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珍惜和孩子在一起的时光(组图）

(2010-12-13 11:46:19) 下一个

圣诞节快到了，

如果您的孩子还在牙牙学语，敬请您珍惜神所赐的天伦之乐。

如果您的孩子还没有步入青少年，敬请您和孩子一起装饰您家的圣诞树。

如果您的孩子还在上高中，敬请您把握这即将从指缝中溜走的家庭时刻（Family time)。

如果您和我一样，有在外地读大学的孩子要回来和您一道过节的话，敬请您好好的享受这样的美好时光。

因为，只是因为
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吉祥一家人 2010-12-17 07:30:17 回复 悄悄话 太感动了.
成长 2010-12-15 09:34:56 回复 悄悄话 各位同学：
人各有志，还是尊重每一位的价值观和生活态度吧，如果全世界人的想法都一样，反倒是麻烦的一件是呢。

祝：大家上网玩的开心。
mikecwu 2010-12-14 21:29:01 回复 悄悄话 回复cat3的评论:Here's the reason: more Chinese in America will be good for everyone of us: it creates a better social environment, more political clout (more votes), a bigger Asian market, thus better career opportunity for our children, and children's children. In order to achieve bigger population, we need to have more children.

Now, most people currently don't have enough children because of misguided values. I would like to do my part to correct people's value and make more people aware of the benefit of having more children. That's why I keep posting blogs to reiterate benefits of children.

Some people like you will get annoyed by my blog, and I understand that. But this annoyance will not change your mind to have fewer children. You will not say, I had planned on having 4 children, but since mikecwu posted repeatedly on the Internet on the benefit of children, I now will only have 2 just to piss him off. In other words, my posting will not have any negative effects on our population increase.

However, it can have a positive impact on our population. When couples are debating if to have another child, if they see posting on children's benefits, whether it's the joy of children can bring to parents' life, or well being siblings can provide to each other, they will more likely to be influenced to have more children.

My goal is to do my part to build a better future for my descendants. In doing so I might annoy some people, but there is no way to get around it.
眯眯眼儿 2010-12-14 18:01:37 回复 悄悄话 回复mikecwu的评论:
你可真是生命不息，生育不止啊！
你的“语录”让人晕。。。
cat3 2010-12-14 14:41:41 回复 悄悄话 回复mikecwu的评论:
I don't like to see you leave the same comment for every post and for every author. That does not mean I like to have less children and will persuade other to do so. As you said, this is called speech freedom. I just want express my thought on your comment. You seem have nothing to say other than "have more children" no matter what topic is for the article.

成长 2010-12-14 13:31:33 回复 悄悄话 谢谢大家的回帖，今天比较忙，俺就不一一的回应了。

天下的父母心都是一样，今天我们自己做了父母才知道父母心的真谛。

祝大家圣诞快乐！
mikecwu 2010-12-14 11:37:54 回复 悄悄话 回复cat3的评论: This is called freedom of speech. You can also try to persuade people not to have any children if that's your opinion, and no one will object to it. Let readers make their own informed decision.
cat3 2010-12-14 10:05:13 回复 悄悄话 回复mikecwu的评论:
Don't always try to persuade others to have more children. It's people's own choice. Everytime I see you leave your comments is encouraging others to have more children.
R01grant 2010-12-14 09:59:57 回复 悄悄话 Serously agree!
3021 2010-12-14 08:30:34 回复 悄悄话 好文，好文！好感动。就要过年啦，就想着回去，可离的太远啦，又有第四个在肚里，飞机不让上呀。可还有第第回呢，往大家新年过好。
mikecwu 2010-12-14 02:07:08 回复 悄悄话 孩子带来的幸福是任何物质都不能相比的。

我们计划4个孩子。等最小的长大的时候，老大估计会给我们孙辈了。我们会永远享受孩子。

如果你那么喜欢孩子，问问自己，只要1－2个孩子是不是太傻了？
cat3 2010-12-14 00:31:06 回复 悄悄话 Before reading your article, I just felt very bad that I lost pateince at my daughter last weekend when she couldn't memorize the piano piece. Today, I told myself I should treat her something at school when picking her up. I took her to the mall and bought her a hello kitty. She was very happy, and did very well at the piano teacher's later today.:-) Now she is asleep with the hello kitty.

Your article made me miss my mom and day. :-( No matter how close the parents and the child, like my parents and me, there will be one day that the child will leave them and have her (his) only family. :-(

And as always, happy time goes fast. The only thing we can do is cherish the present.

眯眯眼儿 2010-12-13 23:17:18 回复 悄悄话 多谢美贴，感动ING。。。

会与朋友们分享

孩子的成长只有一次，好好珍惜。
成长 2010-12-13 22:46:21 回复 悄悄话 回复小三毛流浪记的评论:
妳，妳，妳别吓俺啦，妳儿子才二岁妳就恐惧他离开，那我们这些“老家伙”怎么办？呵呵。

我们就是当了父母才终于明白父母对子女的那颗心，那是一颗永远放不下的心。

问好！
成长 2010-12-13 22:42:58 回复 悄悄话 回复SINEAD4273的评论:
妳别乱说哦，我看过妳儿子，好乖好sweet，我觉得他将来会粘妳的，而且妳的LG又那么宠妳，儿子一定不愿意走远的。
成长 2010-12-13 22:40:16 回复 悄悄话 回复麻辣教师的评论:
真的吗？那将来如果大家能见面，俺可是要考你的哦。
问教师好！
成长 2010-12-13 22:38:34 回复 悄悄话 回复ganster的评论:
谢谢你喜欢，问好！
小三毛流浪记 2010-12-13 17:34:20 回复 悄悄话 这只有做父母才有的感受啊！好文！！！我的儿子才2岁，我已经很恐惧他要离开我的那一天。就像我离开自己的父母一样。我刚刚才给自己的母亲说，今年我不回来过年了。现在看到你的文字，仿佛看到了我的妈妈暗中失望的表情。因为我觉着，现在的一家就是我们三个，哎，我仿佛看到了几十年后的我，和我妈妈一样在叹息！谢谢你，我更珍惜和孩子在一起的日子，再累也是这么快乐！
SINEAD4273 2010-12-13 17:19:26 回复 悄悄话 是的， 是的。

俺也这么对自己说的。 知道儿子大了， 每年来看一次， 你就好感谢了。

刚才俺还在跟俺妈说呢， 我的儿子不会想我这样这么靠近父母的！

谢谢！
麻辣教师 2010-12-13 17:02:46 回复 悄悄话 太精彩了，偶要背下来O(∩_∩)O
ganster 2010-12-13 13:35:40 回复 悄悄话 awesome! Very touching indeed.
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