Thismorningatthebreakfasttable,myhighschoolsophomorewasnotwatchinghisphoneorlisteningtohismusic.Hisphonewasnotevenonthetable,norhisheadphoneswereonhisears.Itriedtostartaconversationwithhim,bysayingsomethingtothefactthat“…manystudentswithhighACTscoresweredeferredfromUniversityOfMichigan….”,plussomeotherrubbish.Therewasnotresponsefromhim.Ifollowedupwith“doyouknowwhatd...[
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Growthmindsetandfixedmindset.
Praiseyourchildforhisstruggles,forhistenacity,forhisgrit,fortryingnewthings,formakingmistake.
Praiseyourchildforhissensibilityofothers.
Praiseyourchildforhissillycreativity.
https://www.khanacademy.org/about/blog/post/95208400815/the-learning-myth-why-ill-never-tell-my-son-hes
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SuperbEnglish.
http://foreignpolicy.com/2015/11/30/the-girl-from-harvard-the-girl-from-china-us-china-education-culture-differences/
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Allapplicantsincludingbothrejectedanddeferredstudentsduringthisroundofmadnessdeservelotsofcredit.
Parentsdeservesomecreditstoo.Theparentswhodeservethemostcreditarethosewhodidnotorcouldnotproofreadtheirkid'sessaysorhomework.Forparentswhoareableandcapableofprovidingfeedback,thatistheleastyoucould.
Forstudentswhoarerejectedordeferreddespitehavingperfectornearperfectprofile,rememberthissayin...[
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Myhighschoolsophomorehasalearner'sdriverpermit.Heneedsanadultlicenseddrivertoaccompanyhimwhereverhewantstogoorneedstogo.LastSunday,December3,2017wassuchaday.Iaccompaninedhimdrivingtoawell-to-dofamily'shouseforsomeyardwork.
Afterwearrived,heaskedmeifIwouldstayandhelphimbecauseitwasatwo-personjob.Ididnothaveanyotherplans.Duringthefoursofrakingleavesandbaggingthem,wedidnottalkmuch.Theonlyc...[
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Thiswaswrittenon,11/22/201613:35:02,exactlyoneyearagoIwroteitinresponsetoanarticle,thoughIforgotthearticlename.IdidnotknowwhatIwastryingtoconvene.Iamnota“精英”,far,far,farfromit.Iamnotanti精英either.Beingeliteisawonderfulthing.Iamallforbeingelite,butIdoobjectbeinganelitistorelitism.Lastnight,IreadanWXCarticlethathaslotsoflikes.Therewasarageabout“精英”thisand“精英&rdqu...[
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Talentandpassion!Passionandtalent.
https://youtu.be/EjxQWOhAXpg
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Ifthestudentletter(又到申请季节,看看反思)isnotasignofwarning,acryforhelp,Idonotknowwhatitis.Weasparentsshouldtakethisletterseriously.Itisonethingthatsomekidsareself-motivated,itisentirelyanotherbeastwhenastudentispressuredbyanexternalforce.
Whilewecelebrateourkidssuccessinschool,letusnotforgettheirstruggles,letusgivethemlotsofspacetofailandmaketheirmistakes.Letthemidleforafewmomentsatevenings,...[
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Donotmeantofantheflame.
Inthismeltingpot,howcouldyounotfeelanyindifferencewhenyouhearyournamesbeingspokeninyourmothertongue?
Regardlessofhowwegetithere,wearefromthesamecountry,writingthesameuniquecharacters,enjoyingthesamehumorofpurposefullymistypedcharacters,andspeakingthesamelanguage,somewithslightaccent,andotherswithastrongone.Notbecausethefellowcountryboyorgirlyoumeetinyourdailylifedoesn...[
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IsawthisbookByDr.Seuss,"Oh,ThePlacesYou'llGo"everydaylayingoutbyastackofbooks.Ineverpaidanyattentiontoit,untillyesterdaymorningwhenIheardmywifereaditoutloudwhileIwastryingtowatchthemorningnews.Thisline"AndYOUaretheonewho'lldecidewheretogo...”reallygotmyattention.Isattherequietlyandlistenedtotheveryend.
Mydaughterhadspecificallyrequestedthisbookasahighschoolgradution...[
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