it's what you bring on the table

that defines your contribution to the community, and thus your value,

your experience, your feeling, your reasoing... try hold the judgement part, let everyone has a chance for their own conclusions,

let's all try not to waste time on pointing fingers and yelling at each other, how much is it there that, as an adult, you can live with?

If someone keeps making arguments that you think is silly, what a big deal is it just to skip and ignore and keep your cool?

Why not feel happy if you happen to see some angles, some info, some reasoning that haven't occurred to you before? If you are full of insights and experiences why not share?

Are we all stressed and depressed that, a voice of different opinions become the last straw that breaks our back?

be cool man, (and women), you have seen the world, you can handle it,

best