By Dr.JoshuaColemanCreated Mar172010-2:16pmIwishthatthestepmothersinmypracticecouldlisteninoneachother'sconversations.Iftheycould,theywouldseehowcommonitistofeelthewaythattheydoandtheymightnotfeelsoaloneandisolated.So,sinceIcan'tletthemeavesdrop,I'mlistingthemostcommoncomplaintsthatIhear.Tuneinformoredetailsinthecomingweeks.1)WHYDOESHELETHISKIDSWALKALLOVERHIM?2)WHYDOMYNEEDSALWAYSCOM...[
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whyminorfeudsbecomebigonesbetweenintimatesBy SimonY.Feuerman,Psy.D.,L.C.S.W.Created Mar172010-3:17pmYesterday,EthanBronnerJerusalemBureauchiefoftheNYTimesspokeofthelatestIsraeli-USrowasacouples'spat."TherelationshipbetweenIsraelandtheUSisascloseasanoldmarriedcouple,"heisquotedassaying,"whereevenminortransgressionsandmisunderstandingscarrywiththemenormousfeelingsandeverythinggetsblownouto...[
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Howrichfriendsmakeyoufeelpoor
Whydowefinditsohardtoadmittoafriend--somebodywhoknowsandacceptsus--thatwelivewithfinancialconstraints?Also:Ideasforhandlingtheproblemnexttime.
ByMPDunleavey
WhenImadeplanstogettogetherwithafriendrecently,moneydidn'tentertheequation.
Wehaddecidedtosplurgeonsomesortofbeautytreatmenttogether.(Guyreaders:Imagineticketstoagreatballgame.)Isuggestedgetting...[
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1.eggwhite
2.yogurt+limejuice+sunfloweroil
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Livingarich,gratifyinglifehasalottodowithrelationships—yourrelationshipwithyourselfandyourrelationshipwithothers.AnnKaiserStearnswrotethat,“Themostself-lovingactionanyofusperformsinalifetimeislearningtodevelop…closefriendships.”Engagingincaringrelationshipsiscriticaltoouremotionalhealthandwell-being,yetmostofusneverlearnedthelifeskillsneededtodevelopthem.
Duetotheirlifeconditioning,not...[
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HOTTOPIC: 6PERSONALITYTRAITSWORTHADOPTINGJANUARY11,2010| BYBRETTBLUMENTHAL | 4COMMENTSOverthelastcoupleofyears,I’vewrittennumerousarticlesandpostsondifficultpeople,personalitiesandrelationships:Everythingfrom ManipulativeMarys to Bullies intheworkplacetopeoplewhobreakboundariesto toxicrelationships. Let’sfaceit: Inlife,wecomeacrossallkinds!&...[
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Notlongago,Ipublishedanarticleabout sixqualitiestoadmireinothers,andtheresponsewasextraordinary.IprefacedthearticlebysayingthatthesixImentionedwerebyfarnotanexhaustivelist,butincludedthosetraitsthatseemedespeciallyhardtofind. Inreadingallofthecomments,however,Iwasinspiredtowriteafollow-uplistthatcoverssomeoftheotherqualitiesthatI,aswellasothers,believetobeimportantwhenlookingforfrie...[
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By SatoshiKanazawa
Wheredoindividualvaluesandpreferencescomefrom? Whydopeoplewantwhattheywant? Whatexplainstheoriginofidiosyncraticindividualpreferencesandvalues?Theproblemofvalues–theiroriginandindividualdifferences–isoneoftheunresolvedtheoreticalquestionsinbehavioralsciences. Theeconomists’traditionalanswertothequestionofindividualvaluesandpreferencesis: Degu...[
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WhyDoWomenContinueToDateNarcissists?By JohnR.Buri,Ph.D.Created Mar162010-7:55amIdon’tgetit. Whydowomencontinuetochoosetodatenarcissists,leavingthegenuinelyniceguysathomefoldingtheirlaundry?Narcissistsarecocky,self-centered,self-absorbed,andegotistical. Theyareconvincedthattheyarereallybetter-looking---that’swhytheyspendsomuchtimeinfrontofthemirror–afterall,self-admirationt...[
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VitaminC
Broccoli
Redbellpepper
Brusselssprouts
Papaya
VitaminE
Almonds
Sunflowerseeds
Hazelnuts
Sunfloweroil
Peanutbutter
Beta-carotene
Carrotsorcarrotjuice
Cannedpumpkin
Frozenspinach
Sweetpotato
Folate
Lentils
Garbanzobeans
Asparagus
Blackbeans
Orangejuice
B6
Potato
Banana
Garbanzobeans
Chicken
B12
Clams
Rainbowtrout
Sockeyesalmon
Beef
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