大家知道的一个常识就是独生子女相对难以相处一点,而最新研究把独生子女的坏处量化了:是在婚姻家庭方面,独生子女更加习惯独处,更加倾向不结婚,而且结了婚也更加倾向离婚。而多一个兄弟姐妹,则可以降低11%的离婚率。原因很简单:兄弟姐妹一起成长过程,就是学会和他人磨合包容的过程,是一个今后成年婚姻生活的实习机会:
Growing up with siblings makes you less likely to get divorced in later life, study finds | Daily Mail Online
Researchers found that having brothers or sisters significantly reduced the chances of your marriage breaking down. For each additional sibling, the probability of divorce declined by up to 11 per cent.
兄弟姐妹越多,人越好相处,离婚率随着兄弟姐妹人数增加而降低,达到7个兄弟姐妹才到顶。
因此为了子女未来的幸福,大家都应该多给孩子们几个兄弟姐妹:
Siblings study: Are people with brothers and sisters less likely to get divorced? (slate.com)
If you’re an only, don’t despair! Settle down with someone who has seven siblings (but not eight) and try to contain your baleful, marriage-busting influence. Meanwhile, siblings, maybe you should consider marrying other siblings (not your own), unless you feel extra confident in your people skills. And everyone, if you care about the sanctity of marriage, raise lots of kids.