柳永是中国历史上一个并不大的人物。很多人不知道他，或者碰到过又很快忘了他。但是近年来这根柳丝却紧紧地系着我，倒不是为了他的名句"杨柳岸，晓风残月"，也不为那句"衣带渐宽终不悔，为伊消得人憔悴"。只为他那人，他那身不由己的经历和那歪打正着的成就，以及由此揭示的做人成事的道理。
柳永是福建北部崇安人，他没有为我们留下太多的生平记载，以[阅读全文]
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Asawriterofromancenovels,Icreateexoticfantasies.Myheroinesarebeautiful,myheroesgildedwithatouchofthelegendary,myplotslargerthanlife.
Fanssometimesthinkofmeasan"expert"onlove,butmychildrenneveraskmyadvice.WhenItrytogiveitanyway,theyrolltheireyes.Tothem,I'mjustMom-tooimpossiblyold-fashionedandordinarytounderstandthewindsoftheirtimes.
Sincetheyhavereachedtheirteens,however,theiroftenpainfulse...[阅读全文]
Fanssometimesthinkofmeasan"expert"onlove,butmychildrenneveraskmyadvice.WhenItrytogiveitanyway,theyrolltheireyes.Tothem,I'mjustMom-tooimpossiblyold-fashionedandordinarytounderstandthewindsoftheirtimes.
Sincetheyhavereachedtheirteens,however,theiroftenpainfulse...[阅读全文]
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8FoodsYouShouldEatDailyforOptimumHealthByBeautySnobTinaOurtechnerdie,akaKelly'shusband,isusefulbeyondwords.Inadditiontokeepingusonlineandinbusinessbykeepingupwithallofourtechnicalwork,healsoscansthewebforarticlesthatwouldbeofinteresttous.ThisisoneofthearticleshesentmelastmonthwhichIthinkeveryBeautySnobshouldread!Ieatmostoftheitemsonthelistbutamnowmorediligentaboutallofit.Ibelieveineatingonlyfreshf...[阅读全文]
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如果你愿意我可以永远像现在这般美丽因为我生而为爱痴迷如果你有情这世界可以不需要再有四季我的心早已经色彩分明多少爱情正甜蜜多少童话在凋零然而我始终相信我将得到永恒的幸运再也不必为情所苦真爱不用再分离只要能用心经营就会幸福到底如果你愿意我可以永远像现在这般美丽因为我生而为爱痴迷如果你有情这世界可以不需要再有歌曲我的心早已经充满了旋律如[阅读全文]
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ByJOHNCLOUDJohnCloud
AsIwritethis,tomorrowisTuesday,whichisacardioday.I'llspendfiveminuteswarmingupontheVersaClimber,atoweringmachinethatrequiresyoutomoveyourarmsandlegssimultaneously.ThenI'lldo30minutesonastairmill.OnWednesdayapersonaltrainerwillworkmelikeafarmanimalforanhour,sometimestothepointthatIamdizzy-anabuseforwhichIpayasmuchasIspendongroceriesinaweek.Thursdayis"bodywedge"class,whichin...[阅读全文]
AsIwritethis,tomorrowisTuesday,whichisacardioday.I'llspendfiveminuteswarmingupontheVersaClimber,atoweringmachinethatrequiresyoutomoveyourarmsandlegssimultaneously.ThenI'lldo30minutesonastairmill.OnWednesdayapersonaltrainerwillworkmelikeafarmanimalforanhour,sometimestothepointthatIamdizzy-anabuseforwhichIpayasmuchasIspendongroceriesinaweek.Thursdayis"bodywedge"class,whichin...[阅读全文]
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见多了朋友间反目为仇的事，让我对人性的弱点知之甚深。文革时期，我家的邻居，一对从没吵过架的恩爱夫妻，因为不同的政治观点而打大出手，在我的心里留下深深的印象。早年间总是有些感叹，叹人心的难测和感情的靠不住，而如今已看得开了。
少时的友情纯真质朴，好同学、好朋友成天腻在一起从不嫌烦。当然，偶尔也有反目的时候，但友谊很快又会重新弥合。就[阅读全文]
少时的友情纯真质朴，好同学、好朋友成天腻在一起从不嫌烦。当然，偶尔也有反目的时候，但友谊很快又会重新弥合。就[阅读全文]
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30.Themostobvioussuggestionistheoneseldomfollowed.Trytoattendoneormoredefenses
priortoyours.Findoutwhichotherstudentsaredefendingtheirresearchandsitinontheir
defense.Inmanydepartmentsthisisexpectedofallgraduatestudents.Ifthisisnotthecaseforyou,check
withyouradvisertoseethatyoucangetaninvitationtoattendsomedefenses.
