Lifeisacynicalexistence.你永远都不可能拥有所有你想要的东西,在同一时间。好象歌里唱的有时间的时候没有钱,等到终于有钱了又没有时间。喜欢读书。小时的最大梦想是可以拥有天下所有的好书。那时有大把时间和心情appreciate好的以及不怎么样的书。当然bytheruleoflife,thatjustcan’tbe.现在倒是想看什么书都可以了。但是时间无限宝贵,更不用说无数吸引注意力的temptations.唯一可以[
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WhentheSunflowersBloomI'vebeenoffonajourney;Ijes'gothometoday;
Itraveledeast,and'north,andsouth,an'everyother
way;
Iseenaheapofcountry,an'citiesontheboom,
ButIwanttobeinKansaswhenthe
Sun-
Flowers
Bloom
Youmaytalkaboutyerlilies,yervi'letsandyer
roses,
Yerasters,anyerjassymins,an'alltheother
posies;
I'llallowtheyallairbeautiesan'fullersweet
pe...[
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it's5alreadyandihaventdoneanythingyet.sortof.ididtakeanotherwalkalongthebeach.it'sserene.ifeltpeaceful.thenicamebackandcookedupsomethingformyself.icanstillsmellthecooking-andthatisNOTagoodthing.thenewairpurifier-it'ssupposedtocleanuptheair-anddoesit?canttell.andihavebeenblogsurfingthepasthalfhour.i'mshallowandbored.------------------------it'sapparentthati'mbecomingashopaholic!!!!!!!urhhhhhhh.i've...[
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不知从什么时候开始小资变成了个dirtyword.看谁不顺眼的话,就丢个小资的大帽子过去,砸不死也敲个半晕。小资其实是种lifestyle。讲究生活情趣,追求精致生活,接长不短感时花溅泪恨别鸟惊心一下,不过是self-entertainment.又没招谁惹谁,犯不上当成老鼠过街。小资又是个境界,未必人人可以carryoff。有时怀疑那些鄙夷小资的人可能有东施情结。说起小资,文学城里私房小菜算[
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王朔写过一篇文章叫做现在就开始回忆。那是他大概还不到四张。若干年前好像是只有老没牙行将就木了才回忆。现在的潮流是感慨人人要发,不然就是浅薄。因此有经历要回忆,没有经历拿着肉麻当有趣也还是要奋袖出臂来回忆。我是坚信thebestisyettocome.而回忆的默认前提是thebestisbehindus.同时很多往事想起来只是徒增烦恼不忆也罢。不是吗?经济学(?)的说法,回忆应该是sunkc[
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偶尔有些精致的烦恼。没钱。没有心爱的人。或者有了心爱的人,但是不合拍。但是这些又算得了什么。会觉得自己很浅薄。可是烦恼还是一样继续。[
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She'sGoneEverybody'shighonconsolation
Everybody'stryingtotellmewhat'srightforme
Mydaddytriedtoboremewithasermon
butit'splaintoseethattheycan'tcomfortme
SorryCharliefortheimposition
IthinkI'vegotit,gotthestrengthtocarryon
Ineedadrinkandaquickdecision
Nowit'suptome,oohwhatwillbe
Chorus:
She'sGoneOhI,OhI'd
betterlearnhowtofaceit
She'sGoneOhI,OhI'd
payth...[
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如果认为不能共享一个美好未来的话,抽身退步早应该是最低decency.那为什么还会伤心难耐?纵使举案齐眉到底意难平。[
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以前看过一篇文章叫做找个有趣的男人来暧昧。歌词大意是说人生无趣,结了婚更加万劫不复。为了苟延残喘,需要在办公室暗度陈仓。轻则眉目传情,重则打情骂俏,总之是人生动力之一。有趣的男人好处多多,用处不只在于暧昧。遗憾的是有趣是项full-timejob胜任的人还少过海底捞针。最惨是碰到乔装有趣,嚼腊还不如鸡月办。没听说过吗:有趣和O*****一样是可以fake的.所以[
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Purpose-drivenlife有目的的人生Lastyearabookcalled“Purpose-drivenlife”wentbest-sellerformonthsonend.Itsoundslikeaself-help/improvementkindofbook.Butinfactit’sreligious/Christianandtheprimaryreasonthatitsoldsomanycopieswasbecauseit’srequiredreadingatnumerouschurchesUSnationwide.去年一本叫‘有目的的人生’的书风靡全美。因为是很多教堂的必读书,所以极端畅销。Neverreadthebook.Butthetitleofthebookcame...[
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