拥抱寂寞

Recently a close friend, whom I could talk to about anything, has left for a far away place...  nobody to talk to freely now.  A real taste of loneliness.  So much one just can't talk to anybody.  Have many other friends,  but afraid to talk to...  may be that's why they say 中年男人会撒谎。 One just can't have a big mouth and freely talk to anyone... a sign of maturity....  But to contitnue to be "mature", and responsible, one just has to learn to embrace the loneliness... and focus on tasks...

很多在“奋斗” 的朋友也许在想， 等达到下一个目标一切就会好了。  In fact, nothing like that.  In real life, one just can't stop, unfortunately.  Otherwise life could be so boring.