总有一些美让我们沉迷，总有一些事让我们感动

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总有一些美让我们沉迷，总有一些事让我们感动

By Water posted this on the Talk Box of BYJ's official home
December 5, 2006 
韩译英：Joanne (Quilt)
中文: 唯俊  kokoo (www.onlybyj.com)

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Dear Markus nim，非常感谢你的文章。

（人们）为什么喜欢BYJ？你问过这个，对吧。在我成为他的影迷之后，也一直问自己。为什么我会喜欢这个人？

看了《冬季恋歌》后我成了一个喜欢他的影迷。在此之前我从来没有喜欢过别的艺人，也没有对表演稍加留意。我看了那部电视，恍然如梦—似乎人生从那一刻才真的开始。

我无法理解，也无法解释发生在我身上的现象。

顺便说一句，不仅我自己，很多声称是他影迷的人都会沉缅其中，好象身处梦境，抑或被施了魔法，而这样的过程和症状无论在哪个国家都非常相似。我对BYJ在冬恋里展现了一种超越时空概念的普遍（欣赏的魅力）感到惊讶。

那么，让我来梳理一下这个问题。

BYJ在冬恋里的什么形象让你沉迷？他到底做了什么让你恍如梦游，着魔一般？

1.总有一些美让我们沉迷

Minhyeong说爱是没有理由的。

这我可不同意。“没有无缘无故的爱，也没有无缘无故的恨。” 虽然一个人可能不知道何时何地会被某人迷住，不论是幻想还是误会，但是总是有某些注性的，宿命一样的事才会喜欢上那个人。

我对他的俊美已经熟视无睹了。因为在我的眼中，他就是美，他的存在本身就是美。

那么，首先我想谈谈他的美。

平衡和协调是美的第一旋律。

从BYJ的很多方面，我领略了完美平衡和精致协调的美学涵义。

首先，他与生俱来的身体条件就非常理想。他的身材比例协调，是典型的模特（素质）。人们看到他的脸，身材，整个身体各部分比例几近完美。脸和身体，整个看上去，无论哪个部分，也无论从哪个角度，都给人舒服，稳重的感觉。当然，我并不固执地认为他是长得最好看的演员。其实有很多长的很帅的明星。我看比他帅的明星现在有，将来也还会不断涌现。

我想，BYJ的致命吸引力—也是公开的秘密，是他动态的时候，源自他的举止和仪态，源自他的谈吐。有很多人只要一开口说话，或者行动起来，他的表现，说话方式或者是举止，都显得粗俗浅薄，而他们摆POSE的时候却象静物画般的美妙，不是吗？与之对应，当他微笑着挥手，当他鞠躬致意，当他迈着沉稳矫健的步伐时，我每次都有眩晕的感觉，每次都感觉被他施了魔法。

是啊。BYJ所有细微的表情，不经意的手势，只言片语，都让女士们着迷，哈哈，他甚至让老奶奶们陷落。这是因为演技好吗？如果是的话，为什么这个世界上无数的女性也象这样被其他天才演员的演技迷倒？

BYJ的影迷是阿吉妈（已婚妇女）。一般人会很刻薄地把“阿吉妈”这个词和他联系起来。可能是因为他的影迷中阿吉妈FANS比年轻FANS多吧。

果真如此的话，这又是为什么呢？

青年时代是梦想和判逆交织，起伏不定的时代。愤世嫉俗，标新立异，渴望颠覆。青年时代梦想和现实很难明确分开。因为所有的事，所有的可能性才开始萌芽，他们对梦想没有特别的渴望。那是自己就是梦想的时代。是尝试无限可能的时候。年轻人还不会欣赏平衡协调这样的美。（平衡，协调？……他们要睡着了……）

但是，这个年代的年长的JMS，回归（家庭），站在镜子前*（引自著名诗歌），透过BYJ审视他们的梦想，这些梦因着现实的伤痛，或者麻木的生活，被束之高阁，被放弃，甚至遗忘了。他们看到一个好象站在这世界另一端，点缀这个竞争激烈的社会的人存在的可能性，呼唤真正的主宰，这个人从物质和精神上都是强大的。这个存在是纯粹而结净的，散发出典雅优美的芳香（我太夸张了吧？哈哈）。

