Iagreethat春月是个对生活充满热爱和有坚强信念的妈妈andIlovethiskindofmother.Nothingwrongtosaysheisgood,herkidsaregoodifthisistrue,whichisoneofgreatAmericancultures.That’sself-confident,positiveandupbeat.Itishergreatgenerositytoshareherhappinessandgreatexperiencewithus.Asreaders,weshouldgreatlyappreciateitbecauseherhappinessandgreatexperiencesmakeourday.Itdoesnotnecessarilymeanthatwehavetoagre...[
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Ourfirstbrandnewhouselooksliketenyearsoldafterwelivedthereonlyfouryears.Ourtwokidsmessedupeverythingandwelostsomevaluewhenwesoldthathouse.Sowetoldourkidsnottomessupourthisbrandnewhouse.Welovethishouseverymuch,andareplanningtoliveinthishouseforalongtime,maybefortherestofourlife.
OnedayafterwemovedintoourthishouseacoupleofmonthsthreeyearsagoMyelderlittledaughterofthenfiveyearsoldtoldme,“Da...[
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ManymothersandfatherstrytocomparekidsinAmericaandinChina.Myquestioniswhetheritisnecessarytocompare.Iamprettysurethat99%ChineseAmericankidswillliveinAmericaand99%ofChinesekidswillliveinChina.Itisverydifficulttosaywhoisrightandwrongtoraiseupkidsindifferentcountry.ButonethingIknowforsureisthatAmericankidscandobetterthanChinesekidsinAmericaandChinesekidscandobetterthanAmericankidsinChina.Asafatheranda...[
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Thismessagemaynotbequiterelatedwithkids’education.Pleasedon’tblameme,but月半豆豆andNDMomifyoudon’tlikeit.Theyaskedmetopostthismessageyesterday.YouknowthatNoWorryisreadytoofferideasandisreadytohelp,especiallywhenaladyasksforhelp.
Myopinionistogoaheadandbuyahouse,buyitsoonandbuythelargesthousethatyouareabletobuy.Itisnotjustbuyingahousethisway,almostanythingyouwanttobuy.Buyitsoo...[
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ManymommiesanddaddiestalkaboutXiao(孝).Thisisagreatandinterestingbutverychallengingtopic.Firstofall,Xiaoisacomprehensiveterm,morethanjustrespect,supportandhelpourparentsthoughtorespect,helpandsupportparentsaretheverycore,practicalandrealisticaspectsofXiao.SincethisXiaotopicistoobig,let’sjustdiscussthecoreaspectofhelpandsupportparentsfinanciallyandmentally.
Mypersonalideaisthatasthefirstg...[
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Ican’tbelievethatacoupleofparentsevenarecallingfor孝inAmerica.Itisridiculous,impossible,selfishandfoolish.EveryandeachChineseoranyonewhoknowsChineseculturesknowwhatXiaoismoreorless.Xiaoismorethanjusttorespect,supportandtakecareofparents.Incertainaspect,XiaoisthecoreandfundamentalfoundationofChinesefeudalsociety.Xiaoismoreharmfulthanhelpfulinamodernizedandindustrializedsociety.
IborrowedX...[
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Asalways,IplayedwithmytwolovelydaughterslastWednesdayafterwork.Ilovetoplaywithmytwokids.Tome,itisagreatfunandaverygoodphysicalexciseafterwork.Atthedinnertime,Iheldtheminmyarmsandcarriedthemdownstairs.Atthelaststep,Islippedandfelldown.Ibrokemyleg.Ifellhorribleanditishurtingmetoomuch.Icouldnotstandup.
Amazinglymytwokidswerenotinjuredatall.TheyrodeonmebelievingthatIamplayingahorsewiththemasIusual...[
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Manyfriendshereseemsverybusiness,busywithwork,busieswithkidsandbusywithhousework,etcandmanychattersworrytoomuch,worryaboutjob,worryaboutmortgage,worryaboutkidseducation,etcandthenthosefriendsseemverytiredandimpatient.Forinstance,whydoyouworryaboutwhetheryoushouldbeafulltimemotherornot?Itisyourchoice.Nothingiswrongwithit.WhydoyouguysjusttrytobemeNoWorryandBeHappy(myanothername)?Lookatme;Ihaveasmile...[
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Ourelderdaughterof8yearsoldwroteherhomeworklastFriday.
Iamsuchaluckygirl
Iamsuchaluckygirl!MymomanddadarealwaysthereformewhenIneedthem.Mysisterisalwaystheretoplaywithme.Mygrandmaisalwaystheretocookmedeliciousfood.
Iamsuchaluckygirl.Igottogotothebestschoolinmyneighborhood.Ihavebestteachersandcoolestclassmates.Ialsogotbestpianoteacheranddrawingteacher.
Iamsuchaluckygirl.Ihaveastrongb...[
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Freespeechisourright
Freespeechisourright.Discussionisgood.Attacksarenotnecessarilybad.Internetchatisgreat,new,advancedandcivilizedmediatoexpressourselves.Aslongasoneisstillinterestedinonetopic,he/shehasabsoluterighttospeakouttheirviews.Toanycircumstance,itisgood,notbad.Forinstance,onecantalkaboutthetopicofkidsbacktoChinaeverydayifhe/shelovesto.That’stheirright.Noonehaslegalrighttostopth...[
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