Whyaffairsaresuchadestructivebehavioronmarriage?Becauseaffairsmakethespousefeelunwanted,inadequent,thereforetheyfeelangry,hurt,pain,ashamed...Ithurtthemrightatthecoreofwhotheyare.Insteadofindulginginthesenegativefeelings,Istartedlookingresourcestohelpunderstandaffairs.Ireadmanybooks,andIhavetosaytheywereallveryhelpful.Theonethatisparticularlyhelpfulformewasabookcalled"breakfreefromaffair"...[阅读全文]
