静水深流 水沐莲清！
明眸善睐
谨附上摘录下来文学城中众朋友来信, 以饷在文学城里游走的海内外朋友
偶菡萏芳菲在此谨附上摘录下来的数位文学城中朋友的来信，因其不同篇章中文字迥异，行文中又充满着生气，部分文字充盈、跳跃、生动、活泼，又充满温情，本姑娘真诚将私家珍藏奉献，以饷在文学城里游走的海内外朋友，其中不乏笔墨丰足者矣哦。
本悄悄话来自 海姑娘 于 2006-08-11 02:59:13
我加好你了，你长的很漂亮， 以前在冬日阳光的朋友圈里看到过你， 真纳闷为什么他的女性朋友怎么都那么好看
本悄悄话来自 海姑娘 于 2006-08-11 03:49:26
呵呵，我是她妹妹, 我哥哥就爱漂亮女孩, 出名的色鬼
喜欢你的自我介绍，写的很好
我在澳洲呀
本悄悄话来自 淑女司令 于 2006-07-12 23:26:46
也请加我吧
本悄悄话来自 Dave01 于 2006-07-12 05:54:44
wow,
你好会写啊。 真的爱上你了。 救我一救好吗? 求求你。
本悄悄话来自 Dave01 于 2006-07-12 04:34:30
你好， 真早啊， 不会是在东部吧? 亲爱的， 呵呵。
本悄悄话来自 SD1000 于 2006-07-12 08:42:38
如果我没错，你应该是一个冰与火，爱与恨交织在一起的美眉。你心中充满一种难以控制的激情，即使是修行多年的老增也难抵你致命的诱惑。呵呵，别忘了看清对手再亮剑啊，不然受伤的可是自己的软肋。别害怕，你的剑还没开刃呢。
本悄悄话来自 40hutu 于 2006-08-08 00:26:49
谢谢回留言。
时不常看看你的朋友圈，没有加几个。看来双刃妮子确实心高气定，佛主在胸。你独特的开场白能否拉近网人的距离，不敢妄断； 但邀屠龙宝剑，激壮士豪情是没有疑问的；不才如我，也抖擞精神，明知山有虎，偏向虎山行。想像中的你，almost too good to be true, 但如今可怜的人们已经没有太多梦想了，对于美丽，宁可信其有。妄想有那么一天，在旧金山湾区的某个角落，邂逅伊人，哪怕只是惊鸿一暼。有空来我博克坐坐。
40hutu 评论于：2006-08-08 01:00:58
浏览博克，见为文惜墨如金，常常欲言又止，似乎承载得不轻，风格与自我介绍迥异，真奇人也。
只这篇，辗转阐释，得雾里看花，略见端倪。
本悄悄话来自 40hutu 于 2006-08-10 02:06:49
读知性女主播栏目倡议，洋洋洒洒，不同于其他篇章，一显内涵。粘贴几周来，筹备进展如何？可有效劳之处？
本悄悄话来自 JOE.COM 于 2006-08-10 02:09:51
真象天外飞仙
sweetlife 留言于：2006-07-22 03:28:33
看见天仙, 不免停步!
赠几个MV!别望喜欢!
knightchan2001 留言于：2006-07-20 01:31:00
冷艳
SD1000 留言于：2006-07-12 17:57:22
擅长捕捉的女射手? or 充满着乐趣和变化的双子座?
本悄悄话来自 风中的云 于 2006-08-10 21:58:06
你有这么多的爱好啊----服装, 逛街, 购物, 烹调, 美食, 家务, 旅行, 储蓄, 投资, 唱歌, 跳舞, 戏剧, 音乐, 电影, 电视, 电脑, 上网, 电子游戏, 摄影, 绘画, 书法, 雕塑, 艺术创作, 阅读, 写作, 聊天, 时尚, 乐器, 养宠物, 钢琴，小提琴，键盘，吉他，二胡，口琴，长笛，古筝，扬琴 ......
我怎么还没有见到你加我呢？
本悄悄话来自 风中的云 于 2006-08-10 02:08:59
可以认识你吗？我常在影坛，要想找电影看，我可以帮忙。
本悄悄话来自 风中的云 于 2006-08-10 22:10:54
原来你一直知道我耿耿于怀啊，呵呵，我一直等着呢，要不我这一宿还不睡了~~~
本悄悄话来自 风中的云 于 2006-08-10 22:13:18
呵呵，这里是1：11AM
本悄悄话来自 风中的云 于 2006-08-10 22:14:25
是，想你
风中的云 留言于：2006-08-10 23:08:17
问个好，排个队 :)
不见也钟情 留言于：2006-07-12 14:10:37
我拼命闪躲 你擅长捕捉...
SD1000 评论于：2006-08-11 02:17:15
还有时间上网，看来也没忙到哪里。
乘着年轻加油好好练功，曙光就在前面。。。
本悄悄话来自 SD1000 于 2006-07-12 19:26:56
For curiosity, how comes that you was wondering around the city street and end up by walking into the SD's territory? It seems that you are quite busy on building your own little castle all day. Just for a fresh air or ...
