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挣扎也是生活的一部分。没有苦那有甜。
人生因痛苦挣扎而美丽
一说是挣扎，也可以说是战胜自我。过了这一关，就海阔天空了。
在这个过程中，有些人成功，有些人成佛，有些人认命，有些人变得冷漠，有些人心理永
远留下了阴影。人的一生其实就是挣扎的一生，挣扎着活着，活的更好。为了自己，也为
了自己所爱的人活着。
这根本不是什么高学历高薪的问题，而是如何恢复从前正常的生活轨道和精神状态的问题。至于是不是“成功”，每个人心中都有对成功的一把标尺，自己感到舒服就好。
right, the most important thing is happiness.
do what makes you happy. and be happy of what you are doing.
sometimes, you have to sacrifice a little to get a long-term and long-lasting
happiness.
if you are so not happy with what you are doing now, think carefully what
will make you happy in the long run, then make a plan for it, and understand
that you may have to sacrifice and suffer for it now, but you will be there
one day. after all, holding a negative attitude toward your current situation
and doing nothing to change it is the most harmful! we shouldn't be afraid to
change, and the change i am talking about can be anything, yourself and your
goals.
according to Napoleon Hill, you may learn to become positive, but most of the
peoopple will become negative when they meet the setback.--That is the hardest time
to become positive always!
my favorite book is called "success througth a postive mental attitude" by
Napoleon Hill and William Stone
and the second one is called "awaken the Giant Within"by Anthony Robbins.
exactly.
set a reasonable standard in your heart and stick with it with a healthy
attitude, and, most importantly, be satisfied with what you have achieved
after effort.
in a word, reach for what you think you can reach and be satisfied.
不是懒
是心灰意冷
需要的是精神上的振作
Sadly, I do not know where is my happiness. I am happy when stay with family, when go out relaxing. I am uphappy at any kind of competitive profession. To me, I guess I might not be able find a career that can make me happy. I do not know how many pepople out there are like me: work is work--not expect a lot of joy, find happiness after work?
I feel it is hard to maintain a positive attitude always. As said,people like me-a perfectionist-- is very sensitive to possible setbacks.
To me, it does not work by " 战胜自我". I benefited a lot by starting accept myself, like myself, being nicer to myself. Once I did that, I can free the energy which trapped me in the negative emotions like frustration, anger, anxiety: eg: YOU SHOULD DO BETTER! And move on.
Cheers,