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下班以后决定去剪头发。熟识的女孩子不在，给我剪头发的是一个面生的女孩子，开始我还没觉得，但是坐下来以后，椅子太低了，女孩子竟然没有踩椅子调整高度，而是很紧张地弯着腰开始整理我的头发，我暗自觉得不好。然后她帮我分头路的时候分在正中间，不是我自然的头路，我说我的头路在这里，她说如果分偏头路，她可能会剪得两边不齐，我又是咯噔一下，呵呵。左右看看，忽然很想走人了，我是短头发，剪得不好的话是很明显的。
但是女孩子已经开始弯着腰兢兢业业地开始剪了，一边剪一边问我是不是短到这里就可以了，虽然她拿剪刀，捋头发的手势，连我这个外行看着都是很生硬，但是看着她因为紧张而有点粉红的脸颊，她看着我头发专注的眼神，我都不好意思说什么。
时间一点点过去了，女孩子还在那里弯着腰，左右对比着，反复决定是不是要剪掉某簇头发，然后不时地抬头看看我的表情。为了不让她更紧张，我也很累了，于是索性闭起眼睛养神了。
忽然想起来，我只不过是把头发交给一个陌生人，谁能够想象，那些在医院的病人，把自己的生命交给素不相识的人，而且知道他们是如果这个理发的女孩子一样的新手。有时候在医院上班的时候，我们之间会相互抱怨，那个病人真是很demanding，什么都要问，那个家属好难缠啊，要求多得不得了，现在想来都是可以理解的。
坐在那个椅子上，我忽然很有感触，呵呵。
花了不少时间，头发终于剪好了。我几乎要睡着了。转了一圈看看，其实挺不错的，cute的波波头，临走的时候还买了他们的树茶油薄荷香波和护发素，买一送一。我说你剪得很好看，我很喜欢，女孩子很开心，连声跟我说谢谢。
回到家里，迎面是下午的阳光，前几天买的雏菊应和着窗外的秋阳，边上是德国买的花园天使。即兴拍照留念，呵呵。
看过之后是会心的微笑.喜欢你的每一篇文章. （ZT）
我总在你这儿潜水，几乎没冒过泡。今天没憋住，呵呵。
非常喜欢你的心情故事，也感谢你上次提供的乙肝的知识。
你对纵然平行的答复，我也极其赞赏！
punny,泳者，frog rain thunder,谢谢你们的留言，很开心可以和你分享这些小小的片断，并且能够远远隔着网络，会心地微笑。：）
的确如此，在刚出道的时候，很多新手似乎都是这么战战兢兢的，一些宽容一些信任一些谅解是对他们很好的鼓励 ：）
顺便冒昧一下，致纵然平行，同一个窗口不可能既有清晨又有傍晚的阳光，这是一个常识；是景激发了人的创作愿望，还是为拍照而拍照，又是两个问题。何必苛求别人完美？这样有些想当然，又稍嫌卖弄，偏离了读博以及沟通的意义：）
纵然平行，yeah right, you wrote whole long piece of comment then ask me to rest well? hehe.
i don't know many female residents you know, but your comment is very biased, just like your opinion about female as always, i mentioned before in your blog.but there is nothing to argue about, as we all have different perspectives of this world.
about the "cheese", i got it from a garden store, it was never designed as a nightstand, i don't know where you get this idear, hehe.
sorry for the water, i didn't change for 3 or 4 days since i am in ICU this month and barely awake when i come home, but also because the flowers come with some "powder" that you can put in the water to make flower last longer, that might contribute to the water color too.
and i wish i can see the sunshine in the morning, but i always have to go work early and rarely enjoy it, that's why i am so excited to see the sunshine when i came back.
i don't want to swear on anything because this is really not a big deal, and i don't know what kind of training you had to make you so confident giving judgement here. after all, how many things in this world you are actually sure about?
this is just a small diary i wrote about a moment of my day, and turns out i have to spend more time to explain it, which totally ruins the pleasure when i was writing it.sigh...
In case you get offended by my coments, you can laugh at me at my expense. Nowadays, guys like us work in financial sector are hopelessly believed by people in NYC or elsewhere as wicked demons with severe delusional disorders, who have been indulging their greed in a de-moralized zone and careless about the rest of the world :(. Are you feeling a little better now ?
Back to your realization about relinquishing control, it certainly holds true that letting an inexperienced hair stylist messes round a person’s hair may not result in same devastating consequence as that causes by an incorrect decision from a young doc ( after all, hair do grow back, yet a mistake from medical fields may not be so forgiven ). However, to put things in perspective, your reflection might touch a good point. Simple fact is that laying back and putting faith in other person’s hands is easy said than done in many circumstances; many of us may need to learn the art to steer clear from control-in-all-the-time mode and give other people a chance.
Allow me to shift lighter side, In reference to your pic on the top, few things puzzle me . a. Who moved the “cheese” ? ( substitute “cheese” with nightstand) b. The water in flower vase/pitcher appeared to be about a week old. c. Based upon the angle that sunrays traveled trough the windows the time frame for the picture to be taken seemed to be in the morning rather than in the afternoon.
Do you see I am tormenting you by taxing your patience and integrity ?
Rest well.