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I always feel upset when i was thinking about my sons.I know that they are in rebel age now ,So I am not sure whether it was causing them too diffictlt to laed. In my memory,I still remember how they were intelligent and lovely boys and how much they had clsoed with me. They use to almost obey any thing that what i had said. I do not know from when.They changed their behaviour in suddenly that every thing they thought and did by their way.They did not believe me any more.They was starting some badly habits and getting bad temper. Some time I can smell the smoke form their clothes.I can see their faces appeared the look after the drunk and i can feel they have in love with some grils.etc. I am an understant mother,I did not oppose as these things as they did.,If they studies not too bad. But all the things is in a bad way.That what made me to feel so worried. Today,I am feeling a little better after i heard some one who has worried same thing more than the me. I begin to think whether i am a luck mother ,At least,my sons did not have some problems form psychpath and spirit. Life always is hard,so we need keep an attitude in the optimistical way.

I always feel upset when i was thinking about my sons.I know that they are in rebelious age now, so I am not sure whether it is causing them too difficult to lead. In my memory,I still remember how intelligent and lovely boys they were and how close they were with me. They used to almost obey anything that i said. I do not know from when they changed their behaviours. Suddenly everything they thought and did was by their way.They did not believe me any more.They were starting up some bad habits and getting bad temper. Sometimes I can smell the smoke from their clothes.I can see their red faces whcih appeared that they drank. And i can feel they were in love with some grils, etc. I am an understanding mother. I did not object to these things they did, if their study is not too bad. But all the things is in a bad way.That is what made me to feel so worried. Today,I am feeling a little better after i heard some one who has worried the same thing more than I do. I begin to think whether i am a lucky mother. At least my sons do not have some psychotic problems. Life is always hard, so we need keep optimistical attitude.