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(2006-11-09 19:46:21)
MyfriendtoldmethatEllen,her3yearsolddaughter,criedagainlastnight.Whensheaskedwhy,thelittlegirltoldhermotherheartbreakinglythatshemissedherDadagain.Herfatherwasdeadbyaccidentlastyearwhenhewasondutyinanothercity.Hewasonly31yearsoldatthattime.Fromthenon,myfriendandherfamilyhadtopainfullythinkhowtoexplaintoEllenwhyherfathercouldnotcomebackanymore,andhowtohelphertosmoothlyacceptthetruththatherfatherhad...[阅读全文]
(2006-11-06 17:54:54)
每天都能从生活中学到些什么。
早上读了hutu的《自恋》，朴实自然，十分舒服。其实不仅写博克的人，生活中自恋的人大有人在。不禁在想，自恋的基础是什么？自恋到什么程度是最好的呢？自恋，最初被视为一种不好的心理，认为爱自己太多，就会爱别人很少，于是，自恋成了一种贬义的说法，和自私接近。现在这个个性张扬的时代，自恋被重新认识，成了一种健康[阅读全文]
(2006-11-04 10:01:35)
RosegreysweaterGettingupat6:30intheearlymorning,Istartedtoarrangemywardrobe.Ifoundmyrosegreysweater.ItremindedmeofthenovelTheThornBird.IfirstreadTheThornBirdadecadeagoandthenwatchedtheseriesforacoupleoftimes.ItwasaboutaromanticlovestorybetweenMeggieandFatherRalph.Meggie,theonlydaughterinClearyfamily,wasbarelypaidattention.FatherRalphwaslikeamentor,afriendtoMeggie.FatherRalphwasaveryambitiouspriest...[阅读全文]
(2006-11-04 04:15:37)
有一种感觉，就像蚌怀着珍珠的折磨与痛楚，这便是暗恋。
暗恋是一种美丽的痛。就像一场无法醒来的梦。自己如一只辛勤的小蛛子，日夜织一张晶莹网，这网的猎物是什么呢？空空的网，疼疼的心，认了，就把自己粘在上面吧！每天每天，日复一日，任自己在网心中守着、念着、思着、痛着、恋着、苦着、甜着，却依然默默地等着。也许这等候真如歌中唱的那样[阅读全文]
(2006-11-03 16:41:42)
IdreamedIhadaninterviewwithGod.
Soyouwouldliketointerviewme?Godasked.
Ifyouhavethetime?Isaid.
Godsmiled.Mytimeiseternity.Whatquestionsdoyouhaveinmindforme?Whatsurprisesyoumostabouthumankind?
Godanswered...
Thattheygetboredwithchildhood,
theyrushtogrowup,andthen
longtobechildrenagain.
Thattheylosetheirhealthtomakemoney...
andthenlosetheirmoneytorestoretheirheal...[阅读全文]
Soyouwouldliketointerviewme?Godasked.
Ifyouhavethetime?Isaid.
Godsmiled.Mytimeiseternity.Whatquestionsdoyouhaveinmindforme?Whatsurprisesyoumostabouthumankind?
Godanswered...
Thattheygetboredwithchildhood,
theyrushtogrowup,andthen
longtobechildrenagain.
Thattheylosetheirhealthtomakemoney...
andthenlosetheirmoneytorestoretheirheal...[阅读全文]
(2006-11-02 18:05:36)
Peoplehavebeenpassionateaboutrosessincethebeginningoftime.Infact,itissaidthatthefloorsofCleopatra’spalacewerecarpetedwithdelicaterosepetals,andthatthewiseandknowingConfuciushada600-booklibraryspecificallyonhowtocareforroses.
Theroseisalegendonitsown.ThestorygoesthatduringtheRomanEmpire,therewasanincrediblybeautifulmaidennamedRhodanthe.Herbeautydrewmanyzealoussuitorswhopursuedherrelentless...[阅读全文]
Theroseisalegendonitsown.ThestorygoesthatduringtheRomanEmpire,therewasanincrediblybeautifulmaidennamedRhodanthe.Herbeautydrewmanyzealoussuitorswhopursuedherrelentless...[阅读全文]
(2006-10-30 17:31:11)
这几天脑子里有些混乱，好像和神很接近（听上去就有些不着四六的）J。先是有个网友和我大谈上帝；然后我看了胡因梦的自传《生命的不可思议》，也充满了哲学和道；周末的时候看到糊涂先生转贴的一篇《自然与清虚-佛道儒归一》。我本来认为我没有这方面的慧根，难不成我要时来运转，得道成仙了？J《自然与清虚》认为，“佛教的目的，在于让人摆脱烦恼与痛苦”。[阅读全文]
(2006-10-29 07:40:15)
Livinginaforeigncountryinevitablyleadstomakingcomparisonsbetweencertainaspectsofsocietyinthenewcountrywiththoseinthecountryoforigin.Onesuchcomparisonthatintriguedmewaseducation.Frommyreadingandobservations,herearesomecharacteristicsoftheAmericaneducationalsystem.1.Americavaluesself-confidence.Theschoolscultivatethegrowthoftheindividualandindependenceisencouraged.ThisisnotthecaseinChina.Thefollowin...[阅读全文]
(2006-10-26 21:20:25)
Therearemanyessaysorcommentsaboutfriendsonline.Peoplediscussiffriendsonlinearerealfriends,iffriendsonlineshouldmeet,whattheconsequencesitwouldlead.Thosearealwaysverypopulartopics.Inmyopinion,friendsonlinearerealfriendstooifonetakesthefriendshipseriouslyandsincerely.Imethimonlinefouryearsago.Heisnottalentedonwritingbeautifulwords.Thewayweestablishedourfriendshipwasmainlytalking.Ourtopicswere...[阅读全文]
(2006-10-23 18:11:54)
Theweatherwasawful.ItsnowedheavilyonlateOct.Peoplecouldnotstopcomplainingtheweirdweather.Themeteorologistsaiditwasblizzard.Idoubted.Itseemednotthatbad.Americanpeoplelikeoverstating.Butwedidencountersnow,rainandhailwithstrongwindtoday.WhenIhadlunchatnoon,Dan,anAmericanstudent,walkedinandyawned:“Ireallywanttogotobednow.Theweathermakesmefeelblue.”“Metoo”Ireplied.“Butbesides,Ialsowanttoeat...[阅读全文]
