自控能力
(2014-05-27 05:22:30)
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要想在一个职位上长久不是你有很强的执行力,也不是你有很强的公关能力,而是一个人的控制力,可以控制情绪,控制脾气,控制嘴巴,控制身体,控制欲望,知道什么时候该说,什么时候该闭嘴。经历的事情多了,很多事情都可以看得开了,这时追求的是内心的平静与强大,不因别人的恶语中伤而反唇相击,不因别人的有意刁难而气急败坏,不因别人的抹黑攻讦而备感侮辱。一双冷静而理智的慧眼看穿表象,分析事物的本质,看清事情的真相,找到相应的对策,保全自身,换句话说先谋生存再图发展。
人活着都不容易,给别人一条路走的时候,也是给自己留了条路,往后的路会越走越宽,培养和树立优秀的职业素养,不管走到哪里都是一座丰碑。
认真、负责、感恩、忠诚等优秀品质,坚持3天容易,难的是始终坚持……
说的真好。俺把楼主和秀山的话都收了,留给孩子。
1. Constructively show your leadership and capacity, not meaning show off
2. Proactively improve the department you are managing by: adopt changes, deploy new technologies, promote productivity
3. While staying focused on priorities, enhance communications to other departments and your superiors
4. Bring in values to your organization and work communities
This will establish your leadership position in your organization or your industry, and people will consider you as a leader with a lot values and willl be happy to have you around.