CNCJCC2008-05-21 08:57:10回复悄悄话
最近老公出差三星期,而看的图书馆书或网站文章里都是寂寞的女人,可我怎么觉得自己蛮好的嘛。是因为孩子工作忙碌,还是因为知道这只是短暂的分离,而不觉得?如果老公弃我而去,打击是有的,但我(想)相信我的人生应该不会只有“空空荡荡”和灰色。就像心颖一样,虽然有短暂的不适应,但继续有朋友,继续工作,继续旅游 and enjoy life. That's what I think us woman should be. Our lives with our husband should be like two circles that overlapped; when one circle drops out, we have to CHOOSE to fill in the overlapped part with what used to be the outside self. Maybe 说的容易,做的难吧。