女人都是顺毛驴

同床异梦仍相守，
几成恩爱有来由?
尘缘未尽情已去，
携手余生到白头！

 

我不懂女人，而且从来就不懂，这也是为什么我一直害怕女人的原因之一。我今天写女人，并不是我有所长进，也不是一夜之间我就突然变得聪明起来了。而其始作俑者，还是女人自己让我在敬畏中慢慢习惯的下意识堆集起来，变成我的人生词典里的一个概念: "女人都是"顺毛驴"。

 

以往我总是与"好男不和女斗"为敌，总喜欢在前人的智慧面前耍聪明。结果是我被自己的愚蠢搞大了头，也把一条横幅牢牢的挂在了心上: "唯女人与小人难养也。"

 

有时我们前进的步伐太大，以至于我们来不及看清自己和现实的真正面貌，而停下来是最聪明的选择。毛驴很倔，如果你不顺了它的意，它就会不停的撂蹶子。如果你没忘记"黔驴技穷"的典故，里面的老虎开始也对它敬畏三分。但老虎聪明啊，它懂得停下来观察，摸清状况后才从容向前。女人都有毛驴的倔性和固执，尤其是结了婚的女人，连过去曾有过的矜持也廉价出售给了昨天。在亲人面前，在他男人面前，如果不顺她的意，哈哈，她比毛驴还要倔。

 

女人对"她的男人"要求很多，起码在潜意识里是这样的。她们总是会在内心深处反复比较，潜移默化的影响她们的思维习惯，又在日常生活中有意无意的表现出来，笼统一些地讲，她们希望他们喜欢的男人相貌如潘安，挣钱像盖茨，体壮似金钢，身高若姚明。但这不是她们的错，比较是平常之心。不能一概而论的说因为比较了就减少了几分先前对你的爱意。爱是个变量，是你们朝夕相处，甘苦与共聚积而成的丰硕成果。当然如果男人那点不符合她们的要求，也会惹得女人无来由的生出许多怨恨来，怨就怨吧，还要唠唠叨叨，甚至大发脾气(雌激素是要运动的啊！)。而最让男人受不了的也正是这没来由的怒气，这边还丈二摸不着头脑，那边已经邪火中烧了。如果回敬几句必然是一场世界大战，有的还是一场持久战。

 

上帝保佑！如果你，一个大男人心里有敬畏，就在女人打你左脸时，干脆送上右边的，这样绝对会有息事宁人效果。其实男女之间，有多少大是大非? 不过就是生活中的一些鸡毛蒜皮的琐事，床头打完床尾和(不打岂不是更好)的无聊。你们多年的感情是用砖和泥土混在一起搭起来的一道比长城还结实的城墙，不可能凭一次发驴就能撼动它的基础。小浪根本就翻不了大船，而你们多年血肉融合经营起来的爱巢就是这样一条经得起大风大浪的船。所以沉住气，不要和你的"毛驴"计较，也不要太在意她的某句狠话，因为没有是非的是非本来就是一本糊涂账，在这个世界上也只有家才是没有是非能说的清楚的地方。男人委屈一下，认个违心的错，等风平浪静以后再君子报仇。哈哈，保你事半功倍，再说好汉不吃眼前亏啊！

 

记住女人都是"顺毛驴"，懂得说小话的人才能办"大事"。放下身段的男人更像一个男子汉，善于"服从"的男人才是个真正的好男人！当然这样的男人要有爱和胸襟。

 

再罗嗦一句: 女人都是用爱做的，结了婚的女人大多还一心一意，只要你善用顺从之道，你的家里就会常常阳光普照，否则。。。。。。。。

 

哈哈，我就是个瞎白话，别全信我，也别全不信。在此班门弄斧，全是为了这可怜世界上像我一样可怜的男人 辟一条生活的小路来。

 

不是冤家不聚头，你可以在外征服一群女人，回家还得被一个女人征服，哈哈哈
 

女人要宠，男人要脸。

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[northamericaCW]

Why you guess the guy is 美国白人? Yes, he is a good person for sure. I just want to say even two good people are still hard to get along very well. Sorry I am lazy to type chinese, or I never figure out how to type chinese, but really enjoy to read it. (Used to write diary everyday in China until leaving the country).

[northamericaCW]

My side story is the man is always calm, gentle, sharp speak and great morals, but really know how to use languages to prove his right. But he doesn't understand woman and I consider him still like a ungrow-up teen who think he knows everthing. If he prove any conflicts are always because women is 小毛驴 and wrong, this consider stubborn and low EQ. This drives woman crazy as well.

[平凡往事]

回复盈袖2006的评论:
女人要宠，男人要脸。

[平凡往事]

回复zt88的评论:
谢谢分享

[盈袖2006]

我们都想做快乐的小毛驴:)

[zt88]

好文。都是经验和智慧啊！

[eaglewings]

平凡太不容易了. 读完下面的, 您可能心情会好一些因为 you are not alone. 对天下男同志们深表同情啊.


The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret.
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Man is incomplete until he is married. Then he is finished.
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A little boy asked his father, "Daddy, how much does it cost to get married?"
The father replied, "I don't know son, I'm still paying."
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Young Son: Is it true, Dad, that in some parts of Africa a man doesn't know his wife until he marries her?
Dad: That happens in every country, son.
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Then there was a man who said, "I never knew what real happiness was until I got married; then it was too late.
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A man placed an ad in the classifieds: "Wife wanted."
The next day he received a hundred letters.
They all said the same : "You can have mine."
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I married Miss Right. I just didn't know her first name was Always.
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Just think, if it weren't for marriage, men would go through life thinking they had no faults at all.
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First guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!"
Second guy: "You're lucky, mine's still alive.
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The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it once.

[小艾妈妈]

你这高度的觉悟，估计你家的毛驴儿再不会撂蹶子了吧！哈哈，有趣。我这就给我家男人下绊子七。