Ithinkthedifferencebetweenacrushandaninfatuationisonlyindegreeand
neitherofthemisevenclosetothemeaningofreallove.Iperceiveacrushto
besomethingratherplatonic.Forexample,yourbestfriend'sbrotherisa
cutieandyouhaveacrushonhim,thattypeofthing.
Aninfatuationisintenseandoftentimes,shortlived.Ininfatuation,people
tendtoidealizetheotherpersonandfailtoseetheirshortcomings.They
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