非常想再要一个宝宝

第一个宝宝现在半岁了，是个男宝宝。心里非常想再要一个宝宝。如果是个男孩，两个宝宝有个关照，也会是很好的玩伴。如果是个女孩，妈妈就有了个小棉袄。两个人相对的日子也许会太孤单。

现在我妈妈在我上班时帮我照顾宝宝。我中产收入工程师, MBA 即将拿到。现工作尚可但难说稳定。我以后不想再找男人。如果有两个宝宝，把他们带大，不管吃多少苦，我都会非常开心。

妈妈年纪大了，怎忍心让她一直帮我照顾孩子？我想以后再请个人来帮忙。妈妈坚决不同意。对于生两个孩子，妈妈说，前几年苦一些倒没什么，就怕以后经济上紧张，受憋。

想问问大家，两个宝宝比一个宝宝，开销上会多多少？一个中产收入的单身母亲能负担的起较好的学校and education for two kids吗? .

I asked my OB that I was thinking about having another baby but I didn\'t know if I could take good care of both. He said:If you can take good care of one, you can take good care of two. Quite encouraging.

I am 38. If I want another one, I cannot afford to wait for too long.

Please share with me your experience on having more kids. Thank you.