HowtoLoveYourselfLouiseHay1.Stopallcriticism:Criticismneverchangesathing.Refusetocriticizeyourself.Acceptyourselfexactlyasyouare.Everybodychanges.Whenyoucriticizeyourself,yourchangesarenegative.Whenyouapproveofyourself,yourchangesarepositive.2.Don'tscareyourself:Stopterrorizingyourselfwithyourthoughts.It'sadreadfulwaytolive.Findamentalimagethatgivesyoupleasure(mineisyellowroses),andimmediatelyswit...[
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Iunderstandthatforasingledadorsinglemom,weareconcerningsomuchaboutrolemodelsbecauseweonlyhavehalfofthemodel.Theotherhalfisempty.However,howcouldwefilltheotherhalf?
Iwouldliketosaythatparentsarethemosteffectivemodelsfortheirkids.Asasingledadandsinglemom,thekidswilllearnalotfromus.Theywilllearnourdiginity,virtue,caring,determination,courageandaltitudeoflife.Iamdoubtabouttheeffectivenessofaboyfri...[
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Ihaveinitiatedtheprojectofimprovingmyspeechforthreemonths.IrememberedthatIstartedthismightyprojectonJuly4thof2007.Thisistheturningpointofmyaltitudeofstuttering.Threemonthshavepassed,theimprovementisincredible.Iwouldliketothankmyfriendagainforhershowingmetheway.Iprayedformyimprovementbefore.Iprayedforourhappinessbefore.Duringmyprayingtogod,Ireallizedthatthechangeisamust.Ihavetoimprovemyselftomakeev...[
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Afiveyeargirlcookedfryeggsalmostallbyherself.
AfterIpickedupAmyfromherschoolthisevening,wewentbackhome.Amytoldmethatshefeelhungry.Iaskedwhatshewantedtoeat.Shesaidshewantedtohavefryeggs.Actually,shewantedtocookfryeggs.Shehasdoneitseveraltimesbefore.Everytimeshecookedthefryeggs,sheatealot.
IrememberedonceIwascookingfryeggs,amywantedtohelptocracktheegg.Shetriedverycarefully,however,theeggfell...[
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Stutteringcandefinitelybeovercome.Manypeople(PWSs)haveovercomeit.Itistruethatsemantically,it'sbeneficialtoavoidcreatinga"war"witha"condition."Whatyouresistpersists..andaslongasyou"fight"it,ithastoEXISTasthe"enemy"tofightback.Lovewhatstutteringisshowingyou(itisachallenge)andfocusonFLUENCYnotonstuttering.Theword"overcoming"hasadifferentmeaningtome--b...[
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Thissummer,mybrothercalledmethathissondroppedschool.HissonhasbeenplayinginternetgamesduringtherecentthreeyearsininternetCafeinChina.Heissoabsorbedininternetgamesandhelostanyotherinterestsinhisschoolwork.Heoftenplaysininternetcafeforalldayandallnight.Heevenstealmoneyfromhometoplaygames.Gamebecamehismostimportantpartofhislife.Finaly,hequitschool,andfindapositioninainternetcafe.
Yesterday,whenIwa...[
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Asasingledad,Idonothavetheluxury.WhenAmywaslittle,Igottohaveattentionallthetimetoher.Ineedtoreadherbooks.Ineedtofeedher.Ineedtogetheronbedanduntilshefeltasleep.Whenshegotasleep.Iwasexausted.Ionlyhavetheluxurytocallmyfriendtosharewhathadhappenedtoday.
NowAmyisgrowingup.Shecandoalotofthingsbyherself.However,Istilldonothavetheluxuryformyself.Everydayafterschool,Itakeherouttoplaygroundforaboutoneh...[
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Thevideoissotouching,inspiring.Comparingtohim,thedifficultieswemeetatourlifeissosmall.Whywecannotlivehappier?
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Memoryissoimportant.Weallwanttoimprovememory.Wehopewecanremembereverythingwesee,hear,experience.However,sometimeforgetingisbetterthanmemorizing.
Today,ItalkedtoaladyinaChurch.ItoldherthatIamapersonwhostutters.Hetoldmethatshewasapersonwhostuttersbeforeandnowshealmostrecoveredineverydaycomversation.Shetoldmethestoryaboutherstutter.Italkedwithherabout5minutes.Shedidnotshowanystutteringphenomenadu...[
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Recently,Iamexperiencestrongemotions.AlthoughIamtryingtofocusmygoalsandtrytoliftmyselfup,Istillsofrequentlyfeelupset,lonelyandlost.Imustahvebeenlostsomewhere.Myfriendledmetoawonderfulplace,suddenly,Icouldnotfindmyfriend.Theworldissobig.andsocrowdedwithpeople,boysandgirls,menandwomen;however,whereismyfriend?Wehavebeensoclose,althoughwearephysicallysofar.Mindtomindtalkisnothinderedwithdistanceandtim...[
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