我 的 孩 子，我 的 生 活

在 这 里， 记 录 下 我 和 孩 子 们 的 生 活
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annual review
(2007-02-11 22:03:19)
Mybosshastalkedwithmeaboutmylastyearreviewtwice.IwastoldthatIwouldbehappywithmyannualreviewandsalaryincreasing.Iactuallydonotliketobepromoted.thehigheryourlevelis,themoreyouareresponsiblefor.Idonothaveachoice,doI?IfIliketogethigherpay,theonlywaytogetitistobepromoted.[阅读全文]
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conversation with S about death
(2007-02-11 18:56:02)
Onthewaybackfromhisschoolfieldtrip,MyyoungersonandIsattogetherinaschoolbus.Asthebuspassedalargecemetery,hepointedalargefieldofgravesonthehillandexclaimed,"Therearesomanygraves!"Hethenadded,"Wouldyoulikemetoburyyouorcremateyouwhenyoudie,Mom?
"Youcancrematemeandthrowmyashesintotheocean,replied.
"Mom,youknowthatEinsteinwasburntwhenhewasdead,buthisbrainwasremovedandsav...[阅读全文]
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keeping play piano if she does not like to quit
(2007-02-11 15:55:31)
wenevercompaniedmykidswhentheywereplayingtheirpiano.IexpectedthemtofinishallofassignmentswhenIcamebackhomefromwork.Myjobistochecktheirhomeworkfromschoolandchinesehomeworkfromme.InevercheckedtheirpianosinceIdonotknowanythingaboutmusic.Mydaughterwasveryboredofplayingpianowhenshepassedlevel7.shedidnotliketoquitwhenIhaveaskedher.Idarenottoenterherteacher'shomebecauseitwasashamedofhearingherteachertocr...[阅读全文]
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women really should be independent -- He Mei's mom
(2007-02-11 15:54:06)

Shehadtorelyonherhusbandanddidwhatherequestedhertodo.
Youareright.Shewasnotdecentpersoneither,otherwiseshecouldfightforherdaughterifshewassure.
shemusthavebeenindeeppainwhenshehadabondingwithherDandhadtosendheraway.
IcouldnotimaginehowsheovercameherhatredforherhusbandifshereallylovedherD.
Iamamom.IcanunderstandBakers.IwouldfighttodeathformygirleventhoughIknewthatitisnotmoral.<...[阅读全文]
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I see. tell him that he can play his games if he
(2007-02-11 15:53:09)
getsAinhisclass.boysaredifferentfromgirls.boysalwaysneedreminding.MyDneverdidherhomeworkathomewhenshewasin9thgrade.shefinishedhersinherclass.
Idonotthinkitisappropriatetorestrainhimfromplayinggames.Childrentalkaboutgamesalloftimeswhentheyplaytogether.
Myboysalwaysgotcallsforquestioningabouttricksinthegame.Hewillfeellostifhisfriendstalksomethinghedidnotknow.
Howdoyoufeelifyoulovetosinga...[阅读全文]
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My D had a date shen she was 15. it is very normal
(2007-02-11 15:51:00)
inhighschool.Whenshetoldme,itdidnotsurpriseme.Wehadalongtalkseriously.
ActuallyIwasgladthatshetoldmeandsharedherhighschoollifewithmeandItoldhermyfeelingaswell.
Itoldherthatadateisnothighestpriorityinherhighschoollifeanddonottakethedatetooseriously.Sheagreedwithme.
Itisjustkindofexperience.Sheneedstolearnhowtodealwithboys.
Shetoldmethatchildrenchangedateseverytwomonthsinaverage.
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How did we define the common sense?
(2007-02-11 15:49:24)
inmyunderstanding,thecommonsenseisnotonlytheskilltodealwithpeopleanddailylife,butalsotheskillhowtothinktheproblemandworkonitinyourschoolandwork.
ItookaclassintheschoolinUS.WeusedClanguagetowriteprogramsforourprojects.therewasachineseladyinmyclass.Theinstructoralwayssighedwithfeelingandsaidthatshehadcommonsenseforthecomputerlanguageintheclass.howcomeheralgorithmswerealwaysclever?Butshewasthelas...[阅读全文]
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are you sure that your D has asked for it?
(2007-02-11 15:47:23)
MykidsalwaysforgotwhatIhaveaskedthemtodo.IfIwereyou,IwouldtalktoherteachertactfullyandfoundoutifyourDforgottogetone.Thepurposetodoitisnottoassignablame,butistoensurethatwouldn'thappenagain.
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回复：here was what I have done before
(2007-01-17 15:04:57)
Ihaveintroducedthechinesenewyearformyboy'sfirstgrader:
1.tellkidswhatdaythechinesenewyearis.tellthemitisasimportantaschristmasandnewyearforthem.
2.gotalotdumplingfromCostcoforchildren.forournorthenchinese,theyatetheminnewyeareve.likethemeatingturkeyandham
3.bought30redenvelopesfromchinesegrocerystoreandputaquarterineachone.oneenvelopeforeachkid.explainwhy
4.Ihavebroughtachinesemapa...[阅读全文]
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小 S's story -- A picture
(2007-01-17 14:37:02)
Myyoungestsondrewafamilyportraitatschoolandbroughtithometoshoweverybody.
Thereare2uglyadultsand2boys.Mydaughtersawthepictureandshouted"Sam,youdonot
loveme,whereisme?"
"Idoloveyou,sister,butnospacetodrawyou."repliedSam.[阅读全文]
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