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孝不是对孩子的要求和束服，强求不来的。是自然而然的。

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</p><br /> <p>子女是上天给你的，上天就是自然界，父母从上天来，子女也是从上天来，子女不是属父母所有，属上天所有。</p><br /> <p>不要对子女过分的奢望，人的智慧一生下来就不一样。大家都一样才叫公平，其实不然，大家都不一样才叫公平。</p><br /> <p>其实你不必教你的小孩孝顺不孝顺，你孝顺你的父母，小孩自然就孝顺你了。孝顺父母不是人的天性，如果是人的天性，那就不需要教他了，它是后天养成的习惯。</p><br /> <p>一个不孝的人，你多给他东西是在害他。对父母不孝的人，对国家不会忠心耿耿，对朋友不会实实在在，忠孝是一致的。孝是很多德行的基本，孝哪里来？是父母做给他看的。是自然而然形成的。</p> </div> <script type="text/javascript"> function forumSelected() { var forumId = $("#forumId").val(); if(forumId == null || '' == forumId) { alert('请选择论坛.'); } else { } } </script> <div id="postManageBar" class="post_manage_bar"> <div class="manage_option"> [ <a href="/blog/frontend.php?act=articlePrint&blogId=28443&date=201109&postId=8398" target="_blank">打印</a> ] </div> <div class="manage_option"> [ <a href="//www.wenxuecity.com/bookmark/script/add.php?title=%5B%E5%8D%9A%E5%AE%A2%5DJustAsked%3A%E5%AD%9D%E4%B8%8D%E6%98%AF%E5%AF%B9%E5%AD%A9%E5%AD%90%E7%9A%84%E8%A6%81%E6%B1%82%E5%92%8C%E6%9D%9F%E6%9C%8D%EF%BC%8C%E5%BC%BA%E6%B1%82%E4%B8%8D%E6%9D%A5%E7%9A%84%E3%80%82%E6%98%AF%E8%87%AA%E7%84%B6%E8%80%8C%E7%84%B6%E7%9A%84%E3%80%82&link=http%3A%2F%2Fblog.wenxuecity.com%2Fblog%2Ffrontend.php%3Fact%3Darticle%26blogId%3D28443%26date%3D201109%26postId%3D8398&category=blog&itemType=201109&itemID=8398" target="_blank">加入书签</a> ] </div> <style> #wechatshare{background:#000;position:fixed;z-index:0;width:100%;height:100%;left:0;top:0;filter:alpha(opacity=60);-moz-opacity:0.6;opacity:0.6} #panelbox{position:relative;text-align:center;background:#fff;width:580px;height:320px;padding-top:40px;left:35%;top:25%;position:fixed;z-index:2;border-radius:15px} #panelbox h3{font-size:15px;color:#44753c} #panelbox h3 img{width:21px;vertical-align:middle;padding:0 3px} #panelbox center{padding-top:10px} #panelbox center img{width:200px} </style> <script type="text/javascript"> function showQRCode(imgurl){ if(!document.getElementById('qrbox')){ var layer = document.createElement("DIV"); layer.id="qrbox"; var html=""; html+='<div id="wechatshare" onclick="hideQRCode();">'; html+='</div>'; html+='<div id="panelbox">'; html+=' <h3>打开微信<img src="/news/images/icon_qrcode.gif" />扫一扫[Scan QR Code]，打开网页后点击屏幕右上角分享按钮</h3>'; html+=' <center><img alt="右键另存为下载到本地" src="'+imgurl+'"></center>'; html+='</div>'; layer.innerHTML = html; var body = document.getElementById("wxc_blog").parentNode; body.appendChild(layer); }else{ $("#qrbox").css("display","inline"); } } function hideQRCode(){ $("#qrbox").css("display","none"); } </script> <div class="manage_option"> <a target="_self" href="#" onclick="showQRCode('https://api.qrserver.com/v1/create-qr-code/?size=200x200&data=https%3A%2F%2Fm.wenxuecity.com%2Fmyblog%2F28443%2F201109%2F8398.html%3Famp%3D1');return false;"><img src="/news/images/btn_sharewechat.gif" style="width:auto;height:auto"></a> </div> </div> <div class="tagMore"> <div class="tag BLK_txtc"> <a id="" target="_blank" href="/myblog/28443/201109/8398.html"> 阅读 </a> <em>(<script language="JavaScript" type="text/javascript" src="//count.wenxuecity.com/service/count/script/do.php?clear=1&type=28443&id=8398&refresh=true"></script>)</em> ┆ <a id="" href="/myblog/28443/201109/8398.html?#comments" target="_blank">评论</a> <em>(0)</em> </div> </div>  <div id="comments" class="comments"> <div class="commentsTitle"> <div class="commentsLabel"> <strong>评论</strong> </div> </div> <div class="non-comments">目前还没有任何评论</div>    <div id="addComment" class="addComment"> <div class="non-comments"> <a href="">登录</a>后才可评论. </div> </div>   </div>  </div> <div class="BLK_containerFoot"></div> </div> </div> </div> </div>  <img src="//pixel.wenxuecity.com/images/pixel.gif?refe=none" style="display: none" height="1" width="1"/> </div>    </body> </html>