他们看到了一个无可置疑的启示：爱，纯洁美好的爱，和任何事相比，精神更能呈现真实。

女性带着悸动的心透过他，看到的是她们的梦想，她们的理想境界。当理想变成了一个词汇，显得多么难堪和幼稚。这些看似幼稚的词语从他们的嘴里说出来的时候，带着坦然和坚定，让我觉得是多么的纯洁美好，丝毫不觉得可笑。

他的一举一动充满了吸引力，让那么多人感动不已，余音绕梁，意犹未尽。

这怎么可能？

因为他每时每刻的姿态和表现，自始至终的内敛和自省，不是吗？

因为相由心生，（内心修养投射到行为举止） 内外统一成为不可分离的整体。

因为从他的表情，举止和谈吐，她们凭着直觉感受到他的外貌和内心两者的和谐统一产生的美感，尽管当时他们可能还没有意识到。

他的表情蕴涵着深刻和坦诚，而他的举止更体现了他的恰如其分的美和高贵。从他的言谈举止，透出他的质朴率真，绝无浮躁虚华之感，从内心散发出馨香，这是BYJ独有的气质。

从他某些细微的动作，不经意的姿势，和言谈中看出，他的自律，也反应出他精致，敏锐和细致的个性。

试想完美的外在表现是基于一个天point of contact平木条尾端的刻度板上，他的内在修养要在另一端保持平衡，从两者的交汇点蔓延开来。（这句太拗了，俺不确定对不对—SKO注。)

（也许他外在的俊美被放在木制天平一端的托盘里，而他内在的修养则变成保持平衡的砝码放在另一端，他的魅力就在他内在和外表的交汇点蔓延开来。- 宝桑）

BYJ的光环滋生于此。


2．总有一些事让我们感动

即使某位演员在电影电视剧中扮演了一个有魅力的角色，但是其吸引力也很快就过去了。

虽然我们通过作品遇到这样的演员，也会被吸引了，但是我们也只是想，“嗯，那个人在那部戏里挺不错的。” 我们一般很容易就忘了那个明星和那部戏。但是，BYJ就有很多他称之为家人的死忠影迷。

为什么是家人，按他说的，那是无条件信任他的影迷，偶然吗？

影迷从一开始就无条件信任他吗？

不！在这个世界上，谁会无条件信任别人？哪怕（相处）很长的时间？

BYJ的死忠FANS是那种从他的言谈举止观察再观察，确认再确认的人。

对！我们信任他，是因为我们相信他是值得信任的。

就象我说的，我已经做了差不多三年的铁杆FANS了。 我读过去的新闻,老的文章,从中追溯他的过去和现在，他的始终如一让我惊叹，甚至是震撼。

他总是告诉FANS不要担心他会怎样过日子，告诉他们他会努力地生活。在这个世界上，一个活到三十多岁的男人— 三十岁是已经经历人世沧桑的年纪，还一直在说我会努力生活。在影迷面前，在公众面前他始终都在说这句话，努力生活，好象是在德育课本里，让别人看到，也让自己知道他为理想而活着，他为此而坚守信念，不是吗？

他谈他的梦想，并且为达到那个梦想义无反顾，全力以赴。

在他的人生中，有着宏伟的蓝图，美好的梦想（比如想拍电影，想开创亚洲流，高度关注环保，等等），为实现理想精心规划。努力向前。

他并不急于求成，而是一步一个脚印的前进，心无旁骛。（拿挑选作品来说，他避免重复和粗制滥造的作品。这也是我们作为FANS的苦恼。我们只想看到你的脸，别的管不了那么多！！！）

换句话说，他知道他在做什么，为什么做。

他的每一次脚步，很显然都是在向着自己的梦想迈进，虽然他不会花哩胡鞘地动作，但是在关键时刻进退得当。（有人评价他是无法漠视的高峰（原文是“Too big scars to forget”）。比如第二次访日时在饭店前发生意外，他在新闻发布会上为自己的过失诚恳致歉，通过KEY EAST发展韩流，出席韩流博览会，等等。）

