Day One Thinker 天一思客
Thoughts spark like shooting stars, so I catch them and share.思绪似流星闪烁，定要追来分享.
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(2019-03-01 17:00:36)
MarriageandShadow
Readingonaphycologistmademethinking.ThenIsharedmythoughtswithafriendwhoisexperiencinghardshipswithhermarriage:
Itisthroughamarriage,oranyintimaterelationships,thatwediscoverourtrueselves.
Mostoftheconflictsinamarriagearecausedbyourshadows.Thoseshadowsweredevelopedattheearlyyearsandtheyremainedasunconsciousdominatingourbehaviorsandthoughts.
Runningawayfromamarriageisac...[阅读全文]
(2018-12-08 14:42:11)
Notlongago,Ihada3-weektripvisiting17citiesin4countries.Therewereafewpurposesofthistrip.Attheend,missionwasaccomplished.IconsideredthistripasignificantmilestoneafterIreachedthemid-age.
Despiteofexcitement,therewerealltypesofchallengesinthose3weeks.Awayfromhome,mymealplanshadtobeadjusted.VeryoftenIwasunabletoeatontime,andsometimethefoodwasoutofchoice.Moreover,thebedandpillowweredifferentdaybyday....[阅读全文]
(2018-11-16 17:03:49)
“Lifeistiringandtasteless!”,“Myjobisdryandtedious!“，“Iamsoboredatschool!”.Recently,Iheardthesecommentsfrommyfriendsandfamilies.
Itappearsweareallinthedireneedsofsomeexcitement!Therearelackofsatisfactionandthingsarenotworkingoutforus.Thiscanbelookedatfrombothsides.Onereasoncouldbetheobject(life,job,school)isnotinterestingenough;anotherreasoncouldbethesubj...[阅读全文]
(2018-10-28 15:38:04)
Iwatchedthetalentshowatmydaughter’sschool.Itwasgreat!
Iwasinfluencedbytheirenergyandfun.Iwastouchedbytheirstrongspiritandtheirhardworktogrowup.
Theshowwasorganizedbygrade11and12studentsandtherewereonlytwoteachersonsitetosupport.TwoMCswerenotonlyyoungandenergeticbutalsofunandengaging.Therewereovertwentyperformancesincludingsongsanddances.Afewshowswereclosetotheprofessionallevel....[阅读全文]
(2018-10-14 09:49:04)
Ireadanarticleyesterdayanditgotmethinking.Itisabouttheunhappinessofamiddleagedman.
Heisthegrandsonofafamouspolitician.Heachievedabigsuccessatage19.Hisstatementisthatheownseverythingbuthappiness.Thewriterendedthisarticlewith“everylifehasit’sstruggles,nomatterwhoyouare,whereyouare,andwhatyouownorwhatyoudonothave…”.Actually,Iunderstandthathisunhappinesscouldbetheresult...[阅读全文]
(2018-09-15 08:09:02)
RunningonLowBatteryAfterturningmid-aged,mybodystartedtoshowagingsignsgradually.Fromnowon,notonlythetime,thebodyandenergyarealsoneedtobemonitoredandmanaged.WhentherearedaysIfeeldown,itislikeamachinerunningonlowbattery.TheindicatoristhespeedatwhichIclimbthestairsoutofthesubwaystationnearwork.Today,itisfairlyslow.HowdoIsurvivedayslikethis?Getorganizedandbemindful.1.Slowdown.Runningcostsmoreenergythan...[阅读全文]
(2018-09-15 08:08:15)
TwoThingsIWatch
Everymorning,Iwatchthecitychannelfortwothings:WeatherForecastandCityNews.
Thesetwothingshavesimilaritiesanddifferencesincommon:theybothprovidereportsaboutthecity;However,oneismainlyaboutthesky,theotherismostlyabouttheground.Oneaddresseswhatisgoingtohappen,onestresseswhatjusthashappened.
Whatabouttheotherwayaround?WeatherForecastreviewsthetemperatureofyesterday’sa...[阅读全文]
(2018-09-07 19:01:19)
Recently,Iwatchedamoviewhichpresentsauniqueviewonalovingrelationship.
Thethemeofthemovieisthoughtfulyetdebatable-inalovingrelationship,thedominativeandthesubmissivearebothacceptableandreasonable.Atruefeministshouldnotencourageeachandeverywomantotakethecontrol,butrespectanindividual’schoicewhicheversuitsthembetter.
Adominator,asstudied,isinhighneedsofbeingincharge.Thelossofcontrolmakest...[阅读全文]
(2018-08-31 17:30:11)
“Wehaven’thadcreamysoupforawhilemom!”mydaughterasked“canyoumakeit?”
“Surething!”.
ThecreamsoupisaregularmealinwhichIwouldaddanentireboxof35%cream,sothereareextranutritionformyvegetariandaughter.Aftersheasked,Iplannedtomakeit,butforwhateverreasonitdidnothappeninthepastfewweeks.Now,itisaverysadmoment.IrealizedIhavemissedit,forever.
Twoyearsafter...[阅读全文]
(2018-08-16 18:25:58)
Afriendofmyfriendjustgotdivorced.Shecommentedthatittookhertenyearstounderstandherex-husband.
Itissurprisingthat“understanding”canterminateaten-yearmarriage.Usually,wewishforunderstandingwiththeassumptionthatitmakesourrelationshipsstronger.Itisagreedthatwithmisunderstandingyoucanholdsyourownagainsttheother.Actually,understandingcanalsocausesconflictsandtheseconflictscanbemoreseverean...[阅读全文]
