SomewouldsayBillhadnolifeinthosefourmonths.Onewouldexpecta
well-educatedyoungmanvisitingAmericainthisdayandageactdifferently
thanrefugeesorfortune-seekerscomingbyboat.Buthewasjustashungryand
muchmoreinterestedingainingmoney-makingskillsthanexperiencingartand
culture.Hehadanewtradewiththemindsetofalaundryownerwithafamilyback
inChinatofeedacenturyago.
Onaworkday,hegotupandcross...[
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"HereliesEpictetus,aslavemaimedinbody,theultimateinpoverty,and
favoredbythegods."--EpitaphofEpictetus,StoicPhilosopher(c.50-c.135)
IhaveoftenfeltgratitudesincediscoveringJiu-Jitsuaboutfiveyearsago.So
farandonandoff,Ihavebeentothreegreatschoolsandmetexemplarypeople
whowerestrongandmoreimportantlypositiveandgreatcharacters.Istill
rememberMr.Lee,awiryAsianguyinhislate...[
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Vigorouswritingisconcise.Asentenceshouldcontainnounnecessarywords,aparagraphnounnecessarysentences,forthesamereasonthatadrawingshouldhavenounnecessarylinesandamachinenounnecessaryparts.Thisrequiresnotthatthewritermakeallhissentencesshort,orthatheavoidalldetailandtreathissubjectsonlyinoutline,butthateverywordtell.Asarule,begineachparagraphwithatopicsentence;enditinconformitywiththebeginning.Fortuna...[
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SoIhadbeenenjoyinglifewithoutrunningforaboutsevenmonthsbeforeL
casuallymentionedtwoweeksagothatIcouldpacehiminthisyear'sQuickSilver
100KEnduranceRun.The63-year-oldjustrecoveredfromthesameabdominaltendon
painthatIgotandhewantedtochallengeoneofthetoughest100Kracesagain!
Hecouldgocrazyallhewanted.Iwasgood.
Ididmybesttoconvincehim(andactuallymyself)thatIwasnotready--lunges
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15minutesafteraquickcall,Bill'sfuturelandlord,ahandsomeladyinadark
businessoutfit,showedupinawhiteSUV.Underalushheadofblackhair
trimmedinabob,shewasabout5'6",andlookedherlate30s.Businesswas
conductedinMandarian.Intenmoreminutes,theybriefedeachother,agreedon
theterms,andthedealwasdone."CallmesisterFan."Sheextendedherhand
withasmile.Shewassofriendlythatshehelped...[
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Iwasmullingoverthenewsstoryofa43-year-oldJDexecutivewhenwewere
stuckinnorth-boundtrafficnearSFO.Itsoundedalltoofamiliar:ayoungman
strivingforfameandfortunecametoapointofreckoningafterbeingdiagnosedwith
aterminalillnessinmid-life.Whilenotgivinguphiscareer,theguyhadimproved
relationshipwithhiswifeandevenwroteaguideforhistwo-year-oldson.Ithas
beenarecurringthemeinthenews.
Itremi...[
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BillfirstcametotheSFBayAreainAug2000towitnessthelaststageofthe
dotcombubble.Acclimatizedforonlyoneyearinthewest,heknewnothingabout
IPOsorstocks,however,andhadnoget-rich-quickplans.Amy,hiswife,was
admittedtothebachelorprograminthedepartmentofeconomicsatthesame
CanadianuniversitywhereBillwasafirst-yeargraduatestudent.Ashis
scholarshipcoveredonlyhisowntuition,moneyhadtocomefromelsewher...[
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Timwaspromotedtoyellowbeltandtoldmehehadtoliveuptoit.Thatwas
thebestnewssinceCovidstarted.Remote-learninghelpedtokeepthefirealive
foroneyearbutcouldnotreplacesparring.Wecamebackonthemattofinda
coupleofhismateswhotrainedinpersonthroughthepandemichadimproved
greatly.Consistencywasthekey.
Exceptforafewblackandbrownbelts,Iprobablyamtheoldestinthegym.
ButIdon'tfeelitandItrainh...[
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AmongmanyaudiobooksweusedtoenjoyonourcommutewasAngela'sAshesby
FrankMcCourt.Itwasnocheerysoapoperabutanaccountofsurvivalandhope
amiddirepovertyandendlessmiseries.Theauthorwasamasterinmixinghumor
intragedies,however.DeliveredwithanIrishaccent,hischildhoodstories
oftencrackedusupbeforeleavingabitternesswhichmadeuswonderifwe
shouldhavelaughedinthefirstplace.
“Themaster...[
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Withage,Billhasgravitatedtowardaquietcurmudgeon.Thesapphireskyand
soothingbreezeoftheCaliforniacoastthatattracttouristsoftheworld
oftendepresshim.Heremindshimselftobethankfulbutseemstohaverunout
ofgratitudeafterlivinginthegoldenstatefor15years.Hestartstoblame
theweather,bybeingperfect,forcallinguphispersonalfailuresandflaws
andsuggestingthathemightbeundeserving.
Manybelieveth...[
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