梦想就是心怀宏伟目标，坚持不懈，一步一个脚印向着目标前进，为了每走一步都更接近目标，他近乎残酷的鞭策自己，令人惊叹。

他的人生之路同样体现了融洽和平衡。这也是BYJ做人的一个方面，并不仅仅局限在表演上，如果他对表演更疯狂点，那他会比其他任何人做得更好（这是金泰宇在GQ采访中说的）。

那么这个胸怀大志的人平时是什么样子呢？

他说他总在思考“一期一会”（的涵义）。（'One chance One time'我翻译成一期一会，不知道对不对——SKO）

那就是时间一去不回，机会只有一次。因此，他会尽自己最大的努力过好当前这一刻。换句话说，就是有意义地生活，忠实于每一个“目前”。

话虽普通，可是要完全贯彻到实际生活中并不简单。至少对我是这样，我是那种容易迷失自己，无论什么时候，一旦有机会就想过得更舒服点，懒惰的人。但是他从不让自己有一刻的松懈，无论在片场，影迷签名会，或者任何一个见到影迷的场合。

他自始至终的谦虚谨慎和深思熟虑，感动了他的影迷。（也是因为过于紧张，他神经紧绷，饱受失眠困扰。）

他不会信口开河，也不会举止轻浮。至少，他尽力言出必行，甚至发生与他初衷相悖的过失，他也从不找借口推脱责任。

他表现出在现代社会已经逐渐丧失的美德，他的一言一行都赋予这些美德最好的诠释。

他非常清楚自己的言行的分量，所以始终都很清楚该说什么，为什么说，该怎么做。

要求自己始终如一。
 
他的生活道路朝着理想，朝着梦想进发，追求不懈。

他对理想，对完美的渴望，让我们深刻理解为什么他会那么严酷地健身。

他从来没有随心所欲地改造他的体型，只是精心地塑造生来就有着完美比例的身材，通过专业训练和控制饮食进行严格的自我管理，让人印象深刻。

对此我能怎么说？

他那健美的身形符合黄金分割原理，他这样的日常生活也相当和谐稳定，通过锻炼，他身体的每个部分都强健有力，除去旁枝末节，精心雕琢自己，这可能和他每时每刻，每一步都深思熟虑的性格相符。

和他对身体抛开枝节，全力追求完美一样，他追求挑战，力图超越自我。他在冬恋中展现的致命吸引力和魔法般的魅力，源于他本身的美好，不是吗？他扮演的这么美好的角色越多，冲击力越强，宠爱他的女性就越多。我简直怀疑冬恋是最大限度展示他的魅力的电视。

仅从外表看，年轻时他的俊美更是光彩夺目。但是在我眼中的BYJ，随着年龄的增长，他的面容和每个举动散发出成熟的芬芳和韵味。（其实在他年轻的时候我还不知道他呢。）

BYJ到现在都一直在进步。《太王四神记》是一部具有转折点意义，倍受期待的电视，它将再一次深刻展示今天BYJ的发展。

我对他的超凡魅力有着很高的期望，随着他身心两方面逐渐具有王者之气，新的神话也将给他铸就。

现在的新新一代，执迷于外表，整容手术猖獗，物欲横流。

对此BYJ有自己的观点，他觉得注重培养和训练内心的人才是真正的美。拥有美的秘诀就是依靠自己的力量超越自己。而公众从来都不会无视这种美。

透过他，我发现了理想的美好，而我在现实生活中曾轻率地遗弃它，放弃它。其实它是可能实现的。于是我去（实现我的理想）吧。当我看到那些兴奋地对着BYJ尖叫的女士们，我觉得很幸福，因为我觉得就象听到这个时代对理想和梦想充满着希望的声音（不论现实怎样）。

我感谢他，是他让我有了梦想。
我感谢他，是他让我有了希望，让我觉得生命是有意义的。
我告诉你BYJ的内心使我沉迷。

当然，作为铁杆FANS，继续保持追星生活，这只是另一个因素。

因为很多热情高涨，全力投入的裴迷，真是令人赞叹。

因为这个故事需要其他的篇章。

我会拖到下一次，不敢保证哈。
 
 

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英文原文：

Dear Markus nim, you have asked why we like BYJ, haven't you?
By waterWater posted this on the Talk Box of BYJ's official home.
December 5, 2006

Dear Markus nim. I appreciated your writing very much.

