爱与被爱
人生危机时刻的感悟。
博文
(2012-11-12 16:01:35)
Don'tletyourmindgoidle.Beresponsiveallthetime.Failuretodosomaywellbethereasonwhypeopletreatyoulikeadumber.[阅读全文]
(2012-08-17 06:17:37)
MostAmericansaregoodattalkingcontinuously.Ifyoudon'tinterruptthem,theycangoonandonandon.Ifyouhavesomethingtosay,butyouarepoliteanddon'twanttointerruptthem,youhavetowaitandwait.Sometimestheyjustswitchtothenexttopicafterwardswithoutstop,bythenyoufeellikebettertokeepthecurrenttopicgoingwithoutbringingthe "something"youhadearlier.Sothisprocessrepeatsandyouseattherewaitingandwaitin...[阅读全文]
(2012-06-04 08:32:38)
Althoughyoudecidehowyouliveandwhattolivefor,otherscanusuallyseebetterwhatkindofpersonyouare.Sotheirjudgmentistruetoalargedegree.Candidlyinteractwithotherpeople.Theyareasintelligentasyouare.Don'tliveinyourownworld.Otherwisehowyoudoisbiasedforyourself.Letothersseeyouandunderstandyou.Knowtheirneedsandunderstandthem.Thisisthereflectionswhenshreddingcommunicationsfromthepastforcleaninguptorent.[阅读全文]
(2012-05-22 14:19:15)
Alittledogisseriouslysickandsuffering.Hejustcannotstanditanymore.Whenhelooksatyouinhisdesperationforhelp,whatcanyoudoforhim?[阅读全文]
(2012-04-16 08:28:25)
Smile.Itissoeasyforforget.Butitissoimportant.Itdirectlygivesothersanimpressionaboutyourfriendliness,confidence.Remembertodoittomakeyourexpressmorelively.Withoutitthefaceiscold,tightandnotlively.Doit!ThinkoftheGaotangXuPeng![阅读全文]
(2012-04-02 08:47:07)
Friendsaregoingawaywhenyouneedthem.Alsoonanassociatedissue,yourtimidityandlackofconfidencewillaffecteverything,fromcareeradvancementtopersonallife(everyaspectofit).Sowhattodo?1.engagewithpeople,knowtheirneeds,interests,watchtheirmotives;2.lookatthemaspeers,knowyouareasgoodastheyare don'tbesubordinateandrephraseeverythingtheysaid;3.knowpeoplewillneverbereliedupon;theywillleavewhenyouarenotneed...[阅读全文]
(2012-03-13 17:18:58)
Youcannotcountonanybody.Butyoudoneedfriends.Becausewearesocialanimals.Weneedeachotherforcompanionship,spiritualsupport,andforinformationexchange.//Howmanyfriendsdoyouneed?Asmanyaspossible.Youneedsomesoulmates.Buttheydon'tcomefromyourclosesearch.Theycomefromyourmanyfriends.// Don'texpectanythingfromyourfriends.Theydon'thavetohelpyouwhenyouareintrouble.//Dodifferentiatepeople.Notanyonecanbefrie...[阅读全文]
(2011-07-02 21:37:15)
Thisyearb-day'sreflection.Gettoknowpeopleandgetknownbypeople.Youcanneverdooverexposure.Ratherthandyingalone,itisbettertoletpeopleknowyouareagoodperson.ThinkofthatdesertflowerthatHandidepiphany. [阅读全文]
(2010-08-17 20:17:08)
人都有恐惧。但一定要想清楚自己怕的是什么。不能无原则、或下意识的怕。明朝的张春芳是个好好先生，估计起因就在于他内心的恐惧，怕得罪人，怕丢官罢职，怕被杀头。别人如杨继盛、海瑞不怕杀头，反而别人都怕。凡事看透，但却不能怕。万事都是如此。[阅读全文]
(2010-08-17 20:11:20)
明朝的海瑞认为自己嫉恶如仇，实际上他是个头脑简单的人，徐阶、高拱、张居正等人比他聪明多了，不仅看到了恶，而且有除恶的办法。从这里可以看到，看问题要看透并有解决的方案。有了方案就开始做，人生是短暂的，几年如一日的动，就事事落在别人的后面。自己也很被动。本该属于自己的幸福生活慢慢成蹉跎了。切记切记。[阅读全文]
