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I can hardly wait to hold you,
Feel my arms around you.
How long I have waited,
Waited just to love you,
Now that I have found you,
Don't ever go. (Diana Krall)
We have been thinking about telling our story out for a long time, from very beginning. We’d like to share our experience with people, who are still looking for the other part of themselves as what we used to, and encourage them with hopes of finding true love. Life is full with surprises!
Besides of time constrains, maybe just because have such a purpose in mind, I found it was very difficult to start, even in which language the story will be told. Finally, I made my mind to write it in English.
Firstly, I’d like to involve both parties into the composition from their own perspective respectively. Moreover, it is feasible and fair that both use their second language, which is fully understandable for them, most of their friends and hopefully most of readers of this Blog
Last, but not lease, shame to say, but it is true, by using a non-mother tongue language, people might have lower expectations, and at least I will have an excuse to blame if people feel the story is not interesting, not to say that I type English much faster than Chinese in fact. J
从许诺了歌儿起,我就倍感提笔写我们的故事了的压力了,于是先写了这段前言。
之后如计划的两人开始同时写了, 没几段,就发现我这计划是多么的不可行。且不说两个人很难同时有空坐下来写东西,写东西本身看来也不是他的爱好和长处,虽然蛮能说的个人,写起来就全不是那么回事了。这么一拖就拖到的MSN大会,我才迫切地感到不能再拖下去了,所以只好一个人勇挑重担了。
如此一来,这篇东东就会是英文开头,中文继续;会是两个人的视角开始,然后转成一个人的。如果哪天他有时间有兴致了,插一段英文进来也不是不可能。所以,这会是篇很乱的文字,大家将就着看吧。
8226; 给大家分享一下我们的故事. 特别给还在寻寻觅觅的朋友, 尤其是寻求网 -longhair- ♀ (241 bytes) (166 reads) 3/31/09
这个故事是去年写的..现在与他达成共识,上到公众论坛来,是希望可以给朋友们一些鼓励. 来婚坛的时间不长, 不过时不时见到有JM问起网配之事, 就算是给大家一个积极的例子吧. :)
有缘人就在那里等着你呢, 你们会有相遇的一天, 无论是通过什么方式, 请相信!
8226; 还没看过两个人一起写的故事 一定非常生动有趣,期待! -guaiwolf- ♀ (0 bytes) (4 reads) 3/31/09
8226; 谢谢乖乖狼. 有趣可能是, 不知道够不够生动. :) -longhair- ♀ (0 bytes) (2 reads) 3/31/09
8226; MTV: The Look of Love - Diana Krall -mousa- ♀ (517 bytes) (22 reads) 3/31/09
就来了..不过没多少,MM别失望哦. :)
其实对沟通和包容力的要求也不是象你以为要的那么高的.
这个周末跟一个女朋友还为此探讨了一下,她未婚夫也是外国人.我们有个共识, 一般来说他们喜欢经常肯定你,表达他对你需要...我想这给了沟通和相处一个很好的平台.
谢谢爱读的鼓励...更欢迎爱读带来的阳钢之气..嘿嘿...
是应该是应该,只怪我打字写东西没有MM或是GER快呀.
她们的心情我太理解了,不能说是没信心或歧视的...嘿嘿...
长发姐姐就是应该写写,要不然她们总是没信心,外带还歧视外国人