Why (do people) like Bae Yongjoon? You've asked it, haven't you.
It is the question I also ask myself after I became his fan.
Why do I like this person?

Dear Markus nim, you have asked BYJ's fans.
What aspects have you found from him??
What in him has captured you???

I am a fan who came to like him while watching the 'Winter Love Song'.
I have never liked any other entertainer prior to that, nor do I have any eye for acting.
I watched that drama,
I spend dream-like days for a while since that time.
Phenomena that I cannot understand and cannot explain, was happening in myself.

By the way, not only myself, but most of so-called his fans would indulge in him as if they are dreaming or are getting enchanted, and those processes and symptoms are very similar each other regardless of countries. I wonder if BYJ may have shown a universal something that was transcending time and space in the Winter Love Song?

Thus, I will rearranged the question.
What aspect of BYJ in the 'WLS' have you indulged in?
What in him did make you to dream and to get enchanted?

1.There is something in him.

Minhyeong says that there is no reason for love.
I do not agree with that.
One cannot love anyone.
Although one may not know at that time, to be attracted to someone is,
no matter if it was illusion or misunderstanding,
to have seen decisive and fatal something that one likes from that person.

I became blind and deaf at his beaury.

As reflected in my eyes, he was a beauty, itself.

Thus, I would like to start talking with his beauty first.
Balance and Harmony is the chapter one verse one of the beauty.
From many sides of BYJ, I see esthetics of exquisite balance and harmony.

First, physical condition he was born with is beautiful in itself.
Basically, he is the typical model of balance and harmony.
When one sees still face and physical condition, ratio of each part and entire body is almost perfect.
Both Closed up face and shape of body shown in full shot ,
no matter what part and from what angle they shoot, give sense of stability and comfortable feeling visually.
However, I am not insisting that he is the best looking actor.
Actually, there are many stars who are handsome.
I see that handsome stars other than him exist at present and will continue to appear in the future.

As far as I think, BYJ's magic formula, that open secret,
starts in mobile moments when his physical conditions are alive and moving,
that is from his expressions and gestures, and from when he starts talking.
There are people who seem to be mean and superficial from expresions, ways of talking, or behaviors
when they start talking or move, although they are wonderful when they assumes poses like still objects, aren't they?

In contrast to them, when he smiled lightly by slightly raising head up, when he greeted bowing politely,
when he strode with stable steps, I felt dizzy anew in each moment and got enchanted (to him).

That is right. BYJ enchants ladies with each of tiny expression, of small gesture, of one phrase lines.
Ah, he even made grandmothers fall down. Is that because of acting ability? If that is the case, why on the earth do those countless women gett enchanted in group like that by his acting, leaving alone other genious actors with acting power?

BYJ's fans are ajumma(married women).
Mass com would connect word ajumma with him in cynical nuance.
He may possibly have relatively more ajumma fans than young woman fans.
If it is so, why is it?

Youth is period of disorderly dream & rebellion, and whirlwind & raging waves.
Unbalances clashe and shatter making discord, and at times desires destruction.
Youth is not a period when dream and reality are not clearly divided yet.
Because everything is open as possibility, they are not particularly thirsty for dream.
They are generation who themselves are dream. It is time to progress experiments.

Youth would not praise esthetics of balance and harmony.
(Balance and harmony....they get sleepy..)

