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曾看过一两本小册子，是讲LADY（我翻译成有教养，HIGH CLASS的女士）怎样在各种场合BEHAVE，她的MANNER应是什么样的。里面说的很多东西，我们在平常的生活中都学了，但我觉得还是提一下好。一是可以检查一下自己是不是这样做的，二是如果有些西方礼节以前不知，或没注意，正好知道了。所以，我归总了一下，抄一些重点的，和这里的姐妹们分享。
首先定义一下什么的女士叫做有教养，HIGH CLASS （不翻了，直接抄了）：A lady by today's definition knows that educating herself in every way possible, from higher education to the common sense manners, empowers her to become a woman of accomplishment and poise. She knows that it is not the dress size she wears or the money she possesses taht brings her satisfaction in life. A lady knows that beauty and wealth can be fleeting, but her inner character is the measure by which others will ultimately judge her as a person. Her courtesies, the high esteem in which she holds herself and others, and her sincere words of praise and thoughtfulness will reflect her strong values and place her ahead in the minds and hearts of those who know her.
所以，看一个女人是不是一个LADY，不是看她的躯壳，而是看她的言行。在坛子里，特兴上PP，要看美女的美照。好象一个ID是美女，就特受人尊敬。其实，是不是一个LDAY，要看她的发言。
因为KT里正在DATING的姐妹多，我就先从LADY应怎样GOES TO DATE说起。如果我们一时半会儿练不成LADY，至少可以做到LADY LIKE，给初次DATE的对方一个好印象。
在和一个人第一次DATE时，LADY应该FEEL FREE 事先问对方去哪家餐馆。一方面是知道自己应穿什么样的衣服，再一方面是知道那家餐馆是否是自己的CUP OF TEA，或者是否对该家的菜过敏。（有时对方来家里接，所以要事先问清去哪）。
在餐馆里，LADY应该BY ALL MEANS ORDER WHAT SHE LIKES TO EAT。不要只ORDER一小盘色拉，其实她很饿，想吃正餐；但同时，LADY不应ORDER MENU上最贵的菜。
很多时候，第一次约会感觉和对方没有SPECIAL CHEMISTRY，这很正常。偶尔，觉得自己和对方HAS NOTHING IN COMMON。不管是什么情况，LADY都应坚持到DINNER最后，然后，THANK HIM。
约会结束时，如对方帮她拉开椅子，或他俩一起离开餐馆时，特别是一晚上的约会结束时，LDAY THANKS HER DATE FOR INVITING HER TO SPEND AN EVENING WITH HIM。(就按英文这么说就好了）。
（待续）
首先定义一下什么的女士叫做有教养，HIGH CLASS （不翻了，直接抄了）：A lady by today's definition knows that educating herself in every way possible, from higher education to the common sense manners, empowers her to become a woman of accomplishment and poise. She knows that it is not the dress size she wears or the money she possesses taht brings her satisfaction in life. A lady knows that beauty and wealth can be fleeting, but her inner character is the measure by which others will ultimately judge her as a person. Her courtesies, the high esteem in which she holds herself and others, and her sincere words of praise and thoughtfulness will reflect her strong values and place her ahead in the minds and hearts of those who know her.
所以，看一个女人是不是一个LADY，不是看她的躯壳，而是看她的言行。在坛子里，特兴上PP，要看美女的美照。好象一个ID是美女，就特受人尊敬。其实，是不是一个LDAY，要看她的发言。
因为KT里正在DATING的姐妹多，我就先从LADY应怎样GOES TO DATE说起。如果我们一时半会儿练不成LADY，至少可以做到LADY LIKE，给初次DATE的对方一个好印象。
在和一个人第一次DATE时，LADY应该FEEL FREE 事先问对方去哪家餐馆。一方面是知道自己应穿什么样的衣服，再一方面是知道那家餐馆是否是自己的CUP OF TEA，或者是否对该家的菜过敏。（有时对方来家里接，所以要事先问清去哪）。
在餐馆里，LADY应该BY ALL MEANS ORDER WHAT SHE LIKES TO EAT。不要只ORDER一小盘色拉，其实她很饿，想吃正餐；但同时，LADY不应ORDER MENU上最贵的菜。
很多时候，第一次约会感觉和对方没有SPECIAL CHEMISTRY，这很正常。偶尔，觉得自己和对方HAS NOTHING IN COMMON。不管是什么情况，LADY都应坚持到DINNER最后，然后，THANK HIM。
约会结束时，如对方帮她拉开椅子，或他俩一起离开餐馆时，特别是一晚上的约会结束时，LDAY THANKS HER DATE FOR INVITING HER TO SPEND AN EVENING WITH HIM。(就按英文这么说就好了）。
（待续）
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