还记得孩子刚学走路的时候吗？
放手，
但要做好保护
1howdouknow
whenurchildnolongerthinksuhangthestars.
dreamteen,goodkid,manyteenslikethisfallapartwhentheymaketheirfirstbigmistake.
Stressisthespacebetweenyourthoughtsofhowlifeshouldbeandhowlifereallyis.
Whotheyrtodayisnotwhotheywillbeforever.[阅读全文]
博文
(2018-05-31 08:03:29)
(2016-01-29 07:41:06)
byJulieLythcott-Haims
part1:whatwe'redoingnow
1.keepingthemsafeandsound
2.providingopportuinty
3.beingthereforthem
4.succumbingtothecollegeadmissionsarmsrace
5.towhatend?
part2:whywemuststopoverparenting
6.ourkidslackbasiclifeskills
7.they'vebeenpsychologicallyharmed
8.they'rebecoming"studydrug"addicts
9.we'rehurtingtheirjobprospects
10.ove...[阅读全文]
part1:whatwe'redoingnow
1.keepingthemsafeandsound
2.providingopportuinty
3.beingthereforthem
4.succumbingtothecollegeadmissionsarmsrace
5.towhatend?
part2:whywemuststopoverparenting
6.ourkidslackbasiclifeskills
7.they'vebeenpsychologicallyharmed
8.they'rebecoming"studydrug"addicts
9.we'rehurtingtheirjobprospects
10.ove...[阅读全文]
(2016-01-19 09:22:02)
WhenIwasOne,Ihadjustbegun.two,Iwasnearlynew.three,Iwashardlyme.four,Iwasnotmuchmore.five,Iwasjustalive.ButnowIamsix,I'mascleverasclever.SoIthinkI'llbesixnowforeverandever.5-8,theendofearlychildhood,atimeoffreshdiscoveris,richimagination,andspecialclosenesstofamily.withdistinctpersonalitiesandinterestsoftheirown.black-and-whitethinkingrecognizingdifferentpointsofviewfollowingrulesself-aware...[阅读全文]
(2015-12-01 06:49:02)
Thethreerulesofferawayofmakingsenseofepidemics.
theLawoftheFew
theStickinessFactor
thePowerofContext[阅读全文]
theLawoftheFew
theStickinessFactor
thePowerofContext[阅读全文]
(2015-10-28 10:37:16)
引言TheRosetoMystery意大利的一个小村落，贫穷落后，人民吃肉，吃甜食。可是却没有心脏病，没有任何病。Thesepeopleweredyingofoldage.That"sit.
P1OPPORTUNITY
任何体育比赛的精英都经过层层选拔。成功靠的是individualmerit，是吗？
Ecology:thetallestoakintheforestisthetallestnotjustbecauseitgrewfromthehardiestacron;itisthetallestalsobecausenoothertreesblockeditssunlight,thesoilarounditwasdeepa...[阅读全文]
P1OPPORTUNITY
任何体育比赛的精英都经过层层选拔。成功靠的是individualmerit，是吗？
Ecology:thetallestoakintheforestisthetallestnotjustbecauseitgrewfromthehardiestacron;itisthetallestalsobecausenoothertreesblockeditssunlight,thesoilarounditwasdeepa...[阅读全文]
(2015-07-18 11:13:38)
JimTaylor,Ph.D.
PartISELF-ESTEEM
Ch1Aren'tIgoodenoughforyou?
Securityvs.Competence
self--esteemismadeupoftwoessentialcomponents.
--children'sneedtofeelthattheyareloved,valued,andappreciatedbytheirparents.(过去的三十年self-esteemmovement，此书02年出版)
--thesenseofcompetenceandmasteryoverone'slife.
globalbelief,specificbelief,self-reflection
RulesforAchievementandHap...[阅读全文]
PartISELF-ESTEEM
Ch1Aren'tIgoodenoughforyou?
Securityvs.Competence
self--esteemismadeupoftwoessentialcomponents.
--children'sneedtofeelthattheyareloved,valued,andappreciatedbytheirparents.(过去的三十年self-esteemmovement，此书02年出版)
--thesenseofcompetenceandmasteryoverone'slife.
globalbelief,specificbelief,self-reflection
RulesforAchievementandHap...[阅读全文]
(2013-12-20 18:00:38)
Agenreisaparticulartypeofliterarywork.Novels,shortstories,plays,poetry,myths,newspapers,referencebooks,andessaysaresomegenres.
Amainideaisastatementofwhatapassageismostlyabout.Often,anauthorstatesthemiinthefirsrorlastsentencesofthepassage.However,anauthormaystatethemainideaanywhereinthepassage.anauthoralsomaychoosenottostatethemidirectly,inwhichcasethereaderhastoinferthemiofthepassage.
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Amainideaisastatementofwhatapassageismostlyabout.Often,anauthorstatesthemiinthefirsrorlastsentencesofthepassage.However,anauthormaystatethemainideaanywhereinthepassage.anauthoralsomaychoosenottostatethemidirectly,inwhichcasethereaderhastoinferthemiofthepassage.
(2013-02-15 16:07:57)
ByMyrnaB.Shure,Ph.D.
Whathelpschildrenastheyapproachthepreteenandteenyearsmakegoodchoicesabouttheirlives?Understandinganother’sfeelingsandpointofviewUnderstandingmotivesFindingalternativesolutionsConsideringconsequencesSequencedplanning2.Fourstylesofparenting-Thepowerapproach
-Thesuggestingapproach
-Theexplainingapproach
-Theproblem-solvingapproachTalkingaboutFeelingWordsBeginwith...[阅读全文]
Whathelpschildrenastheyapproachthepreteenandteenyearsmakegoodchoicesabouttheirlives?Understandinganother’sfeelingsandpointofviewUnderstandingmotivesFindingalternativesolutionsConsideringconsequencesSequencedplanning2.Fourstylesofparenting-Thepowerapproach
-Thesuggestingapproach
-Theexplainingapproach
-Theproblem-solvingapproachTalkingaboutFeelingWordsBeginwith...[阅读全文]
(2012-11-02 07:30:39)
--Tacticsofdistraction,diversion,anddiplomacyworkwellwithtoddlers.--Reciprocalrespectisapatternofdisciplinethatworkswellforboys.Reinforcingdesirablebehaviormaybethemosteffectiveformoftrainingforveryyoungchildren.--Animportantingredientinsuccessfultoddlermanagementisaregularroutine.[阅读全文]
(2012-07-12 19:53:09)
Typicallytheonlyadultswhotakeangermanagementclassesarethosewhoareinfamilyormarriagetherapyorthosewhoareorderedbyacourtoflawtodosobecauseofextremeangerproblems.Thisistrulyashame,sinceeveryhumanbeingcouldbenefitfromlearningangermanagementskills.Ourchildrenaresolovable,innocent,andtreasured.Theybringusincrediblejoywithjustasmile.Theyloveuswiththeirentirebeings,andwelovethemwithanintensitythatisunique...[阅读全文]