However.., elder sisters in this era, who returned (home) and are standing in front of mirror* (Quote from famous poem)
saw through BYJ their dreams,
that they put aside, gave up, or forgot as they got hurt from reality
or just left alone halfheartedly.
They saw POSSIBILITY of an existence, who seems to stand at antipode from the world
which is dotted with competition, shouts reality supremacy,
and where material is almighty with evaporated spirit,
the existence tho is pure and clear, and spreading as fragrance of classical grace.
(Am I exaggerating too much? Haha)
They saw a certain suggestion that love, pure love, and more than anything,
spirit can be possible in present reality.
That is, the thing those women saw through him with fluttering heart was
their dream, their ideal world.

An ideal, when it becomes a word, is apt to become embarrassing and childish.
Such lines that were bound to be childish at glance,
in moments they are out going through his lips, approached me as pure beauty not comedy, with truthfulness and with pursuasive power.
His acting has attracting force, moved hearts in many people,
and had lingering sounds and ringing for a long time since then.

How was it possible?

it is because that in each and every moment of his gestures and expressions,
his inner self was drawn up and reflected all the time, isn't it?
It is because deep inner aspect of that man was reflected in his acting,
so that they became unseparably one, isn't it?
It is because that they sensed without knowledge his out side and inside, the balance of those two, and
beauty created from that balance, from his expression, gesture, and way of talking,
although they may not have yet realized themselves at that time, isn't it?

There contained depth & truthfulness to life in his expression,
and beauty of moderation & dignity in his gesture.
From expresion, gesture and talk at each and every moment, there comes out simple, not boisterous or exaggerated, inner fragrance, that is unique to BYJ.
From tiny expression & small gesture, and talks at each and every moment,
his deep well like inner self is drawn up and is reflected delicately, exquisitely, and minutesly.

Suppose that outer appearance of perfect beauty is put on a scale plate in one end of wooden bar of a balance,
his inner fragrance keeps balance by becoming a weight in the opposite end, It spreads from the point of contact where this inner aspect and out side meet...

BYJ's aura stems from here.

2. With what aspect of him, do general fans develope into hard core fans?

Even if a certain actor was an attractive character in film or drama,
that effective period is not generally that long.
Although we meet and get attracted throught works, thinking just 'uh that person was pretty good in that work'
we usually let that star go easily along with the work.

However, for BYJ there are many hard core fans whom he calls so-called family.
Why do family, as he calls, that is
fans who believes him unconditionally, happen?
Have fans unconditionally believed him from the beginnig after all?

No.
In this world, who would believe others unconditionally? Even it is for a long period of time?

BYJ's hard core fans are
people who watched him and CONFIRMED while SEEING, SEEING, and SEEING AGAIN
invariable consistency from his talks and behavior.
That is right. We believe him because
we believe that he is trustworthy person.

As I have said, it is about 3 years for me to become full-scale fan.
From old (news) articles on him, I read tracing back this and that way during that period, to present,
there is surprising, and almost amazing invariable consistency in him.

He always tells fans not to worry about how he would lead his own life, and
tells that he would live hard. In the world, age in which dust of world settled on, a man reaching at the middle of 30,
says consistently I WILL LIVE WELL all the time.
He talks all the time in public in front of fans these words, WILL LIVE WELL,
which seem to be in morals textbook, meaning that he will live ideal life for others to see and for him to think himself,
It is to make sure to himself, isn't it?

He tells his own dream.
And, he showed fierce will and principle to accomplish that dream.

In his life, there are big picture, dream(for example, want to produce films, would like to creat Asia Current,
am greatly interested in environment, etc.) as he pursues and principle to accomplishing this dream.
One step slowerly, but not hurriedly, and he does not make unnecessary extra.(For selection of work, he avoid repeating and mass producing similar works. Thus we fans are in agony. We would like to see your face a little, without condition!!!)

In other words, he knows what he is doing and why he is doing that.
In footsteps he puts foword observing principles to accomplish his own dream, although he would not step forward with dazzling gestures, he has courage of not avoiding in necessary mements.(his remarks of Too big scars to forget, etc,, his attitude of accepting his own mistake in a press conference after an accident in front of hotel during his second official visit to Japan, development of Hallyu contents through Key East, and participation in current Hallyu Expo, etc,)

Bearing a big picture of purpose of his won life, that is dream,
and step by step process to accomplish that,
he shows amazing sense of balance of relentlessly objectifying himself, being distanced by one step.

