Hi cookie MM: I met a guy and I really like him, especially we both felt satisfied with sex. Like you, after sex, I was asking for love, but he just did not want to offer any, even a couple of sweet words. That's really drove me nuts!! During the period, I was crazy like you. But I was able to reboot myself. Today, I met him. I told him, since we both enjoy sex, let's just talk and do sex since now disregard emotion and affection. I told him I am going to transfer my emotion to other places. He asked me why. I said it is because I met someone. Actually I did not meet anyone yet. I could tell he was uncomfortable to hear that. :) I want to share with you and tell myself is “Play is play and love is another thing." I am glad that I realized it and I am really happy now.
After I had the speech to him, I received emails from other guy. HAHA like our old Chinese saying “the old need to be gone then the new would come!"
Good luck Cookie MM!
