to feel taller and more confident; you even walk differently – with more purpose and elegance. Your carriage is important in maintaining back health, too. That is especially true as we get older. Good Posture is an instant anti-aging remedy.

1. Normal, neutral posture has been well established in the literature as illustrated in figure 1.

http://www.posturepal.com/assets/images/sci1.jpg

Not sure how to stand up straight? It’s easy. Stand against a wall and pull your shoulders back so that both your shoulder and your behind are touch the wall. Put your chin slightly up and straighten your neck. Now slip your hand into the space between the wall and your lower back. If you are standing properly, your hand should touch both the wall and your back. If it doesn’t, till you hips slightly back so it does.  Then walk straight wasy from the wall.  This is good posture. You may have to practice this move, but before long, prefect posture becomes instinctive and effortless.

Normal, neutral posture has been well established in the literature as illustrated in figure

http://www.posturepal.com/assets/images/sci2.jpg