|(1) Determined to go
(2) Do not quit without a secured job, "riding donkeys to pursue horses"
(3) Never mention to any one about your instructor's unfriendliness in any job related events
(4) Never use him as your reference - use only those you are sure who'll help you to land jobs, such as "department chair", "另一个senior faculty", et al.
(5) Bottom line - never lose hope, control your temper, be far-sighted, and move forward...