Atthedefensetryandkeepyourfocusontheinteractionsthatoccur.Doesthest...[阅读全文]
priortoyours.Findoutwhichotherstudentsaredefendingtheirresearchandsitinontheir
defense.Inmanydepartmentsthisisexpectedofallgraduatestudents.Ifthisisnotthecaseforyou,check
withyouradvisertoseethatyoucangetaninvitationtoattendsomedefenses.
Atthedefensetryandkeepyourfocusontheinteractionsthatoccur.Doesthest...[阅读全文]
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Dissertation/ThesisGuide
1.Beinclusivewithyourthinking.Don'ttrytoeliminateideastooquickly.Buildonyourideasand
seehowmanydifferentresearchprojectsyoucanidentify.Giveyourselftheluxuryofbeing
expansiveinyourthinkingatthisstage--youwon'tbeabletodothislateron.Tryandbecreative.
2.Writedownyourideas.Thiswillallowyoutorevisitanidealateron.Or,youcanmodifyand
changeanidea.Ifyoudon'twrite...[阅读全文]
1.Beinclusivewithyourthinking.Don'ttrytoeliminateideastooquickly.Buildonyourideasand
seehowmanydifferentresearchprojectsyoucanidentify.Giveyourselftheluxuryofbeing
expansiveinyourthinkingatthisstage--youwon'tbeabletodothislateron.Tryandbecreative.
2.Writedownyourideas.Thiswillallowyoutorevisitanidealateron.Or,youcanmodifyand
changeanidea.Ifyoudon'twrite...[阅读全文]
(2009-08-16 04:57:59)
HowtoWriteaPhDThesis
introduction,Ithinkthatitisagoodideatoasksomeonewhoisnotaspecialisttoread
thissectionandtocomment.
References(Seealsounderliteraturereview)
Itistemptingtoomitthetitlesofthearticlescited,andtheuniversityallowsthis,but
thinkofallthetimeswhenyouhaveseenareferenceinapaperandgonetolookitup
onlytofindthatitwasnothelpfulafterall.
Appendices
Ifthereisma...[阅读全文]
introduction,Ithinkthatitisagoodideatoasksomeonewhoisnotaspecialisttoread
thissectionandtocomment.
References(Seealsounderliteraturereview)
Itistemptingtoomitthetitlesofthearticlescited,andtheuniversityallowsthis,but
thinkofallthetimeswhenyouhaveseenareferenceinapaperandgonetolookitup
onlytofindthatitwasnothelpfulafterall.
Appendices
Ifthereisma...[阅读全文]
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HowtoWriteaPhDThesis
Howmanycopies?
Talktoyouradviseraboutthis.Aswellasthosefortheexaminers,theuniversitylibrariesand
yourself,youshouldmakesomedistributioncopies.Thesecopiesshouldbesenttoother
researcherswhoareworkinginyourfieldsothat:
mtheycandiscoverwhatmarvellousworkyouhavebeendoingbeforeitappearsin
journals;
mtheycanlookupthefinedetailsofmethodsandresultsthatwillor...[阅读全文]
Howmanycopies?
Talktoyouradviseraboutthis.Aswellasthosefortheexaminers,theuniversitylibrariesand
yourself,youshouldmakesomedistributioncopies.Thesecopiesshouldbesenttoother
researcherswhoareworkinginyourfieldsothat:
mtheycandiscoverwhatmarvellousworkyouhavebeendoingbeforeitappearsin
journals;
mtheycanlookupthefinedetailsofmethodsandresultsthatwillor...[阅读全文]
