I found it tonight on a friend's facebook, it was at my friend Loo and Bethany's wedding on Dec 10, 2005. Ethan was 8 months old, I drove more than an hour to the wedding alone, cos Daddy had to be at another friend's wedding on the same day in GA. Ethan behaved wonderfully during the wedding, didn't make any noises at all, and was so curious about the photographers behind us, winked and smiled to them so often that he appeared a few times in the offical wedding album later.