Because of that his way of life also shows that of harmony and balance.
It is also a aspect of person BYJ, who cannot limit himself in acting alone,
although he can do better acting than any others if he is crazy about acting alone(as told by Kim Taewoo in GQ interview).

What is his appearance of meeting each and every moment for him who has a big picture for his own life?

He told that he lived thinking 'One chance One time'.
That one time would not come but that once time.
That is, (he will) do all hsi best at present moment he is meeting now.
In other word, he is saying conscious life, faithful to present at each moment.

That ordinarily sound talk is not a matter to be slighted at all when it comes to actual practice.
At least for my self, I am a person who strays easily and would like to live more comfortably being lazy whenever I have chance.
However, he never lets go a moment negligently
no matter it is in shooting site, fan autographing session, or in any kind of meeting with his fans.

Through consistently same modesty and meticulous & deeply thoughtful consideration, he MOVES his fans.
(Because of such tenseness, he himself had suffered from sleepless nights from neurosis.)

He would not do single phrase of talk or single behavior carelessly.
At least, he tries to be faithful to hwat he had said, and
even when there is error that is different from what he had intended, he never gives excuse.

He shows virtues, we in modern era are losing, by personifying with his own talks and behavior.
He know well the weight of his talk and behavior, and he always knows well what to say,
why he has to say, and how he has to do by himself.
And he push himself forward continuously like that.

Path of his life progresses toward ideal, dream, that he pursues.
That pursuit of ideal can be definitely read in his will to train his body to the extent to be too severe.
His never satisfying heart to improve his body
added detailedness and exquisiteness to his naturally born body shape in perfect ratio,
by imposing himself strict management of professional exercise and diet.

How can I say it.
When his beautiful body shape in golden section
corresponds to balanced design on general life of himself,
the small muscles in each part of his body that he acquired through exercise,
by exquisitely sculpturing himself by removing unnecessary extras,
may correspond to each and every mement he leads with deep thought and deep consideration.

From his body also, he pursued refined beauty removing unnecessary extras.
He pursues challenge against his own limits.

That attracting power, that magic formula, as shown by him in the drama 'WLS',
was made possible due to such beauty extending all aspects, wasn't it?

The more he plays the characters that maximize such beauty, the stronger that impact, and number of woman who indulged in him also become more. I wonder if the 'WLS' was the drama where he he showed by mzximizing his beauty he had 'in that particular time'.

When inquiring only by outer appearance, his beauty could have been more brilliant during more youthful period.  However, in BYJ as seen in my eyes, mature dim fragrance is getting impregnated more deeply in his face and each gesture as he gets ages.(Actually, I do not know him in his youthful period.)

BYJ is endlessly evolving even now. The 'Tae Wang Sa Shin Gi" is a drama
that is expected as a turning point to strongly expose evolving BYJ of present once again.
I have hig expectation in his charisma, powerful while queit, and mythology to be written a new by hin who became great king literally in both inner aspect and outside.

For current generation at the time, clinging to outer looks, where plastic surgeries are rampant and material is becoming idol.
BYJ suggests many points.
The point that true beauty is a lot for person who cultivates and trains inside of self.
Secret of beauty possessed by him lies on fierce will to overcome himself.
And the public will never miss such beauty at all.

Through him, I discover beauty of ideal that I roughly left behind and gave up in reality,
and that it is possible (to realize dream) in reality.

Thus, I do. While watching women who scream shouts of joy at BYJ,
I feel fortunate because I feel as if I hear voice in this era
that places hope in ideal and dream despite (reality).

I thank him for becoming dream.
And, I thank him for becoming hope that
life is still worth to live.

I told you what inn BYJ I become indulged in.
However, for hard core fans to continuously maintain fan life, there is still another factor.

It is because there are many fans to him who has tremendous passion, and are devoted, and wonderful.
As this story requires another piece of writing,

I will put off to next opportunity that I cannot promise.