如果爱是一种选择,我不要选择逃避.我会选择去勇敢地给予,也会欢欣的接受.
如果爱是一种选择,我不要选择苛刻与批评.我会选择用温柔的鼓励和赞赏陪伴我的爱人.
如果爱是一种选择,我不要选择苦涩与妒嫉,因为我知道,爱情是使相爱的人的生命因彼此而完全.
如果这分爱带来的是苦毒,那不是爱,而是披了爱的面具的毁灭.
所以,我会选择感恩与祝福,然后静静离开.
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Loveispatient,loveiskind.Itdoesnotenvy,itdoesnotboast,itisnotproud.5Itisnotrude,itisnotself-seeking,itisnoteasilyangered,itkeepsnorecordofwrongs.
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1Corinthians13:4-5
Loveispatient,loveiskind.Itdoesnotenvy,itdoesnotboast,itisnotproud.5Itisnotrude,itisnotself-seeking,itisnoteasilyangered,itkeepsnorecordofwrongs.
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