爱与被爱
人生危机时刻的感悟。
博文
(2010-08-04 20:04:45)
1.constructnewlife;2.makenewfriends;3.forgetpreviouslife;4.don'tplaywithself.[阅读全文]
(2010-07-02 21:37:55)
It'smoremeaningfultodoself-reflectionthangoingouteatingoracceptinggiftsonabirthday.//Thereflectionpointofself'sbirthdaytodayisakeyquestion:whydon'tIhavementalattachmenttootherpeople?//Otherpeoplecanmakefriendsveryquicklyinanewenvironment.I,ontheotherhand,canbeinaplaceforalongtimewithouthavingmanypeopleknowingmedeeply.Wheninhighschool,Ilivedwithacolleagueofmyfatherforyearswithouttalkingtohimmoretha...[阅读全文]
(2010-06-21 22:05:59)
Nomatterwhatsocietywelivein,wehavetobeactivelyinvolvedinit.EvenifyouwanttogobacktoChinasomeday.Themainthingisthatyou'vegottoknowwhat'sgoingonaroundyou,getpeopleknowyou,andhaveyourvoiceheard.Thatwayyoufeelconnectedtothesociety,andnotisolatedandmarginalized.Andmoreimportantly,itmeansyouaresuccessfulandasgoodasnatives,eventhoughyouarefromadifferentcountryforalongtime.Inthatsense,youaremoresuccessfult...[阅读全文]
(2010-06-13 22:15:58)
Thisissomethingthattouchedmyheartafterwatching"TheHurtLocker".Knowwhatisthethingthatworthyourtime.Don'twanderaround.Ifyouarenotsure,figureitoutfirst.Anywaylifeisshort,focusonthemostimportantthing.//Afterwatching"IngloriousBastards"andTarantinoandBradPit'smovie,theseguysreallytouchontheverybottomofthings.Theylovewhattheydoandtheydowhatlove.Nothingisforced.Sorespectyourself,don'tdoubtyourself,focuso...[阅读全文]
(2010-06-08 07:54:06)
WhatMomsaidisright:thinkforyourselfonly.Don'tlookatothersandthink.Thinktoyourself.[阅读全文]
(2010-06-08 07:52:57)
1.Lookuptothesky,nottoyourfeet;2.Workhard;withoutwork,lifeisempty;3.Loveisrare;whenyouhaveit,don'tthrowitaway.[阅读全文]
(2010-05-24 08:07:35)
Realityishard.Mostpeoplestrugglewiththeirownproblems.Sowhatwewantisreallycheeringupfromothers.Sosayingonlytruthisdepressingalotoftimes,andpeoplereallydon'twanttohearthem.Ifyouwanttotelltruth,sayitinacheeringway.[阅读全文]
(2010-05-19 21:47:13)
Youarenotvaluedbasedonwhoyouarewith.Youarevaluedforwhoyouare.Notwhoyourfriendsare,orwhoyourspouseis.[阅读全文]
(2010-03-20 07:29:43)
1.Don'tbefearful.Nomatterhowbadthingsget,therewillbeawayout.2.Ifthingsfail,moveonanddon'tliveintheshadowofit.It'slikeabasketballgame.Nomatterhowgoodyouare,youwilllosesometimes.Goodplayersmoveonquickly.Theywillturnaround.3.Connectwithpeople.Knowthemanddevelopconnectionwiththem.Theywillsupportyouathardtimes.Helpthemwhentheyneedhelp.4.Neverletacrisisgotowaste.Distillasmuchaslessonaspossible.5.Movequi...[阅读全文]
(2010-03-17 20:57:13)
Onekeyisyouradmirationforex'sperseverance.Sofromthisherpersonaility,youunconsciouslythinksheistougherthanyou.Andstrongerthanyou.Candothingsbetterthanyou.Askselfifthisisindeedtrue.Shedependsonyoumostofherlifewithyou.Yourmiserablelifetranslatestohers.Sosheisnotreallymorecapablethanyou.Itisthisverythinkingthatmakesyousubduedtoherandbetheweakerfigureintherelationship.Thisonlytranslatesintodisaster.//N...[阅读全文]