Like to see some of your old photos, for example, when you are about 10 years old. Someone said that from your 10 years old photo, can get your image when u r 70s. HeHe. Don't u believe it?
Btw, how to pronounce your ID, HAN2DAN1FEN1FEI1?
本悄悄话来自 JOE.COM 于 2006-08-04 23:57:09
QQ ?
本悄悄话来自 Hurricane66 于 2006-08-03 21:41:19
Hi Fanfei,
Sorry, I have to use my not good English to write to you because I didn't use HanZhi typing software quite often due to my bad PinYin, so just get used to using English usually. In fact I like our native Chinese language very much, which is so expressive when you want to express what you think in your heart.
Anyway, sorry again!
Today, I read most of your papers in the web,I found you are a so talented girl, especially most of the papers are full of the essence of philosophy in daily life, from which I can see you are an unique girl who loves life and so often thinks about the life and then get some reflections and then try yourself to be an ideal one in daily life. Being a perfect person is not so easy and almost impossible, in my mind at least. Before 30 years old I was like this kind of person, after everyday's work, I should to write a diary and think about everything I did at that day and then get some conclusions in order to do better next day, day by day.However, experience told me that was not good. Later on, sometimes I appreciate one famous saying" NangDe Futu", which is the key for my life sometimes.
Tell you the truth, I appreciate the following words you wrote:
(1)我仍然相信可爱的女人应该是贤惠的，协和的，恬静的。我常常渴望自己也能成为这样一个可爱的女人。
(2)寂寞和孤独会吞食人的生命力.(Note by me:On the other hand, loneliness will create wisdom sometimes.)
(3)冰雪聪明 蓝心慧质 秀外慧中.
In the real earthly world, the following "he" is a virtual or ideal man, it is pretty hard to find him. In other words,love is represented by the real action including a lot of details in daily life, in fact the world is ridiculous, if someone cares about too much about his lover maybe she will feel bored or ...
As a man I also like to find a girl who is similar with what you described as follows.
他很孝顺，我不否认这是一个人应有的品德。但是当孝顺成为一种负担，生活就没有了原有的色彩。
说他不疼我，不公平。如果我们家只有一口饭，他会让给我。他会在我生病的时候，衣不解带的照顾我。他是那种话很少的男人，又很害羞。我曾跟朋友说过，如果他当众搂着我，一定是喝了两瓶啤酒了，如果他当众喊我老婆，一定是喝了四瓶了，如果他当众吻我，一般是喝八瓶以上。他好像一直很放心我，觉得我是一个独立能干的女人。其实，我只是一个小女人，是那种经常找不到方向的小女人。不是扮嫩，我打心眼里喜欢撒娇，喜欢那样懒懒的，娇娇的说话，可惜，这个世界，只有在我酒醉的时候，才能这样。我想要的男人，是那种能在晚上10点多我还没回家的时候担心的人，是那种在陌生的城市里陪我去每一个未知的角落的人，是那种告诉我应该做什么不该做什么的人，是那种在人群中能拥着我给我温暖的人，是那种能在我伤心的时候抱着我喊我宝贝别哭的男人。这些，他都做不到。我想，我是有恋父情节，我喜欢的感觉就是能一下子把我抱起来，举得高高的，然后在我的求饶声中把我扔到床上，还喜欢早上一睁眼，撒娇着问他天气让他拿衣服让他帮忙穿衣服。我知道在他的心里，最疼的应该是我，但是，经常的，我感觉不到。
Anyway, I like all these you wrote.
Have a good night!
Hurricane66
本悄悄话来自 JOE.COM 于 2006-08-04 23:05:47
你在哪啊？SF吗？好像才１岁哦？阿弥陀佛
本悄悄话来自 独来独往浪迹天涯 于 2006-08-03 11:47:28
你说话象个剑客，有意思。我嘛喜欢静静的思考然后将自己的计划付诸实施，做事沉稳。做事坚忍不拔，有股不撞南墙不回头的劲头。我驻守南加州，这里是我的根据地。有空我们好好聊聊。一壶浊酒或一杯清茶，我可以天南地北的侃半天。。。哈哈哈。。如有意，不妨交个朋友把..
本悄悄话来自 JOE.COM 于 2006-08-03 18:20:58
好抽象哦！好难明哦
有MSN,SKYPE吗？
本悄悄话来自 SD1000 于 2006-07-12 16:22:53
无畏、无为、无味、无谓与五味
对烂漫的孩子，月亮、星星和明媚的阳光都是他的，满眼是如意的希望，不顾一切地朝着自己的梦狂奔，这就是目中无人的“无畏”，很纯粹。
对如花少年，心怀的梦在徘徊中寻找放飞的支点，青涩的幻觉与月夜的迷朦制造着诗句和出喉的叹息，这就是左顾右盼的“无为”，很花哨。
岁月如歌，逝水如斯，而立的光景大多在昏头奔忙时节，对外面的世界感觉着时常忘了自己，无心力咀嚼，这就是匆匆忙忙的“无味”，很忙碌。坡坡坎坎走过，风景一览而去，不惑的年月有了睡不安稳的感觉，回头过往又在意料之中，看风花雪月，读刀光剑影，醉动漫天地，形神异体泰然自若，叹也只用丹田之气、了无声息，这就是料事如定的“无谓”，很潇洒。
该来的来了，要去的去了，昏花的老眼或许不及智视的锐敏，往事如烟？风云只在谈笑间，看青山流水夕阳如血，这就是行云流水的“五味”，很寡淡。
本悄悄话来自 阁老 于 2006-07-12 17:34:31
乍一看开场白,吓一跳,又是哪路好汉?再一看,原来是位巾国.且住一地.
