男友8岁儿子要买书, 我该买给他吗? 昨天听大伙儿的建议.

培养男友儿子与我共同的兴趣.我喜欢看书,昨晚我带8岁的他去书店.我看书,他也在儿童区自己看书玩.后来他找到一本星球大战的书,里面是贴画和游戏习题说想买.我说不买.因为我判断他就这一阵热度.虽然不到10元钱,但是我怕养成他想要东西我就会买的习惯.孩子也乖,没吵着要.回到家跟男友说这件事,他说如果是他,他就会买给儿子.因为不贵,而且是书.当然男友也没怪我.请教各位妈妈,如果你是亲妈,这种情况会掏钱吗? 我是不是错了?

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Can we exchange opinions via email?

I am dating a guy who has a 9-year old girl as well. My boyfriend is American born Asian, but he acts and behaves just like an American, and he has never dated or attracted by Asians before but me. His ex wife is a 100% white girl too.

I have to deal with the same issue all the time and I think I am getting better and better.

If you are still in this relationship, I would like to exchange opinions or learn from each other, or even figure out a solution with you for both of us.

I am 36 years old too.

Thanks,

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