Recentlyaclosefriend,whomIcouldtalktoaboutanything,hasleftforafarawayplace...nobodytotalktofreelynow.Arealtasteofloneliness.Somuchonejustcan'ttalktoanybody.Havemanyotherfriends,butafraidtotalkto...maybethat'swhytheysay中年男人会撒谎。Onejustcan'thaveabigmouthandfreelytalktoanyone...asignofmaturity....Buttocontitnuetobe"mature",andresponsible,onejusthastolearntoembracetheloneliness...andfocusontask...[
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planning,contemplating,reassessing,etcetc...Afterawhile,what'sreallysignificantisjusttodoit.Putthingsintoaction.Spendthemostofadaydoingthings,insteadofplanningtodothings.Makethedaystasksclear,andaccomplishoneatatime.Bytheendoftheday(sometimesevenlongbefore5:00pm),youmayfindthatyou'vegotalotdoneandyouhavetheextratimetospendwithfriends,toplaysports,tospendwithfamily.AndtocometoWenxuecitytowriteafewl...[
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为了这一步花了很多的心力。崎岖的路,走了这么久,自从18年前踏上美国领土。记得当时一句在高校流行的一句话,“踏上美国领土就是胜利."其实根本不知道其后的会是何情何景。话说回来。这一切努力还是值得。总算到了。该是认真思考以后的路了。(打字太慢,这也是今后要修的一课)[
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