爱与被爱
人生危机时刻的感悟。
博文
(2018-10-18 07:27:55)
InChinashowingcompassioncanbeharmful.InU.S.thisispositive,andnotshowingcompassionisacommonproblemforChinesepeople.Sorealizethisoppositesocialattitudetowardcompassion,andtothriveinU.S.showingcompassionisakeytosuccess![阅读全文]
(2018-10-15 07:43:58)
ComingbackfromtheChinatripwithPhil,definitelytotakestepstothenextlevel.Thefirststepistobeconfidentandtakeownershipofissues.Don'tstandonthesideline.Bementallyactive.It'srelevanttoyou.ThinkofDadwhothinksissuesarenotrelevantforhimandhebecoemsirrelevant.[阅读全文]
(2018-04-25 07:11:05)
Itseemsthateverythinghingesononething-howtoapproachpeopleandtalktopeople.Peopleareresponsive(i.e.,theydon'toverthinkyou).Thinkabouthowyouareapproached.Howdoyoujudgepeopleandmakeunconsciousdecisionsaboutthem.Beconfident.Simle.Andasksaysomethingeasytogetstartedandinteresting.Thentalkaboutmoresubstantialthings..[阅读全文]
(2018-04-25 07:06:52)
Tobeaninterestingandlikeableperson,it'snotthathard.
Ifyouparticipate,notjustwatch,youwillbemoreperceptiveandresponsive.
Fromthereyouwillbemorefunandhaveapersonaltouch.
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(2015-02-23 11:34:50)
为什么老觉得不如别人？前期生活造成的。装也要装出来，只有这样才能改过来。[阅读全文]
(2015-01-20 12:36:50)
1.Bereceptive:thisseemstobealesserproblem;
2.Bemoreresponsive(showaction):don'twait;
3.Bemoreassertive:don'tbeafraidtosaysomethingstupid;
4.Bemindfulofbodylanguage.[阅读全文]
2.Bemoreresponsive(showaction):don'twait;
3.Bemoreassertive:don'tbeafraidtosaysomethingstupid;
4.Bemindfulofbodylanguage.[阅读全文]
(2014-07-03 07:43:06)
1.Focusonwork,thisisit!
2.Putdonw20mineachdayforgenomiccode.
Arrangeprojectsinaneasy-to-manageway.PutOneNoteonline.
2.Putdonw20mineachdayforgenomiccode.
Arrangeprojectsinaneasy-to-manageway.PutOneNoteonline.
(2014-04-07 08:06:25)
Ifyouareconfident,projectyourconfidencetopeoplearoundyou,includingyourlovedones.Theyneedtofeelconfidentaboutyou.AndtheyWANTtofeelconfidentaboutyou.Theywanttobeproudofyou.Tootherstheconfidenceyouprojectdeterminesyourpromotionandcareerlifeaswell.Theyneedtoknowthattheyhaveconfidenceinyoubeforetheywanttopromoteyou.[阅读全文]
(2014-04-07 08:02:12)
Youareinthehabitofthinkingofothersarebetterthanyou.Youarekindofshamedorunworthytobeontheircompany.Notso!Thinktheirsituationandmanyofthemmaynotbeinasituationasgoodasyours.Everyonehastostruggleactually.[阅读全文]
(2014-04-07 07:58:12)
ListeningtoaubiobookonthetreatmentofPOWsinJapanesecamps,itfeelsthatselfhadbeenunderthevictimmentalitysincechildhood.Youhavetodowhatyouaretold,followtherules,andstaylow.Howhasitbeenservingyou?Nobodyhasthoughthighofyoubesidesthatyouareaniceguy.Beengivingthefeelingofbeingonthelowestrankhavingtobenicetomakedo.YoumightneedtostayinthatPOWmentalitywhenbeinginthatrarecircumstance.Butitleavesanimpressionof...[阅读全文]
