征求你的观点：如何在工作中处理争论

如果在一个TEAM MEETING 中出现争论，某某人以大于平常2倍的声音向你“呐喊”，你会怎么办？（前提，你认为你是正确的）
1. 某某是你的顶头上司
2. 某某是你的上司的上司
3. 某某是你的平级，是你的竞争对手
4. 某某是你的下级
5. 某某是你的顶头上司的同级，是你的上司的竞争对手

回复by CATHY_BAY：
1. 某某是你的顶头上司: never happened. always have agreement with my boss beforehand
2. 某某是你的上司的上司: happens all the time. yell back if I am certain I am right. He always smiles when I shout back. The prerequisite is that he knows I am not a very calculative person.
3. 某某是你的平级，是你的竞争对手: calmly fight back, with good reasoning and suggestions. Make sure boss sees that I am trying to be collaborative and constructive.
4. 某某是你的下级: say we will address this afterwards. let's move on for now. But this never happens to me. My reports know they can't win arguments with me.
5. 某某是你的顶头上司的同级，是你的上司的竞争对手: sarcastic and ridicule the person severely. There is no reserve here.
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Keep calm. -jill08- ♀   (0 bytes) (8 reads) 2/24/09 

• 不跟上司喊的给他留点面子 -快笨死了- ♀   (44 bytes) (47 reads) 2/24/09

• 不争论，委婉提出意见和看法就行了。如果没有明白人，就更不要去 -贪玩- ♂   (350 bytes) (90 reads) 2/24/09

• 为什么我们不能像本土人一样理直气壮的争论？ -百万富翁- ♂   (0 bytes) (13 reads) 2/24/09

• 聪明的本土人也不理直气壮的争论！ -快笨死了- ♀   (0 bytes) (15 reads) 2/24/09

• 顶！！！聪明的本土人也不理直气壮的争论！ -贪玩- ♂   (0 bytes) (14 reads) 2/24/09

• 其实争论不争论只要掌握好尺度 -快笨死了- ♀   (0 bytes) (8 reads) 2/24/09

• 我们这么聪明，但是我们还是没有自信？WHY? -百万富翁- ♂   (0 bytes) (9 reads) 2/24/09

• 呵呵，不争论，才正是有自信，有智慧的表现。 -贪玩- ♂   (0 bytes) (6 reads) 2/24/09

• different scenarios -Cathy_Bay- ♀   (738 bytes) (251 reads) 2/24/09

• 一看就是SEASONED VETERAN，不错，全盘收下，珍藏 -百万富翁- ♂   (0 bytes) (4 reads) 2/24/09

• agree... she does have strategy... usually i just yell wheneve -pega- ♀   (0 bytes) (5 reads) 2/25/09

• usually i just yell whenever i feel like it -pega- ♀   (0 bytes) (3 reads) 2/25/09

• who actually yelled at you to trigger this post? -Cathy_Bay- ♀   (0 bytes) (33 reads) 2/24/09

• I got yelled at very often, I do yell back occasionally -百万富翁- ♂   (0 bytes) (5 reads) 2/24/09

• haha. guess we are the same type. -Cathy_Bay- ♀   (0 bytes) (12 reads) 2/24/09

• 不管他是谁 , 你得心平气和地把你的观点说清楚 -interested1-   (0 bytes) (6 reads) 2/24/09

• 大家看看Cathy_Bay的回贴吧，很有水平！ -百万富翁- ♂   (0 bytes) (20 reads) 2/24/09

• 温柔的强者，有理由有权利争论时选择不争论 -布衣之才- ♂   (0 bytes) (8 reads) 2/24/09

• 值得争么？争之何益不争何损？不争即争反之亦反 -看那月光- ♀   (0 bytes) (4 reads) 2/24/09

• I think we are talking about 2 questions here -Cathy_Bay- ♀   (486 bytes) (48 reads) 2/25/09

• 对，我的问题是如何对付别人对你“YELLING" -百万富翁- ♂   (0 bytes) (2 reads) 2/25/09

• 争论当然应该，而且必要。注意要处理得专业，不要针对人 -怪哉- ♂   (0 bytes) (7 reads) 2/25/09

• 这个观点我同意。尽量做到不针对人，至少表面上不针对人 -百万富翁- ♂   (0 bytes) (2

 提上来说处理争论 -看那月光- ♀    (409 bytes) (253 reads) 2/24/09 

•  呵呵，若你已强过他，所争为何？若你不如他，争之何用？ -吴用先生- ♂    (0 bytes) (11 reads) 2/24/09

•  说得真好~~ -云河- ♀    (0 bytes) (3 reads) 2/25/09

•  回复：呵呵，若你已强过他，所争为何？right. 若你不如他，争之何用? -Cathy_Bay- ♀    (592 bytes) (19 reads) 2/25/09

•  yes, but argue in an unemotional way. being able to -pega- ♀    (73 bytes) (10 reads) 2/25/09

•  "argue" deos not mean "yell". -Cathy_Bay- ♀    (114 bytes) (6 reads) 2/25/09

•  And that's american way. If you don't like it -百万富翁- ♂    (47 bytes) (2 reads) 2/25/09

•  要争论，必须争论。我这人工作没有争论就没劲 -怪哉- ♂    (66 bytes) (26 reads) 2/25/09

•  当然，不能什么都争，小事不重要的事就不用争了 -怪哉- ♂    (12 bytes) (11 reads) 2/25/09

•  我去面试的时候，如果下面没人跟我唱对台，我就弄不好 -怪哉- ♂    (48 bytes) (18 reads) 2/25/09

•  exactly. more questions i got, more excited I would be -Cathy_Bay- ♀    (24 bytes) (11 reads) 2/25/09

•  In some case, you have to lose the arguement -百万富翁- ♂    (151 bytes) (1 reads) 2/25/09

•  absolutely. -Cathy_Bay- ♀    (318 bytes) (0 reads) 2/25/09

•  回复：提上来说处理争论 -sub101- ♂    (309 bytes) (23 reads) 2/25/09

•  As fellow chinese， we have a lot to learn how to argue -百万富翁- ♂    (12 bytes) (1 reads) 2/25/09

•  seems liek most people enjoy argument otherwise why 提上来说处理 -Cathy_Bay-