职场烦恼：性骚扰

来源: 小闲 于 2013-07-16 11:39:03 [档案] [博客] [旧帖] 
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职场要考虑的问题很多，还无缘无故的有不必要的烦恼。忍无可忍，吐出来求解。一个同事会在办公室拍我的肩膀，手腕，甚至手指伸向我的脖子问我的项链，我慌忙倒退两步，不然就要被摸。我中年大妈，最反感异性接触。不愿意告到HR把事情闹大，可又忍无可忍，天天想着怎样防“色狼”。实在影响情绪和工作效率。大计出主意怎样化解，多谢！

 

P.S: I am a mid-aged woman with no exercise. I don't have fancy cloth, no desire to show my out of shape body. Plus。
the air conditioning works so well. I need to cover every inch of my skin to not get cold  in the office .

I am so angry about it!

 

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• 你也拍他、摸他、指他的脖子...... -老婆儿子狗；）- ♂   (150 bytes) (108 reads) 7/16/13 11:42:00

• 回复：你也拍他、摸他、指他的脖子...... -小闲- ♀   (83 bytes) (155 reads) 7/16/13 11:43:34

• 那就跟他直说，你不喜欢不就得了 -老婆儿子狗；）- ♂   (0 bytes) (6 reads) 7/16/13 11:44:45

• Yes! I need to say NO -小闲- ♀   (0 bytes) (3 reads) 7/16/13 11:45:42

• 让你老公下班堵他，照小肚子狠踹一脚骂道：你小子老实点，否则废了你！ -todayonly-    (0 bytes) (2 reads) 7/16/13 11:45:21

• 你这存心让楼主守寡呢：））） -老婆儿子狗；）- ♂   (112 bytes) (58 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:40

• 回复：你这存心让楼主守寡呢：））） -小闲- ♀   (58 bytes) (107 reads) 7/16/13 11:50:46

• MANY TIME？THEN UR LD SHOULD DO SOMETHING -todayonly-    (199 bytes) (74 reads) 7/16/13 11:54:33

• OK! Thanks all! -小闲- ♀   (0 bytes) (2 reads) 7/16/13 11:56:49

• 是帅哥吗？ -尚宫娘娘- ♀    (0 bytes) (4 reads) 7/16/13 11:42:02

• Big no- at least for me! -小闲- ♀   (11 bytes) (37 reads) 7/16/13 11:44:28

• 找HR诉苦 -尚宫娘娘- ♀    (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 11:45:43

• 同意，嘛人啊。 -剧似佛依稀-   (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:26

• 跟他说话离远远的，再不行就直说。 -巴西木- ♀   (0 bytes) (4 reads) 7/16/13 11:44:46

• 回复：跟他说话离远远的，再不行就直说。 -小闲- ♀   (237 bytes) (116 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:56

• 对他直说，你don't feel comfortable being touch -Sta- ♀   (0 bytes) (6 reads) 7/16/13 11:44:51

• 直接严肃地告诉他 -姐妹俩妈妈- ♀   (26 bytes) (120 reads) 7/16/13 11:46:10

• Yes! That is what I need to do. -小闲- ♀   (63 bytes) (27 reads) 7/16/13 11:49:09

• 可以找老板说说，让老板处理。 -蓬莱击鼓-   (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 11:55:22

• Then, he will loss the job~~ Thanks all! -小闲- ♀   (0 bytes) (4 reads) 7/16/13 11:57:52

• 在座位上装个web camera，贴个条：Surveillance Camera -clothtiger- ♂    (0 bytes) (7 reads) 7/16/13 11:46:15

• 回复：在座位上装个web camera，贴个条：Surveillance Cam -小闲- ♀   (45 bytes) (50 reads) 7/16/13 11:50:00

• 装个更近的，假的就行:) -clothtiger- ♂    (0 bytes) (0 reads) 7/16/13 11:51:53

• 这是性骚扰，应该和HR谈谈. -王医生- ♂    (0 bytes) (5 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:12

• I don't want o be the one makes him loss -小闲- ♀   (31 bytes) (29 reads) 7/16/13 11:55:01

• 如果是GAY就从了吧 :) -网恋无罪- ♂    (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:26

• 直接说：“I'd appreciate it if you could resp -Crystaldowns- ♀    (76 bytes) (84 reads) 7/16/13 11:47:34

• 严肃的告诉他你不喜欢被别人摸，没什么好掩饰了。。一般把事情挑明了比较好。 -Déjàvu116-    (0 bytes) (7 reads) 7/16/13 11:55:07

• OK! I will. Thanks for all the support! -小闲- ♀   (0 bytes) (0 reads) 7/16/13 11:56:18

• 用不着去HR说，一般这种事情一定要两个人之间解决，不要把事情闹大，对双方都没好处 -Déjàvu116-    (0 bytes) (7 reads) 7/16/13 11:57:01

• 一定要去HR，自我保护不是要害人。被倒打一耙反而不利(尤其看了lz的英语) -味苦- ♂   (0 bytes) (4 reads) 7/16/13 12:02:29

• 你以为你喊出去大家都听你的啊。都向着你说，哼！。这种事情能私下解决一定不好喊。 -Déjàvu116-    (90 bytes) (15 reads) 7/16/13 12:35:07

• 没错。不是非要人家死的事情。很多惨案都是这些小事引起的。直接说了大家都好。 -林起立- ♂    (0 bytes) (0 reads) 7/16/13 12:07:37

• 找HR。注意要留下“书面”的记录。如英语不是很好，可先请人代笔(用词绝对要谨重) -味苦- ♂   (0 bytes) (3 reads) 7/16/13 11:58:24

• 这人有油水不拉？要不先玩玩他呵呵？ -闲看庭前- ♂   (0 bytes) (1 reads) 7/16/13 12:00:29

• 就怕偷鸡蚀米，呵呵 -味苦- ♂   (0 bytes) (0 reads) 7/16/13 12:05:18

• 直接告诉他，别触摸 -林起立- ♂    (0 bytes) (3 reads) 7/16/13 12:00:53

• 这种事应直接反应到HR那里,别含糊,别犹豫,否则,他会更得寸进尺.另外,平常你要 -lindaaa- ♀    (0 bytes) (35 reads) 7/16/13 12:08:09

• 谢谢大家的热心！ -小闲- ♀   (64 bytes) (45 reads) 7/16/13 12:19:44

• 去找HR是下下策，得饶人处且饶人，他如果为此丢了工作，你也会觉得不忍心，也不是什 -ilovefriday- ♀   (0 bytes) (12 reads) 7/16/13 12:39:39

• Thanks! -小闲- ♀   (76 bytes) (18 reads) 7/16/13 12:43:17

• EMAIL他让他注意不要TOUCH 你。 -Joyyu- ♀    (125 bytes) (44 reads) 7/16/13 12:47:57

• Thanks! -小闲- ♀   (62 bytes) (13 reads) 7/16/13 12:55:02