看了你的文章,很有个性,喜欢.
欢迎加盟.
本悄悄话来自 Dave01 于 2006-07-12 04:56:55
You did not go sleep? wow, you are so brave? what's for? dear?
本悄悄话来自 Dave01 于 2006-07-12 04:40:00
我刚到班上， 在办公室， 你在哪做什么呢?
本悄悄话来自 Dave01 于 2006-07-12 06:30:46
那你肯定是网恋过的一族了， 对吗?
本悄悄话来自 Dave01 于 2006-07-12 06:00:21
还有呢? 你常自己在家?
本悄悄话来自 Dave01 于 2006-07-12 06:34:31
pas mal, chherie, c'est tres bien comme ca
这很感人啊， 我有过两次了。。。所以只想网上情人。。不再去网恋了。
本悄悄话来自 Hurricane66 于 2006-08-03 18:21:46
Hi Fanfei,
In one word, thank you for your understanding very much!
Talk with you later!
Hope to get more wondeful opinions or reflections about life as a male or female from you!
Take care too!
Hurricane66
本悄悄话来自 Hurricane66 于 2006-08-03 12:02:36
Hi Fanfei,
Thank you for your message return too!
I just want to say that most of the times the first impression or so called feeling on someone is very important, which means the initial destiny(or Yong) is set up, later on the thing is just to begin to go further and true friendship or even true love can only become true possibly. Based on our culture when a so good "Yong" turns up every one who is involved with this Yong had better to let it go further and further, based on the Chan in Buddhism culture.
Did you agree my opinion above?
Anyway, hope to get you email to have a talk online or by email.
I am a scientist here, coming from China several years ago. As to the past in China, I usually didn't like to talk too much in both of my achievements and even failure, because that is the past, i just focus on current everyday and would like to lead a happy daily life. When I am getting older and older(in fact not old) finally I would like to find the truth including the true love and all those true essence as a man in this earthly world, instead of money or social status although in fact I work very hard and try to earn a lot of money. What I said seems to be a contradiction, no indeed,it means a lot...
That is also the reason why I would like to send a message to you. Possibly something true will be encountered by me between you and me.
Could you tell me your email and where are you now?
My email is: truthconsciencebeauty@yahoo.ca
Thanks!
Hurricane66
本悄悄话来自 是有缘 于 2006-07-29 07:29:21
加上我，可以吗?
本悄悄话来自 Hurricane66 于 2006-07-29 02:24:00
Hi there,
In my mind,at the first glance of your picture, you looks unique indeed!
How can I talk with you to let you also have a wonderful impression on me?
I am also a wonderful guy, well-educated(Ph.D), more than 15 years' richful experience in my life as a professor, an enterpreneur, an army officer,a guy who is always pursuing the true love and friendship and even some fataistic romance... all the beautiful things in the nature. Can we become good friends with each other, and then to see whether the God will bless us something special in both of us. OK?
Looking forward to hearing from you soon!
Hurricane66
本悄悄话来自 千里望云 于 2006-07-25 13:25:04
谢谢MM，我已经把你加入MSN好友名单
本悄悄话来自 千里望云 于 2006-07-25 12:46:15
谢谢MM，你有MSN吗？那边聊聊比较方便。
本悄悄话来自 liugang_20 于 2006-07-23 23:43:58
May I become your friend?
Gang
本悄悄话来自 pingponglover 于 2006-07-23 16:43:19
简单的看了您的资质，印象深刻。希望可以今后交往。
本悄悄话来自 行者有框 于 2006-07-21 11:12:53
是菡"yan"芳菲吗？不好意思
你在加州？
本悄悄话来自 gfwl 于 2006-07-18 07:59:36
嗨！你好，我是gfwl
本悄悄话来自 闲言 于 2006-07-17 23:14:39
嗨！你好，我是闲言
本悄悄话来自 当日冲之路 于 2006-07-17 04:19:19
嗨！你好，我是当日冲之路
本悄悄话来自 是有缘 于 2006-07-16 07:28:58
嗨！你好，我是是有缘
本悄悄话来自 千里望云 于 2006-07-25 12:19:27
我喜欢你的博克文章和这张照片：
可以交个笔友吗？
本悄悄话来自 冬日阳光 于 2006-07-12 07:58:17
嗨！你好，我是冬日阳光
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