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ZT--What every woman should have...

(2010-02-01 17:15:23) 下一个






my best friend had fowarded me this today.



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...   

enough money within her control to move out   
and rent a place of her own,   
even if she never wants to or needs to...   
something perfect to wear if the employer,   
or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour....   




A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....   


a youth she's content to leave behind....   
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to   
retelling it in her old age....   
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...   

one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...   



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ..   


a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in her family....   
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems,   
and a recipe for a meal,   
that will make her guests feel honored...   



A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...   


a feeling of control over her destiny...   
how to fall in love without losing herself..   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


how to quit a job,   
break up with a lover,   
and confront a friend without;   
ruining the friendship....   


EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW......   


when to try harder... and   WHEN TO WALK AWAY...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


that she can't change the length of her calves,   
the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..   
that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...   
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW.. .   


whom she can trust,   
whom she can't,   
and why she shouldn't take it personally...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


where to go...   
be it to her best friend's kitchen table...   
or a charming Inn in the woods...   
when her soul needs soothing...   



EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...   


What she can and can't accomplish in a day...   
a month...and a year...   




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bambooseven 回复 悄悄话 小雪--觉得这个东西还是挺美国的。我在这里也算久了,挺欣赏美国MM的独立个性的。也祝你新春快乐!!
bambooseven 回复 悄悄话 采心--是啊,这几句也让我想了很久。。但是谁能控制自己的命运呢?而女人爱起来又有几个能不迷失自己呢?因此很难。虽然前半部分我基本都做到了,后半部分却都是要一直学习的。。。
悉采心 回复 悄悄话 竹妹妹,过来品你的好文字,这段让我想了很久:a feeling of control over her destiny... how to fall in love without losing herself..

过年好!期待你更多的时装佳作!

qianqiuxue 回复 悄悄话 祝竹MM新春大吉大利,万事如意!
qianqiuxue 回复 悄悄话 这么多应该呢,恩,当作目标一个去完成也好,呵呵。
bambooseven 回复 悄悄话 :)) we need men to love and be loved..... yeah??
白玫瑰花 回复 悄悄话 女人都有了,还要男人干什么?呵呵!
bambooseven 回复 悄悄话 haha...i do have about half some of these things but still learning about the other half, especially how to love...i guess that's a life long lesson:))
雪冰月 回复 悄悄话 我还有很多没有呢,嗬嗬
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