Inspiration from Dancing

Dancing and sports have been on side tracks during my life most of the time since very young age, which provides good balance to my "main track" activities. Several years ago, I involved in competitive ballroom dancing, and felt really inspired from the basic concept behind partnership. Man is the leader in the dance and woman is the follower. Man provides frame and woman presents beautiful pictures in the frame. Man provides direction and woman provides effective excecution in the direction. Sometimes the woman has to lead as well, such as due to unexpected traffic jam on the floor that the man is not aware of. However, for two people to dance well together and to enjoy the level of dance that each of them can possibly do, the two have to be compatible and be able to dance in the same level. Also, each one should be able to dance his/her own dance with self balance, and dance towards a common center at the same time. It involves common goals, collaboration, mutual support, etc. Is it the same for life partners as well?

[Flamenco_Girl]

回复menhaoran1的评论:
I agree with your comments. I heard that too "If you are good ballroom dancer, golf might be easier for u only if you". But I haven't tried yet.

Thanks for stoping by.

[menhaoran1]

Very true. However, it is very hard to find good partner. In the scale of 1 to 10 (most difficult), I would say 9. If looking for wife, I can scale down to 8... hehe

Ballroom partnership is so important in the competition, kind of very stressful.

If you are good ballroom dancer, golf might be easier for u only if you do not mind hot, cold, wind, rain... hehe

[心灵之约]

very nice. it's talking about the balance of man and woman in the real life. good point.

[远方的呼唤]

What you say makes sense.