ByLoisP.Frankel,Ph.D.
Peoplewhopossesstechnicalcompetencebutgetstuckatsomepointalongtheircareerpathsdosobecausethey:
1.Overlooktheimportanceofpeople
2.Donotfunctioneffectivelyaspartofateam
3.Failtofocusonimageandcommunication
4.Possesslimitedemotionalintelligenceandlikability
5.Havedifficultyworkingwithauthority
6.Havetoobroadortoonarrowavision
7.Exhibitindifference...[阅读全文]
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(2009-01-14 11:09:10)
(2008-12-25 09:22:44)
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秋天到了，咱这疙儿又要暴土扬尘，埋了八汰了。大家出门多注意啊，别杨得二正的，加小心，沙子别整到眼睛里。
工作上也别老突鲁反仗，半拉科机的，有点敬业精神。虽说这年头挣点钱都不容易，但也别老买那便宜娄搜的破玩意儿，对自己好点儿。
家里头家务活也多干点，别总整得屋里屋外皮儿片儿的，墙上也魂儿画儿的。工作一天回来看着多闹听啊！
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秋天到了，咱这疙儿又要暴土扬尘，埋了八汰了。大家出门多注意啊，别杨得二正的，加小心，沙子别整到眼睛里。
工作上也别老突鲁反仗，半拉科机的，有点敬业精神。虽说这年头挣点钱都不容易，但也别老买那便宜娄搜的破玩意儿，对自己好点儿。
家里头家务活也多干点，别总整得屋里屋外皮儿片儿的，墙上也魂儿画儿的。工作一天回来看着多闹听啊！
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(2008-09-02 15:39:08)
Itseemstobeaproductivelongweekend…somuchdiscussionhere…makesmewanttobeapartofit…
IseeHanna,likemillionsworkingwomenallovertheworld,jugglingbetweenworkandfamilyresponsibilities.Iseeitasnormal,healthyandfairlybalancedwayoflifeandcan’timagineanabsoluteonewayoranotherforaperfectresolution.Lifeonthisearthismeanttocompromise,balance,prioritize,chooseandlearntobehappyforwhatyouhave.Iyearnforweeke...[阅读全文]
IseeHanna,likemillionsworkingwomenallovertheworld,jugglingbetweenworkandfamilyresponsibilities.Iseeitasnormal,healthyandfairlybalancedwayoflifeandcan’timagineanabsoluteonewayoranotherforaperfectresolution.Lifeonthisearthismeanttocompromise,balance,prioritize,chooseandlearntobehappyforwhatyouhave.Iyearnforweeke...[阅读全文]
(2008-08-28 20:33:05)
Wellsaid!
Iseemajoritypeople,manorwoman,alreadyputtheirpersonalandfamilylifeaheadoftheircareerandlivearelativelybalancedlife.Onedoesnotnecessarilyhavetochooseoneabsolutelyovertheother.Manysucessfulpeoplealsohavefulfillingpersonalandfamilylife.
Tomanypeople,esp.thefirstgenerationofimmigrants,thesecondincomeisoftennecessary.Evenwhenitisnotactuallyneeded,aworkinglifeaddssignificantvaluetoawom...[阅读全文]
Iseemajoritypeople,manorwoman,alreadyputtheirpersonalandfamilylifeaheadoftheircareerandlivearelativelybalancedlife.Onedoesnotnecessarilyhavetochooseoneabsolutelyovertheother.Manysucessfulpeoplealsohavefulfillingpersonalandfamilylife.
Tomanypeople,esp.thefirstgenerationofimmigrants,thesecondincomeisoftennecessary.Evenwhenitisnotactuallyneeded,aworkinglifeaddssignificantvaluetoawom...[阅读全文]
(2008-08-22 09:24:30)
Agreed.Sometimesmovingupistheonlywayforbettersurvival.Oncethecompanyfindsacompetentdirector,heorshewouldquicklygetridofthepeoplewhowouldchallengeandthreatentheposition(andthenewdirectormaygainthetrustoftheuppermanagement,overyou,todoso).
Inthissituation,nobodycanhelpyou(youwillnotfindanyonewhowillactinyourbestinterestanywhereinyourcompanyoroutside),exceptyourself.
Inadditiontotheabilityand...[阅读全文]
Inthissituation,nobodycanhelpyou(youwillnotfindanyonewhowillactinyourbestinterestanywhereinyourcompanyoroutside),exceptyourself.
Inadditiontotheabilityand...[阅读全文]
(2008-08-22 09:22:01)
Youshouldtakeoverthedirector’spositionandpolishyourleadershipskills.Oneoftheseskillsistodelegatetaskstoyoursubordinates.Foragoodleader,thehigheryougomoreflexibilityyouhaveintermsofmanagingyourworkandpersonaltime.
Afewnotes:Hiregoodpeopleandgetridofbadpeople(theseareenergydrainers).Providevision,supportandmentorshiptotheteam.Keepeveryonebusy(thanyou)andmotivated(rewardandpromotethecompetentand...[阅读全文]
Afewnotes:Hiregoodpeopleandgetridofbadpeople(theseareenergydrainers).Providevision,supportandmentorshiptotheteam.Keepeveryonebusy(thanyou)andmotivated(rewardandpromotethecompetentand...[阅读全文]
(2008-08-22 09:12:01)
Ok,IfeelIhavetosaysomethinghere...
Yourbosshasalreadyshownyouhisanswerbynotrespondingtoyour(nagging)messagesandthatmessageisheeither他不愿做，或认为这点小事不重要.Ifyoudon'tgetit(worseyetgetupsetbyit),itsimplyshowsyourimmaturity,professionally.Intermsofhowyousupposetodealwiththisdecisionnamelylackofadequateresource,itisyourjobtoproposeamoreefficientprocess,orreduceddeliverable,etc.andcommunica...[阅读全文]
Yourbosshasalreadyshownyouhisanswerbynotrespondingtoyour(nagging)messagesandthatmessageisheeither他不愿做，或认为这点小事不重要.Ifyoudon'tgetit(worseyetgetupsetbyit),itsimplyshowsyourimmaturity,professionally.Intermsofhowyousupposetodealwiththisdecisionnamelylackofadequateresource,itisyourjobtoproposeamoreefficientprocess,orreduceddeliverable,etc.andcommunica...[阅读全文]
(2008-08-20 14:36:52)
Itreallydependsonpersonalvaluesandpriorities(rememberthatalotofpeopledonotevenhavetheluxurytochooseorchangejobfreely).
Iwouldn’tmindsharingwithyoumydecisiontreewhileconsideringajobchange.(Imayaddmoresinceitisputtogetherinsuchhaste.)
1.Thebottom-lineisthatIwillneedtomakealivingtosupportmyfamilysimplybecauseI’mresponsibleperson.SoIwillnever(&hadnever)quitajobbecausehowtoughasituationm...[阅读全文]
