关于老公不干家务

来源: 十月妈咪 于 06-01-19 19:03:50

 刚才给宝宝洗澡,不小心把水弄到了耳朵里,这不是第一次了.已经很小心了!唉---应该没什么大的影响吧?心情很沮丧!
宝宝已经百天了,很可爱.我现在是一个人带她,老公学习很忙,孩子的事情从来都不管,我也不指望他管,我是F2.可是一个人带孩子做饭,每天还真的挺累的.有时候还要为老公操心,他的学业最近进展不是很顺利,帮他出谋划策.现在对什么好像都没什么兴趣,逛街,购物,女人所应该感兴趣的,我好像都已经没什么兴趣了,包括夫妻生活,都感觉是在应付,有时候真的好累啊,身体累,心也累.偶尔有点时间到网上逛逛,好像是最大的消遣了!所有的人都让我多担待一些, 保住老公的学习.是啊,他的学业很重要.他基本不帮我干家务,看孩子也是偶尔,我知道他学习忙,压力大,不应该要求,可是他有时候还挑饭食,挑穿戴,对一些事情都很挑.我都不知道该怎么办,有时候感觉自己好委屈啊!尽管说了这些,也没有怪老公的意思.
不知道在说什么,没地方发牢骚,就在这里说说吧?知道也没什么逻辑.
有姐妹能告诉我,给这么小的宝宝洗澡时,怎么防止水进耳朵吗,一个人给宝宝洗澡的时候.

You are such a good wife and mother
来源: crazydog 于 06-01-19 22:46:57

But you do need "me" time once in a while. It is very considerate of you to protect your hubby's study time. But the baby needs the father, and he has to take up a father's responsibility. Otherwise he is irresponsible. Besides it is his loss to not have the opportunity to bond with his baby--bonding comes from all these tedious chores. Maybe he could look after the baby once a week (on Sunday for example) for 3-4 hours so that you can go out to do something by yourself (even just coffee or shopping for next week's dinner, but alone). Or even better, if you can hire someone to take care of baby for a few hours once a month, you and your hubby can go out to see a movie, for example. You sounds exhausted.