吃草的狼的博客
吃草的狼
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现在来复习一下Maslow的理论. 看来wxc的博客们温饱和安全感是没有大问题了.（找工作和被LAYOFF的人除外）．现在就是有一点needs of love ．还有就是needs of esteem．ＷＸＣ博客世界里人们寻求的就是这些了．关键是要有人看， 而且要有人叫好． 把博克评论去掉， 很可能就没有人再有兴趣写了．海外游子们看来比较的苦闷，＂不能融入主流社会＂去满足自己的needs. 所以大家就到这里来把自己的鸡毛蒜皮，陈芝麻烂谷子，或者把自己的各种fantasy搬出来．．因此wxc 博客这么热闹了．存在的就是合理的．哪一天挂牌上市了也说不定． ：）
我猜所以博客里的人大多是有几种情况：
1.生活中这两种needs 严重得不到满足．所以在博克中找，勤快地打字
２．needs太旺盛，勤快地笔耕
３．两种都占了， 就是不太勤快． 所以只好feels inferior, weak, helpless and worthless. 我大概就是 嘿嘿．．
看来博还是要有闲才行，我已经好长时间没干正事了． 这玩意太ＴＭ Kill times 了． 下定决心要戒博了．
附：
Maslow has set up a hierarchic theory of needs. All of his basic needs are instinctoid, equivalent of instincts in animals. Humans start with a very weak disposition that is then fashioned fully as the person grows. If the environment is right, people will grow straight and beautiful, actualizing the potentials they have inherited. If the environment is not "right" (and mostly it is not) they will not grow tall and straight and beautiful.Maslow has set up a hierarchy of five levels of basic needs. Beyond these needs, higher levels of needs exist. These include needs for understanding, esthetic appreciation and purely spiritual needs. In the levels of the five basic needs, the person does not feel the second need until the demands of the first have been satisfied, nor the third until the second has been satisfied, and so on. Maslow's basic needs are as follows:
Physiological Needs- These are biological needs. They consist of needs for oxygen, food, water, and a relatively constant body temperature. They are the strongest needs because if a person were deprived of all needs, the physiological ones would come first in the person's search for satisfaction.
- Safety Needs
- When all physiological needs are satisfied and are no longer controlling thoughts and behaviors, the needs for security can become active. Adults have little awareness of their security needs except in times of emergency or periods of disorganization in the social structure (such as widespread rioting). Children often display the signs of insecurity and the need to be safe.
- Needs of Love, Affection and Belongingness
- When the needs for safety and for physiological well-being are satisfied, the next class of needs for love, affection and belongingness can emerge. Maslow states that people seek to overcome feelings of loneliness and alienation. This involves both giving and receiving love, affection and the sense of belonging.
- Needs for Esteem
- When the first three classes of needs are satisfied, the needs for esteem can become dominant. These involve needs for both self-esteem and for the esteem a person gets from others. Humans have a need for a stable, firmly based, high level of self-respect, and respect from others. When these needs are satisfied, the person feels self-confident and valuable as a person in the world. When these needs are frustrated, the person feels inferior, weak, helpless and worthless.
- Needs for Self-Actualization
- When all of the foregoing needs are satisfied, then and only then are the needs for self-actualization activated. Maslow describes self-actualization as a person's need to be and do that which the person was "born to do." "A musician must make music, an artist must paint, and a poet must write." These needs make themselves felt in signs of restlessness. The person feels on edge, tense, lacking something, in short, restless. If a person is hungry, unsafe, not loved or accepted, or lacking self-esteem, it is very easy to know what the person is restless about. It is not always clear what a person wants when there is a need for self-actualization.
在国内手机短信一直响到半夜不歇的，libido只有亏欠的没有赢余的，哪有功夫写这么深奥的文字。